I once had a customer in the store i worked at brush his hand across my breast (it was crowded that day, but i knew and he knew what he had done...) I punched off the time clock, came back and found him asked him if he'd like to step outside....because i was going to kill him....I was that angry...
I cannot tell you how much i hate being touched by someone who most certainly does not have my permission to put their hands on me!!
As "Catch me" said..if i've taken down my "walls" long enough to even be at the starting "gate" with a man...I've let him into my life...most don't even get that chance...because like someone else said..I don't give "encouragement" when there is none there...and that does NOT necessarily mean it was just 'HIM'...it could have just been "circumstances" at the time...
I would like to say i take it slow...lol...I don't..however..I do for the sake of the other person...because if i didn't think there was something there already...he wouldn't be "in my life"...
I am afraid of being hurt...however, if i'm that afraid, then i should not be "dating"...so i choose to put my past behind me and move on...i'd only be hurting my own self more by not allowing someone into my life to share it with me
I don't want to settle on anyone...and i don't want anyone to settle on me either though...I want us both to know its "each other" we want in our lives...
Been kind of thinking about this one...and I guess I would have to honestly say i'd have to know the "crime" and its circumstances before giving an answer...
People make "mistakes" all the time...it would depend on the severity of that mistake, because i do have children i need to protect...and that's not always from just "strangers"...
Hey Johnny...nice to see you out and about on the forum...do you happen to be free on November 11th that you can come to the get together we're planning???...We would all love to meet you!!
LOL...I'm going to have to brush up on my "flirting" skills...i've become quite accustomed these past years of just saying exactly what i'm thinking...exactly how i'm feeling...and "coy" did not enter my head at all!!!
Perhaps you are choosing the wrong "outing" for your first dates...
If you are not "outgoing" and "funny"...but choose an atmosphere where that will be noticeable...then yes its going to be glaringly obvious...
We are having a get together in Whitby on the 11th...would you like to perhaps come and meet some of us..be yourself...be relaxed...and see who else is there...maybe meeting someone this way may help...
Well i think i would like that too...kind of...do the "wild animals" come into the yard?..or do they have like somewhere else to "hang out"??...and ummm...how close is the nearest store...like more than 1 mile??
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RE: Taking Responsibility
Morning Burt...I'll take full responsibility for you!!