I do the personal care for people who often come home to die from hospices and hospitals, and the same for some mentally and/or physically handicapped clients.
It's a VERY humbling job, and stops me moaning about the silly things in my life. It makes me very thankful for what I have, and less patient/tolerant/understanding with people in good health who moan on about trivial stuff. I LOVE my job.
I work in the 'Community' visiting clients in their own homes.. ( 'Service users'.. as we have to call them nowadays)
Yup! that how I see liars too. I just don't get it, I tell the world and his wife everything .. and I always assume everyone else is the same.
I tell you what reeeeeeally makes me mad though, and the fastest way OUT of my life (whoever you are) is if I actually ASK if its a lie.. (somehow) .. and they swear blind to me that its not.
If I found out after that .. that it WAS a lie... i'd be like that >>
Whoooaaa Stttopppp!!... don't go falling out.. we are all in the same boat here.. bobbing about without someone.
Most of us have been hurt in one way or another in our past relationships.. (if we can REMEMBER that far back.. arrghh!) We dont need to be here for MORE hurt feelings.
Both of you seem like reeeeally nice people. I think it was just a slight misunderstanding..
Some times it hard to judge what someone really means just by reading words on a screen, we don't see the facial expressions, or hear the tone of the voices.
Personally Id really like it if someone came up to me while I was shopping (or whatever) and said 'I'm hugely attracted to you.. would you like to come out for dinner?'
Thats the kind of thing *I* say too... no wonder so many people look at me strangely and walk off.. hahaha
Hmm.. no I don't think so. I think although they may say that, what they are really feeling is that they really like the things you have said.
Especially if you haven't been communicating for very long.
Years ago I spent three months of non stop 'talking' with someone.. mostly via the internet.. emails IMs webcam.. I reeeeally thought I 'loved' him.. and he me.
But when we met it wasn't like that at all.. and we were both surprised..
He was nothing like I had thought all along. It really shocked me how I could have got it so wrong.
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RE: Let us try this one again!
She can do nought to sixty in 3.2 seconds (and could run you over?)