I most certainly did not wear a dress today Bobby...did you get a load of that wind that was happening out there...did you want my dress to fly up and for all to see my...you know...knickers???
Again...i'm agreeing with the parents responses here...but once again thats why i said that it is a good opportunity to "teach" your child how to react in such a situation...
My children know that when they go to school the teachers and administrative staff are the "authority" figures there...so yes if they were told by a teacher they would most likely do whatever was asked of them...unless they knew it was against MY RULES..and then in that case they don't care who you are..they will tell you their "MOM" said......
Thats why i also love the forums...you get to "meet" and "know" people in such a different way...
Depending on how they react to different topics...you can really get a "feel" of the person...and though they may not have been someone you would have initially shown an interest in (based on their profile/picture alone) you find yourself drawn (or repulsed!!) to them based on their "views"...
You can make some really awesome friends this way...
Very simple...we try very hard to make you feel a valuable part of this forum...we all are..so we respond so that no one feels that their topic of choice was not least making an attempt at...for myself..i find it increasingly difficult to follow your threads, and where exactly you are going with them...
Your question here is "unethical"...why would you ask it???
Hi Allen...I kind of get a kick out of "bum" touching too...think its a funny/cute term!! How is Becca these days...how come she doesn't join us on the Canada forums...
By the way...that big stick you were talking about...was it attached to anything??....
I'm thinking because its "out of season" there should be lots available...but if you "reserve" a room somewhere at least you KNOW where you're staying...and i'm not sure...maybe some folks would like to "mingle" before the actual dinner...
I think that's what i probably meant Puck...I don't like the "pressure" of a first date, so i prefer to do something that is "just me"..which is the atmosphere of a "fair"...all that energy and laughing...and bright (shiney) lights...tee hee...awesome!!
I too think that i would save the "romantic" dinner type of thing for the second or third date...by that time i'm more "comfortable" in his company...
do you know that the perfect first date for me would be to go to a "fair" (or amusement park type of thing)...I know its not the best place to really "chat"...but the atmosphere is the real me...
I don't disagree with the "reactions" of the parents posted on here..but i would just like to add..
This is a perfect opportunity to "teach" your child how you want them to react in a given situation...sometimes its hard for children to understand your "fears" when you are just telling them, until it happens...they can't see the how it affects you...
Sorry Sylvain....guess i was mixing up your question with some of the answers i was reading posted here...
And just as a note...unless a person is being "offensive" i do not consider it being "harrassed" (or any other such thing) by having someone send me flowers/messages...that is what they are here on a dating site for...to try and meet people...if they are going "overboard" with the messages/flowers then i guess i would have to at that time send them a message to that effect...
Also..there are some who have become my "friend" through sheer persistance...lol...and they still remain my "friends" though there was no "romantic" connection there...
You are definitely not doing anything wrong...but neither are the women (perhaps they are inconsiderate or even impolite)..but not wrong...that is their perrogative...to respond or not to respond..part and package of this type of "internet" dating...
Myself personally, I like a "flower" showing some sort of interest..and then a "message"...it gives me the opportunity to read over the persons profile before getting to the "messaging" stage
Of course this is only my opinion, and what works for me...
If there is any way you can make the november 11th get together...please come...
It is a way of meeting some of us in person, and then perhaps after that...knowing we are "friends" you will hopefully take a step forward in overcoming your shyness on here....
I'm afraid i have never been a "shy" person...quite opposite in fact if you ask my mother...so i can't really identify with that...but i do try to be understanding of someone who is...and try very hard to make them feel "comfortable"...I love people!!
Make sure and bring warm clothes and a warm jacket....do you own one of those????
As for the get together...geez kitty cat...even i don't know what i'm wearing..
Though i did call the club and ask them what their dress code is (yes i do that...lol) He said that "casual" is fine, but no torn jeans, hats, hoodies..that sort of thing (as if i own such things!!! )
That still leaves me at a loss as to what to wear...someone did suggest a "dress"...
No no....really...I could use something to get my "mojo" going this morning...I have to go to work and just can't seem to get "motivated" this morning....hmmmmm....must be missing "something" this morning...can't seem to put my hand on it...
I really should be going to bed...i just got home a while ago from work..and have the opening shift in the morning...but i'm kind of "lonesome" tonight...missing something...but not sure what it is...
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RE: ethics
That wasn't your original question...two very different scenarios...