I believe everyone at some point in their life has had those thoughts..."wish i could take it back....do it another way..." but the reality is that you can't...so what would be the point on dwelling on it...
Unless of course it is something you should have "learned" something from and are prepared to do something about that...
Hey Rebecca...your words are mine...and though i do appreciate the encouraging words of people such as Cherie..and it does keep that pinpoint of hope alive...I guess i'm a realist too...(unfortunately because i wasn't always that way...)
But at night when i stretch my hand out and once again i feel that empty place beside me...or sleep on the couch just so i can rest my back up against it and feel like i'm leaning against someone...
I repeat your words in my head...So, is there a "perfect" man out there for me? Nope and I don't expect him to be...
Thanks Pete I don't think alot of people have met Lene in person..I know she has alot of friends on here (she was actually one of my first friends on here and if it weren't for her i would have left this site within the first month of joining...she may not remember that but i will never forget... )
And of late a few more people have met Cran...
Hopefully one of them will come on here and say what they thought of you...I don't think very many have met you either...
Who on this site have you either met, or chatted with "real time" on the webcam...and what can you say about them?
**and talking on the phone does not count!!...
We want to know about the people you've actually "seen"...are they exactly as their pics portray them? Is their personality the same as it is on the forums?
I'm trying to get my cam working so i can take a new pic...everything just looks so green...Burt was kind enough to help me out while i "adjusted" all the buttons and such....he's such a helpful guy I just don't know why someone hasn't just snapped him up!!
At first i thought i was the only one who was seeing this from a totally different perspective...but then Abra came on..and i had to breathe a sigh of relief...
I don't really think you wanted to meet him, you may have talked yourself into believing you did...but i don't see that...if you really did want to meet him believe me you would have made the time and you would NOT have forgotten you had plans...
I myself know that if i made plans to meet some guy from here...and he kept on putting it off because of "work"...i would definitely feel that he didn't want to really meet me...one day/night off work (especially if it was not his night/day to work) wouldn't hurt...if i meant that much to him...
However...I also would not want to date someone who "pushed" as hard as you said he did, because to me that's just an indication of what our "relationship" will be in the future...
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RE: A "sleeping with" question
Gotta love a man who knows why they get into bed at night!!