A few near death experiences. clinically dead once. I remember the time I saw the light, gawd it was the brightest whitest light I ever saw. I remember the feeling of being held back as if thousands of hands and weights where holding me from ascending towards that bright bright lite. Voices I heard also I tried to ignore them but they where so close and so loud I remember what those voices said ....I'll never forget those words.... "hold him" ......Don't let him go"...... "he's fighting us" ....."I say hold him" ,"restrain him", I have to get this IV started."
as I said I saw TV last nite and that was what i saw a woman discussing with her freinds as to what she knew in her heart and how she was going to "pop" the question. I have been asked to go steady and be "exclusive" never will forget her using that word. Do you think the party that asks the question should have more of the responsibilies of arranging the event? or should it be be "Hey, I asked, so you set it up" kinda of thing?
only on certain holidays does my family all meet and sit at same table.............those moments of required behavoir of my youth ,Nowadays these dinners are some of my happiest best moments.
I have done things .....horrible ,some say unforgivable things... much like Windy has stated we all have to pull back on the reins from time to time.
we all reveal alot without directly addressing a certain subject or occurence. ....it is only revealed to those that really listen to what we say. just an opinion
it's weird what a piece of paper with both peoples signatures can do to a relationship.... maybe thats because thruout recorded history a piece of paper between 2 individuals is required only for future use is in matters of property and poscessions... just an opinion
a few of the wives have admitted in doing it.. and still believe their man is the greatest and she there to make sure he stays that way............LMAO I might have misquoted her but it sums up
I am old school and i have sat at a bar and discussed and heard many a men tell stories how they where led down the path to proposing by the their wives, none voiced regret over it. they where just told by thier wives later in the relationship that had it not been for a womans cunning and wiles they would still be just "dating".
actually watched TV last nite... equality has come a long way between men and women and there's still a way to go. I am curous about who should do the asking when concerning exclusive relationship, marriage, engagement does each one have a different guideline? Or is this still the mans decision or dutyrsponsibility from going "Steady" thru to Marriage who should do the asking?
Personally i think the most cunning and wily creature on Earth is the Woman.... just an opinion
Its a matter of standards, do I adjust my lifestyle for just anyone, allow anyone to come into and consume parts of my heart and exsistence?? I am single by choice I choose not to become attached to just Anyone....nothing personal anyone, it justs I'm not right for you, you can pick of hundreds of men anyone, I'm just not worthy anyone of what you offer. no hard feelings. Anyone, I hope we can be freinds
you said alot there. do some use the distanceas a safty barrier.. they can respond honestly or decievingly and not be held accountable for their actions or response given. the closest one to me that i've exchanged comments with is 248miles... But the positive side is all your posts are available to however signs on CS and by us stating our thoughts instead of just our pic and profile the neighbor down the street could be looking at you in a different perspective....
"What makes the desert beautiful is that somewhere it hides a well." got that quote from looking up "Aspergers syndrome" and thank you Abra cause I like that quote.
I think many reasons can bring about the "indifferent/ nonchalant " appearance.. some good and some bad. Caution is one reason, perception of how you are acting could be different than yours. Reacting to quickly is also a possible reason. Ladies this is 2006, this mating ritual or whatever "name" is most current, the rules and conditions have changed... Do I want to respond to every "pass" or innuendo or batting the eyelashes or flashing the pearly whites???? yeah right... just put the collar on my neck and feed me scraps rest of the nite.....NOT that which is acquired easy is seldom rarely cherished or valved.... You are being hit on and acting indifferent...could it possibly mean you have someone else in mind and instead of being rude "ignore him...He'll go away" or her whichever the case may be.
just an opinion
Again Thanks Abra I like that quote and never heard it described that way.
My last day off..Sunday dropped and repaired gas tank on nephews car began stripping Pinic table cut front and back lawns cooked pork roast and chili ( food for the following week) failed at repairing sisters oven, went and picked up her new one. hit school books 1 hour. went out to eat dinner ordered the perch....(lousy meal) did not send dinner back, reason , i saw movie "Waiting" friday....decided just not to order the fish again at that restaurant. last known time was 11:25pm awoke this morning at 5am
time and age are important factors to consider I believe. I've encountered some who after forty years on this planet have been on recieving end. Now that time has changed circumstances, they are on opposite side and do as they have been done, intentionally? who can say... then the others who in their youth were heartbreakers and much like the humming bird could not get enough....time has worn out their wings and wish and pray daily they could take back what they doen in the past... time it matters if they will look back and how they look back.
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RE: 5 WORDS -- lmao
Told you to call first.