If there's a violation of the bond, such as theft, cheating,
or violence...immediately.
If it's just a difference of opinion/growing apart, it's a percentage of the time spent together. Six months would be about two weeks, a year would be maybe three weeks, anything over a year would be about a month.
I won't speak for other men, but this is my stand. Love has a patriachal element for me, which does not extend to my male friends. What I will do for, and tolerate from my family, lover and female friends(let's call them group A) is fundamentally different from my male friends(let's call them group B). I don't keep score with group A, if they need resources, and I can, I help, without concern for their willingness to balance the scales at a later time. Group B members do not need the ability to return favors, but they do need the desire too, or they can go live in a cardboard box for all I care. Group A members may enter my dominion and attempt to run things, it may irritate me a bit, but it's not a big problem. Group B members do not enjoy the same privilege. They'll get told once, maybe twice, and then it's time for them to leave. If they persist, they ain't coming back.
As you can see, it has nothing to do with homophobia. I'm a man, I'm competetive and territorial. I make allowances in my more basic traits, for those I love. I do not for other non-familial men.
The kissing thing is just unnatural, get out my personal space and stay out, other men have no business there unless we're sorting out dominance. We don't do that with kisses.
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RE: How come no one ever uses the Chat room
My words a far too precious,to disappear so quickly,