terms like psychological matter and behaviorial patterns made me think this was your specialty in medicine that is what you do? medicine. to diagnose one would need years of training possible some tests would be required to make this a psychological issue.
As you stated it isonly yur opinion from what you have seen/read of Paws. Myopionion of he man is he can make me laugh first thign in the morning over coffee, he does not berate and issue or opinion if it differs from his.
As for me intelligent conversation begins at home, if someone cannot discuss topics without name calling, The idea of only the intelligent people agree with me is at best ego. or too much mirror time. West your posts sometime are just funny and other times well I am unable to post on them... that inself is funny too. you are an intelligent person, alas, your bedside manner on this thread .... which every way you traveling, may the wind be a your back and the sunshine enhance your view.
I am happy that you are a well-rounded content happy individual Sir Westdeck.
Although I have had some medical training and have dealt with people (other than family). I would not presume to diagnois others by their posts alone. the thought is funny that if we all did that judge someone just by their threads and posts ..well many of us would make for interesting case studies.
I looked at my own threads that i started And Like WOW just judging on that alone I need a suit that fastens in the back ( white in color).
To judge is to be judged, glass houses and all that. I enjoy different views and different outlooks on life. West you seem secure and grounded enough that kind words are not needed. I am glad for you ..by the way are you on medication?? I mean from your threads and the variety of them... I mean you did go to that thread....but the answer was well vague. To you is compassion a feminine thing? understanding that others are not as well rounded as you is that a weakness? just thinking outloud here West, but you, much like me have opinions, what yours on these issues. notice how i address an issue without bashing or accusing any one person. As a writer you should have no problem with these questions, remember no names just the topic and issue should be addressed.
What I understand is there is always more than one way to accomplish something, and the approaches taken though they are different the desired effect is the same. I think you are saying "pull yourself up by your boot straps" "stand like a man" My approach applies to anyone male or female. We think we know how others perceive us, we think we know what we project to others we many times are mistaken and sometimes someone needs to tap us on the shoulder and say "What in the Hell are you thinking/doing ?"
"sometimes we cannot see the forest for the trees"
Gentle paws I have a possible solution and answer to your riddle, what you see and they see.. You Gentlepaws, are not lookin at the whole you, the "big picture". Much like anything that is big , deep huge, you fail to see it all, mirrors are deceivers it does not show your heart , kind words , humor and advice and your gift of just listening, these too make up the gentle paws that receives all the praise and admiration. You Paws are the Grand Canyon, deep, colorful,at times awe inspiring and thought provoking, and many here at CS see that, and more. Y ou see a crevice the phyiscal attributes when as you know when it comes to people that is merely the cover of a book.... sorry bout all the cliches Paws, but somehow I think you'll understand what i am trying to say. hae a excellent day Paws
you know yourself well enough to get rid of the mirrors if this don't help.
I would give up my eye teeth to regainful that youthful ignorance of love and relationships. Ok. maybe a kidney and a lung too, but thats as high as I'll go...
pain heals some of the best learned lessons are painful events.( sad..but true) As for the good ones... many that have passed your way where good ones ...but they where not good for you... patience (this words sucks) but no other will decribe what yo must do. be careful of the those car salesmen types, they know you looking and they can really sell..... good luck girl
Do they walk with confidence, or strut with an ego. When they make eye contact are looking at me or thru me, when we talk do they talk so I can hear or do they talk to be heard or to hear themselves. Do they dress to impress with designer labels or fashion , or dress just for the event , occasion or for comfort, or both. Are they secure enough with themselves that it is not the type of people you bring but she’s more concerned on how many/number. Do they speak ill of past relationship partners/attempts. Do they have many friends, or a few. Do they turn off their cell phone when on a date
I’m blessed, being able to say I know I have options and still can choose from a selection. I also see how their children are, not just grades, mannerism, hygiene, attitude, behavior, which shows volumes of information. To look at a child 8 to 21 it says a lot to me, what they have learned. ( ends justifying the means so to speak)
Online, a persons profile is just that, vague, it is impossible to cover every endearing quality. Mere words will not convince me of anything, nor looks alone (high maintenance). I can interact with both and do on a daily basis. Those people whose words are sweet as honey to your ears, and those whose looks can put the snowman to running down the drain in the cold of winter.
CS forums, display opinions and attitudes and so much more for one to observe of a possible love interest. While here on CS I do read what the person has said about other threads and there is a lot that can be learned..( whats sad is many can misuse this feature)
What do I look for ….that which is knowingly displayed and that which is thought to have been hid/disguised. Maybe I am the foolish one, by not believing every word or trusting all that is said as truth..
