I have always been a forthright person, direct in my speech and have always expected the same from others...though this is not necessarily wrong...I have had the opportunity now to see that people say just as much - if not more - by what they DON'T say....
What do you think...are people more honest in what they say or what they actually didn't say....
A finer "gentleman" you will not meet...he is direct, forthright in his thoughts and speech...and has the uncanny ability to "hear" what you don't say...
I have made a true friend in this man, I am grateful for his wisdom and maturity... I am one of the lucky ones because he is a "neighbour" and i hope that this was only the beginning...that there will be more opportunities for us to get together...
Ladies...if you want to know what it is like to be treated and respected as a lady...you have to meet this man...
You have to admit though Paul...the hurriedness to declare one's undying love...was encouraged was it now?...I mean if there was no indication that the other person wanted to hear that would someone be so willing to "put it all out there"...
But i'm just as lost in this love thing myself...so i don't really know
But its become pretty obvious to me that the kind of love i have to offer there are no takers for it...either that or i keep offering it to the wrong people!!
Why is it that there are some who can tell you they love you...and you can actually "feel" their love when they say it...and then there are some who say it...and you are believing it...but you don't "feel" it...
I work evenings and weekends to accomodate my children and their schooling...i don't feel i have a social life (hence being on the computer all the time...at least i can do this type of dating in my pajamas!!)..and if i do have a bit of time off...i'm too exhausted to do anything!
Sorry Paul...though i am flattered that you didn't use the puking emoticon...no its not you love...besides i don't have that amount of time to take a number and wait in line for your attention....
The reason i asked this question Paws..is because it co-incided with my previous question about the life we choose...
I myself cannot say that i believe in re-incarnation (though as you said sometimes i do feel like an old soul that has lived a thousand years...and my parents decision to name me Ursula in a day and age where we lived in a virtual third world country in a tiny village, born at home, no real media to speak of...in the islands of the west indies....has contributed to this since neither one of them can give me an answer as to how they came up with that name... ) but sometimes i look at people who have "resigned" themselves to lives, jobs and even marriages and refuse to leave or get out of it for the most obscure reason, money being number one...as if they get to take that money with them into the next life and somehow enjoy it and the life they really wanted to have....
ComposerSoul (Brad) Thank you again for taking the time to join us and share your musical talent that day...I appreciate that you were able to "go with the flow" once the ladies got going here...you have to admit we outnumbered you men... Once again i will say i was honored to have you in my home, and hope you felt welcome enough to return again whenever you feel like coming down this way... You are a thoughtful and genuine man...and OMG sooooo tall..!!! (is it something in your drinking water out there???) Thank you for your words of wisdom to me before you left...I will cherish them ... I'm glad you got to see the "real" us that sometimes gets lost in the "dating site" and the "forums"..
My pool table will never be the same again i'm sure!!!...and ladies...all of us here got to view up close and personal...his amazing "musicians hands" (do with that what you will... )
Before i answer Paws...I have to try and remember all that happened that day...well all that happened after the bottles of alcohol were open in any case...
Melissa...yes you were the youngest of the bunch...and that only added to the atmosphere...because at all different ages we were still able to communicate and share our laughter...
You are as pretty as a picture...with a personality to match...you were "game" for anything our alcohol ridden minds came up with to do that day...which only made it funnier... You are as warm and generous with your friendship in person as you are on the forums and in messages... It is a privelidge to count you as my friend...my "neighbour"..and as a guest in my home...to which you are welcome at anytime... I enjoyed your company...thank you for sharing your time and yourself with us that day...
Gentlemen...it will be a lucky lucky man who catches Melissa's attention...and finds a way to keep it!!
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What You Didn't Say.....
I have always been a forthright person, direct in my speech and have always expected the same from others...though this is not necessarily wrong...I have had the opportunity now to see that people say just as much - if not more - by what they DON'T say....What do you think...are people more honest in what they say or what they actually didn't say....