Well i don't see this necessarily as "shacking up" because as you said...you're still at the stage where you like each other but not sure yet about the love part... To me its the same as the "getting to know each other", but with the twist of actually having to live with that person day in day out...
Something started this way - two close friends living together - can go either way...you could love the company and it could be a lifetime thing....or you could hate their habits and the friendship is over...
I guess it depends on what chances you are willing to take...
It didn't really matter...I think i could potentially make a new life for myself anywhere...and i'm not worried about work..i have marketable skills...working in the US might be a problem for a bit because i believe i would have to get a "green card" (?)...
Have heard everyone give reasons why they wouldn't have a one night stand...which was not the question by the way...but only Joe coughed up all the names of those who he would have a one night stand with...
Well since this seemed like a good place to start...thought i'd try it this way first....
I am looking for a roommate...not a lover...not a partner...just a roommate...
I am domesticated, well behaved, come with my own things...eat very little and willing to work, and pay my share....and oh yeah...I have no pets or allergies...I do smoke however, and drink socially (ie not a lush...)
How does that sound...think i could run this add in a paper?...Any suggestions how to make myself sound more appealing as a roommate?
I agree Joe...though i applaud your persistance (some women do need it...lol) sometimes you just have to know when to cry "uncle"...but then again...what is the old saying???
You don't know what you're missing til the well runs dry....
Hi Ron...I have gotten the most awesome emails from some wonderful men...very decent very respectable...and all have given me "zero" chance from the starting gate....
They don't even give me a chance to say whether i would be interested or not...they TELL ME what i would feel about them...
I think i'm a good person...the ones off here that have met me..truly saw me as i am...day in day out...no words typed...no picture...just the real me...and still i can't get a foot in the doorway...
I don't know...should i stop looking after myself...should i gain weight...should i just lag about all day...i don't know what will please them...
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A ONE NIGHT STAND....
Me too Fire...been a long time since i've given in to the urge to have just one night of "unbridled passion"....but i do remember those days...And shucks there is one person i'd still do it with now...