At the very top of the page there is a "give feedback" option...that is a way of letting the moderators know what you are interested in..also there is a "forum topic" option for making a suggestion and getting a sort of "poll" on how many would be interested...
I know for myself that i have "annoyed" (my own take) alot of men on here because i refuse to become involved with them for the exact opposite reason...I don't feel i'd like to be involved with a man who is NOT a dad...personally i don't feel that someone who does not have children can understand the sacrifices one sometimes has to make for the sake of those children...JMO
Still married according to who??? The Law?..A piece of paper?..Society?..who??
Does staying within a marriage stop people from having "affairs"...??
At least separated people had it in them to at least acknowledge to their partner that the marriage was "over"...
There are lots of reasons "separated" people do not rush the "divorce" proceeding...and though YOU may think its about money, it is not always the case...
NOTE**What's the matter optimystic...miss having me on the int'l forum to chase about and harrass???
I myself personally feel that a persons "actions" speak louder than anything they can say to me...
I don't need a man to "spill his guts" to me everyday...what would say that to me even more is if he showed me how he felt about me daily...be it a message, a phone call...or just dropping by to see me.."just because"...those things take much more time and effort than a long speech of how much he "feels" for me...
Well all kinds of things keep people back sometimes...life happens...but i guess part of it is the persistance...I know when i want something (and i'm not just talking about a man here...it could be anything..) I am like a dog with a bone...I'm not letting go until I'M done...
I know there are "lurkers" out there....those are the ones that read the forum topics but don't really post...
What would you like to see on the forum?...What kind of topics would you like to discuss?...and do you have any suggestions to make our Canada Forum a better place to "hang out"???
James from experience all i will say is...if a man does not feel himself "worthy"..then who am i to tell him different?? Certainly he would know himself better than i could...
If he feels he has nothing to offer me or a relationship...then i guess i would have to defer to his judgement...
I have been "separated" for six years...i have had plenty of time to re-evaluate my "marriage" and still come to the conclusion it is not where i want to be...I have known "divorced" people that return to their ex-spouse within a short time of their divorces being final..
And though there are some "issues" to be dealt with in a relationship where the person is "separated" it is no different from "issues" that divorced people have to deal with...especially if there are children involved...and "divorced" doesn't exclude them from hurting anyone in a new relationship...
I had no reason to push for a divorce...I still don't...however i am willing and ready to give one any time he is ready...my marriage is over...
When i was young i believed i was invincible...things happened that made me realize my mortality...what motivates me now is that any "wasted" days i do not get back..and i only have the one time only deal on this life i'm living...
If i don't accomplish all the things i wanted to when my time is up..it won't be for lack of trying...
My motivation daily is to make sure "I" got the most out of the day that i could...
The same way men would have us think that "all men are not the same", we would like the courtesy of having the men also believe "not all women are out for what you've got"...
There are women out here that have "established" themselves and is in no way looking for a "sugar daddy"...some of us pride ourself in our accomplishments and gains...our own hard work paid for it... Men did not corner the market on working hard to have things you know.....
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What would you like to see?
At the very top of the page there is a "give feedback" option...that is a way of letting the moderators know what you are interested in..also there is a "forum topic" option for making a suggestion and getting a sort of "poll" on how many would be interested...