Just by looking at her picture i can tell Froggy has coarse thick hair...this type of hair is hard to dye and that gray will not take the colour...also any type of red dyes are the hardest to keep...they wash out very quickly...
How do i know this...lol...there is not a brand of dye or a colour under the sun i have not tried!!
I was trying to make this point yesterday in Dreamer's thread...though i did understand what she was trying to say...but she was having a bad day...so i forgive her for not being her usual open minded self...
I do have children..and i CHOOSE not to date anyone without children, for the simple reason that i don't think they can fully understand the dynamics between a parent and child...i did not imply that they would not try, i'm just saying they can't...
Its the same as listening to someone expound on the evils of smoking and drinking....when they have never smoked or drank a day in their life...how can they know...they can only imagine....
I think Izzy has every right to say what he does or does not want in a relationship up front...it saves a lot of heartache in the end and i would appreciate the honesty of more men that way...don't tell me you are willing to "give it a try" when you know it is not what you want...you are wasting your time and mine...
Lots of things can cause you to gray prematurely Laurie...especially stress...and sometimes it will reverse itself, sometimes just small fragments of that "time" remains...
I was 24 when my daughter died..the very next morning when i woke up i had gone gray....it did eventually go back to its natural colour (whatever that it!!! ) but in the meantime i had to colour my hair...
If you just have a section of hair that's gray and unique..i would keep it for "effect"...but if you are graying all over...you are much to young at 27 for that...you will have plenty of time later in your life to deal with that...enjoy your youth it only comes once..
That is my very very humble opinion...you asked about hair...you my friend will continue to be lovely no matter what you do...
We all have our moments babydoll...we just go with the flow...but don't let it overwhelm you...you've had a lot on your plate to deal with...but you will get through it...just as you always have..
I of course am still standing with my rhinestone slippers waiting for my knight in shining armor...
We must live in the same neighbourhood because the wives here want to stone me when i step foot outside
I joined here hoping to find a partner for life...what i found was the most amazing friends...and a forum that is to die for...well most of the time...sometimes you got to just duck and take cover..
Will i ever find the person for me...I hope so...Will it be here?..who knows...but in the meantime...I'm happy for what i have found...
So do you or don't you care what people say?...and be honest...
Lots of us say we really don't care...but deep inside we do...we've all learned how to "hide" behind things...be it humour, looks, intelligence whatever the case...but we do hide..
Sure Froggy...some are not as able to pick up the pieces, hide their hurt and move on as others... I do it because i genuinely want love in my life...but i'm just as capable of sabotaging my own relationships because i'm always waiting for the other "shoe to drop"...so i jump the gun...
I have been hurt over and over...I have let people tell me who I am, what I am, and what's good for me...but i'm still here putting one foot in front of the other...because deep inside we all crave the same thing...no matter how many times we have to go through the fire....
Thanks Kris...yes i do let people in...because as Cat says i have learn to love without expecting love in return...and i know you only want what's best for me girlfriend...
I know what point you are making...and as always...there are two sides to every coin hmmmm???
Meeting new people...yes...making new choices...yes...but not when you compromise what you want out of life...if my past and present was that great i wouldn't be looking for a new future...why would i let the same mistakes i made back then be forgotten when choosing a new future?
I think being judgemental and choosing what you believe is right and good for you pertaining to your future is two different things...
To me that is saying that i would marry an alcoholic, even though i was married to one before and my life was hell because of it...because i don't want to judge this alcoholic.... It is not a matter of judging this person...it is a matter of "choosing" not to have a partner this time around that cannot crawl out of the bottle long enough to have a life....
Thanks Rich...I know where Kris is coming from though...she just wants everyone to be happy and to be given a chance at happiness...and unfortunately she has me as a friend who constantly comes up with reasons as to why I can't...
But that's just the point....not only are all circumstances different...so are people...and who better to know how much they can and are willing to handle than they themselves...
Not everyone is capable of "moving on" as easily or as methodically as others...does not make them right or wrong...just makes them different....
Just because i am alone...and most oft times lonely, does not mean i will compromise what i feel is best for me just to have someone in my life...perhaps there are some of us who are willing to say if i can't have what i'm looking for i'd rather be alone...because in my own opinion...i cannot afford to take another person down that road of self destruction just because i can't make a decent decision for myself....
How do you know that certain "no no's" have not been derived from personal experience...that's not a judgement...that is a self preservation mechanism....what's the saying...once burned twice shy...
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) but in the meantime i had to colour my hair...
Who Cares What People Say....
Well yes...sometimes saying nothing...says more...But my question still stands...does it bother you or not?