I try not to make it hard for anyone...I don't want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with me...but it is getting to be a burden when i keep putting my needs last in comparison to what will make them happy and comfortable...but it seems it has become a way of life for me now....because i'm always trying to show some man or the other that i only want as much as the next woman...nothing more...
Ladies...I am so tired of this game i can't begin to tell you...
I have heard (in the nicest way of course) that i am not for real..that i am just a player that if i really wanted someone i would be with someone now...that i give the appearance of being unattainable...and dozens of messages from men that say they "know they don't have a chance with me..."
I am so fed up of trying to accommodate them....of trying to make them see that i'm just like everyone else looking for the same things as everyone...Love and Life...
I understand that...but sometimes...its there..you know its there and you know they are feeling it too....but for whatever reason they are afraid of the "unknown"...so would you still say walk away...even if you in your heart feel there is where you belonged??
Reading a book tonight where this subject has come up....
What would you do it the person (man or woman) you want and feel is "the one" for you...does not want you in return...
Would you give up?...Would you press on?
And please don't equate this with a "stalking" situation...i'm not referring to that type of thing...
You know sometimes what is best for you is right in front of you and for the taking...but something holds you back and you don't give that person a chance...so my question is what can you do if you feel you are the right person for someone...but they can't see it?
Well then...put yourself in his place...how would you feel about this very same situation...and how would you feel if your girlfriend was doing this...perhaps that may answer your question???
Just curious...does her current boyfriend know she has offered to "help" you out again...it might give you a clue as to where this is headed if you have an answer to that....
I would say she had as much fun as you did in the time you both were together...and she'd like to do it again....but she's letting you know up front it won't be any more than that (hence the "boyfriend") thing...
In my opinion...if you're game...so is she...no strings attached...
Geez people...its just as hypothetical question...not one that will obligate you to anyone if you put their name down...and the only reason i said someone from this site is so that we can see what "interests" you...i mean...you never know right???
No one is going to think you REALLY DO THIS if you answer you know!!
Hi Bobby...wet evening huh??...I don't really know..I like to be driven around...because i like to look at everything...I like to go to amusement parks...all the laughter there is awesome..and i like candy apples...lol...I do like to walk and "window" shop...
I get sea sick...that's why i don't like sailing...I don't like camping because i'm scared to sleep in case a bear comes...you know stuff like that...HEY!!! I'm not the only one that likes to watch horror movies!!....Oh yeah...i like to watch horror movies...at home!!
Thanks Katine...i reallly don't think he was trying to be insultive...I think he just sees me that way...he's not understanding that we don't have anything in common...and what i may enjoy he does not...and vice versa...
I was just really wondering if there are in fact men who would be happy to have a partner who is a homebody or if my interests in outside activiites would expand if i were with a person who's company i enjoyed...
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You Want Him...He Doesn't Want You...
I try not to make it hard for anyone...I don't want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with me...but it is getting to be a burden when i keep putting my needs last in comparison to what will make them happy and comfortable...but it seems it has become a way of life for me now....because i'm always trying to show some man or the other that i only want as much as the next woman...nothing more...