Regardless I know the longer I live the more mistakes I can make and that applies to everyone, Mistakes are a necessary part of life, why Hell‘s Bells ,this post could be a mistake. Just a Sunday morning opinion
this is a ever changing description and the environment the woman is in can be a deciding factor what feminine qualities she displays or use.
I think I was taught once the proper term was "the feminine mystique" It encompasses a wide range of moods and mannerism all at her disposal to bequile, please,console and confuse the minds of men.
if you can use what is left after my last breath, come one come all, many parts will be reusable, limited quantity, some slightly used parts, some parts overused but still usable. then afterwards make me toast... many family members due to some religious reasons disagree, I figure they'll ransack my home and garage so... I'll give somethng they only want to bury.
I think there is enough of mankinds leftovers already being buried in the ground. just an opinion
am curious about the worry over pic....you famous or something, maybe one of those politicains, or couontry singer types???? you a astronaut , maybe a big time lawyer, you one of those "american idol" contestantsa ain't ya?? inquiring minds want to know ya
The CIA had an opening for an assassin. After all the background checks, interviews, and testing were done, there were three finalists, two men and a woman.
For the final test, the CIA agents took one of the men to a large metal door and handed him a gun. “We must know that you will follow your instructions, no matter what the circumstances. Inside this room, you will find your wife sitting in a chair. Kill her!!!”
The man said, “You can’t be serious. I could never shoot my wife.”
The agent said, “Then you’re not the right man for this job. Take your wife and go home.”
The second man was given the same instructions. He took the gun and went into the room. All was quiet for about five minutes. Then the man came out with tears in his eyes. “I tried, but I can’t kill my wife.”
The agent said, “You don’t have what it takes. Take your wife and go home.”
Finally, it was the woman’s turn. She was given the same instructions, to kill her husband. She took the gun and went into the room.
Shots were heard, one shot after another. They heard screaming, crashing, banging on the walls. After a few minutes, all was quiet. The door opened slowly and there stood the woman. She wiped the sweat from her brow.
“This gun is loaded with blanks”, she said. “I had to beat him to death with the chair.”
ZIPLOC BAGS: They are Male, because they hold everything in, but you can see right through them.
COPIERS: They are Female, because once turned off, it takes a while to warm them up again. It’s an effective productive device if the right buttons are pushed, but can wreak havoc if the wrong buttons are pushed.
TIRES: Male, because it goes bald and it’s often over-inflated.
HOT AIR BALLOONS: Male, because, to get it to go anywhere, you have to light a fire under it, and of course, there’s the hot air part.
SPONGES: Female, because they’re soft, squeezable and retain water.
WEB PAGES: Female, because it’s always getting hit on
SUBWAY: Male, because it uses the same old lines to pick people up.
HOURGLASS: Female, because over time, the weight shifts to the bottom.
HAMMER: Male, because it hasn’t changed much over the last 5,000 years, but it’s handy to have around.
REMOTE CONTROL: Female. You thought it’d be male but consider this; it gives a man pleasure, he’d be lost without it, and while he doesn’t always know the right buttons to push, he keeps trying.
any drastic phyiscal appearance change out of boredom is short of desparation... and any decision done out of despartion is..... not well thought out.... just an opinion
Maybe anyone who reads this will post, maybe not, It is these questions that weigh heavy on my mind:
1. If there is a divine power, why is it that so many of us can only reach or find possible love interests at distances of 500 miles or more from us?
2. Why can some find a “match” in less than ten days and others after months still have not found one? (not just me)
3. I wonder how many have only internet “relationships” and that is all they really want. But to disclose this fact , well it would not be beneficial to them. (will not admit to themselves)
4. I just cannot understand how so many tend to lean towards Long-distance relationships, has the selection of possible mates become soo scarce , that finding one within one tank of gas has odds greater than those of lotteries?
5. Maybe, I need more time on here to see how this all actually works for the individual who is tired of (circumstances beyond our control ) excuses,
6. Could it be , that many of us are only entertaining in short doses , like camping a week or two then need to return or return them to civilization?
Red Green Show: I’m a man …I can change….If I have to,…I guess.
. Just so I get use to seeing it I’ll start You are CYNICAL
I enjoy hearing how other people deal with lifes daily dramas and situations, thanks for sharing that. Colin shi% likes this happens more than some will admit. Ask yourself this did you handle the "No" well or do you need to do some rerpair work? She said "NO" thats yesterday.
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RE: Why are men so mean?
thats the bad thing about honesty...I can see all those invites of "stop and say hi when you in the area" will be cancelled