You have decided what is good for you...and that is to use whatever profanity you wish, and to speak it in any given circumstance or conversation that pleases you....
Others have made the same choice...not to be so "in your face" with the curse words they use...
What difference does it really make...its simply a matter of choice..
You know most of us have a picture or image in our heads of "who" we really are... Whether that's based on the opinions of others, how we see ourselves in our own minds or whatever...
Given all that...do you feel you are who you THINK you are???
Nope....like i said...our time came and went...I do not go back where i've already been...I don't revisit my past...I can't..I would have way to much "baggage"...
I wish him well...but it won't be with me...when i've had enough..i've had enough and i move on...no hard feelings...I have way to much to offer someone to be sitting around "waiting" on someone and something i can't be sure of...
Maybe i'm missing some essential "emotional" part...
I don't "move too quickly" in a relationship...because right from the start i know what i want out of that relationship..have always worked that way for me...and i can go literally years without having a "relationship"..because when i do committ to one..i am in it for the "long haul" and give 110% of my devotion to making that work...
So when i walk away from something, regardless of what the reasons were for ending it...I never look back...it doesn't matter how much i loved or still love that person...i am still prepared to walk away....
Perhaps because at some point the reality of understanding that i only have this one chance at living my life...that is all i can offer someone else...their one chance at living that life with me..its up to them whether to take it or leave it...and if circumstances separate us...then i look at it as fate stepping in and closing a door...
Geez...I got a call way too late last night...and just remembered i agreed to meet a friend for lunch today....now i'm just dreading it...I am so used to my usual lunch routine that anything that disrupts it throws me off....
Its not a matter of him "returning to my life"...I have learned the hard way to let the past live in the past...
He is fireman/medic and two years ago there were bush fires raging out of control in the states he was called back because he specialized in that field and they needed his expertise...I understood that...so i guess the "break up" was a good one (is there ever such a thing?)
But remember 2 years have passed...two years of no communication (we had both decided on that because things were difficult as it were...what was the point?)
Do people really believe you can just "pick up where you left off"??
Let me give you a scenario....and then give your opinion as to what you would do...
You meet someone...they are all that you could hope for...things move along (quite quickly)...then he is called "home" for an emergency (due to his which is in Nevada)...you cannot leave to go because of your commitments here...and he decides that he needs to go...that was 2 years ago,.....and there was no communication during that time...
Now he has come back...and wants to pick up where you left off...
So would you "try again"...or would you chalk that up to "experience" and water under the bridge that cannot be retrieved...
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RE: i really don't know if this is the right category...
Time to post my "song" to you...Hotel California....The Eagles..
"You can check out any time you like...but you can never leave...."