I don't know if its considered "romantic"...but if he could spend an evening with me..cooking together, watching a movie together and let me know he really "enjoyed" my company...rather than he had to..that does it for me...
and what michael said...if he could just let me know he thought of me today...that would mean the world to me...
I just never see the point...unless they want him for themselves...but if they don't...then do they just not want anyone to be "hooked up" if they're not???
Yes it did Froggy Baby...that's why i said i wouldn't care to be involved with someon like that..i'd spend the rest of my life defending myself to him just at the merest hint of a rumour...BTDT..no thanks!!
Anyone on here ever felt that a "budding" relationship with someone on the site has been sabotaged by someone else "behind the scenes"??
NOTE: This is a general question...IF this has happened to me i don't know and i don't care...I would not care to be involved with someone who could so easily be swayed by anothers word...
Thanks Roy...I'm just tired tonight of all the hurt that is caused to people (including myself) because people just won't come out and say what they want or need...
I don't want to second guess anyone...and i don't want them to second guess me...
As I said...more men are getting comfortable saying they are not a "media" groupie..and going back to the "natural" course of things...where a "generous bum" (I like that word!!) is was what what supposed to "attract" them...
I speak primarily English...though i can understand German and respond in a limited way...I also understand Estonian (a dialect of Finnish)..and speak and understand French (though not fluently) however...
I am fluent in the language of Love...does that count???
There was a brotherhood called the "Illuminati"...Gallileo was one of its members...and eventually over time they did immerse themselves into the order of "Masons"...they were a formidable group and I just wondered if that was how you derived your name...
After reading several of the threads today I decided to make this one....
There are so many men and women out there who are prejudged...stereotyped and all that nonsense...and there are just as many posting the "Are there any good ones left"....
Well the answer is yes...but you are overlooking them because "you can't see the forest for the trees..."
I know looks are important...but as even i have come to see..one's pictures because they are one dimensional cannot touch what the person really is three-dimensional...so why base your opinion on the fact that you believe them to be "unattainable, out of your league, snobbish" and any of the other labels that are attached...do their looks attract you or not...that is all the picture should be about...it is certainly not "telling" of their personality!!!!!!!
If you are not interested in them...why not tell them so??? (there are so many on here that say they "tell it like it is"...well here is the time to do it!!!!)
If you want a real relationship...don't start it by telling them how big you c@ck is...or how huge your t!ts are...we'll eventually get to that trust me....
If you are looking for a "one night stand" say so...there are others here intersted in that same thing...but don't waste my time...
I guess what it boils down to is that you feel you have something to offer...and so do I...if we are compatible..great..if not..well there's someone else...I will not die from a broken heart...please give me the courtesy of being honest...Its all i'm asking of you at this point!!!
Mini Hi-jack here...illuminate did you derive your name from the brotherhood of the "Illuminati"???...Just curious...educating myself (according to Dan Brown) about them now...immensely fascinating...
Angel I am very sorry for your hurt...I have felt that heat creep up the back of my neck when i realize i have been played...all these experiences help you to grow and make better and more conscious decisions for yourself...and if you're wondering...we never stop learning!!
Thanks Gaille...that's exactly what i meant...we each mature differently...and i know (as mentioned by someone) i don't like to hurt people's feelings...and before...even though i have always prided myself in being "honest" and "up front"...i may have gone about it in the "long" way...today i do it and let the chips fall where they may...and i expect the same from the people i am with...and not just dating but that i deal with day to day...
I still don't like to hurt or offend people...but it was not until i believe i was in my 30's did i feel comfortable enought to take on a "take it or leave it" attitude...
BTW I appreciate you interpreting the question how it was meant...I had a lot of trouble trying to word the question...I never meant to imply that there is a certain age when one becomes "honest"...but rather a certain age that one becomes "comfortable" with their "honesty"....
I'm sorry you feel that way Luke...I know you haven't been on the forums that long...but my .02 is that when you are trying extra hard to get something...that's when it seems to be just beyond your reach...
As the others have said...slow down and take the time to enjoy yourself...what's for you won't pass you....believe that!
At what age do men/women stop playing "games" and give themselves the right to come out and tell other people (hopefully tactfully) what they want and don't want from them?...they "call it as they see it"
I know there are the chronic "players" and i'm not speaking of them, but rather of the people who at some stage realize that to be successful, whether its in their day to day life or in relationships, they need to speak up?
If you are not interested in someone, or have changed your mind about the type of relationship you have with them...would you come out and say so? If you are only interested in one type of relationship with someone do you come out and say so? Or do you just avoid them and hope they will go away?
I'm really curious as to what age you decided that the best way was to be up front and honest with others...
I had the opportunity to talk to Will on the phone while his kids were with him....I heard how he interacts with his kids...and i'll tell you...he is an awesome dad!!!
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We will definitely miss you Thud...hope you stay safe and come back real soon....and if you happen to find a computer stashed in the cave there somewhere...drop us a line to let us know how you're doing!!
Good Luck my friend!!