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So many of us complain about our partners, BFs, GFs and other people in our life. We see their flaws, their mistakes and things that we don't like about them. We always see what's lacking in them but not what's lacking in ourselves.

I don't know how others see me...but I see myself as a good, kind, respectful and loving person. I'm independent and strong when I need to be.

I'm pig headed and can be a handful but I would stick with my man and people I care for better or worse, will be with them in every highs and lows, will protect and keep them safe and well come hell or high water.

I'm not the hottest and sexiest woman but I'll do my best to keep my man happy and make him feel like a real man and proud of me.

I'm not perfect but I'm someone he can get along with. I could embarrass him when I'm drunk but I'm someone who'll cook him nice meals and seduce him afterwards to make his day.

I don't think he's lucky in me. There could be things that he's looking for an ideal partner that he can't find in me, yet he's willing to meet me halfway. He puts up with my craziness and fruitloopness...accepts me as I am, with all my flaws and imperfections and that's enough for me

Have a lovely day!

This blog is a mere observation of the sarcasm,hate speech,arrogance and utter disregard for the feeling of all concerned.
BY NO MEANS IS THIS A REFLECTION ON ANY SPECIFIC PERSON.
1) If you don't believe in God,don't use blasphemous remarks.
A) Rather just say I don't believe in God and move along swiftly
2) No respect shown to people genuinely crying for help.
A) Just a tiny word of encouragement,like wish you happiness will suffice
3) Competing for Mr OR MS popularity,this is not a popularity site
A) Watch out for that big ditch,favouritism is false and nasty.
4) Say derogatory things about a person on a blog and when taken to task
you go and delete the evidence ,but the person spoken about has made a
copy thereof ,and by the time the other bloggers read the response of
the person spoken about ,they think he/she is nuts and not aware of the post.
A)To this remark I have been the victim but copied the proof thereof.

5)Gossip and planning of response with certain blogger via private email

Once again you know who you are.
A)One day when you have a spat with a person you have been emailing privately,the bubble will burst and all will be revealed as what happened on a previous blog.C.C RESPECT TO YOU AND THE APPROACH YOU HAVE TAKEN.Freedom of speech is for all to embrace,don't hide what you have to say,come out in the open and air your view.C.H you are a VERY GOOD EXAMPLE,RESPECT MY SISTER FROM ANOTHER MOTHER.

6)If you know you are not welcome on a blog of a particular person.

A)Don't go there and don't use someone else's blog to spew your venom.
In plain English stay away,shut the door,take the hint,or fix the mess you started,don't always answer a question with a question,or play victim by bringing in sob stories such as my brother or sister or mother or whoever is not well so therefore I have the right to say what I please because I know my back will be covered. I say pathetic

MY WISH FOR TODAY AND MANY TO COME .GOD GRANT ME THE SERENITY TO EXCEPT THE THINGS I CANNOT CHANGE,BUT THE COURAGE TO CHANGE THE THINGS I CAN AND THE WISDOM TO KNOW THE DIFFERENC

I Have posted this blog with the hope of understanding and reaching out to our fellow bloggers without nastiness

Or Am I Being Weak Here?

I, for one need a man. I paid too high a price for my so-called freedom and independence which I start to detest when I’m lonely and in need of support and appreciation from a MAN. Freedom and independence sound great but what would you be willing to give up for it? When I was going through that painful divorce , the thought of being free and independent was such a comfort. I told myself it would be nice to be free again, live my life the way I want it, do what I want, cook what I want, come and go anytime and wherever I want…and I’m doing all of that now. The truth is, I’m not proud of it, I’m unhappy and I feel such a huge void inside me when I’m alone and no one to talk to and cuddle with.

I’m in a long distance relationship and I’ll be lying if I say that I’m happy and content with exchanging messages, photos, naughty sexy chats and exchanging comforting words over the phone with someone living in another country and just meet up for long weekend every few months. The truth is...It sucks!


I miss having a man beside me, to talk to… and argue with every few bad days of the month, the same man I will rely on when things fall apart, same man who will make me feel protected and tells me all will be OK, same man who will make me feel desirable, wanted and needed . I miss having someone who asks me how’s my day, when and where did I go, what will I cook for dinner and will ask me “what’s wrong ?” when he sees the troubled and unhappy expression in my eyes

I’m not looking for a super man. Just like me, he doesn’t have to be perfect, just MAN enough to understand the imperfect woman in me, the crazy silly person in me , love me for who I am and can meet me halfway He has to be someone I can share everything with and could bring out the best in me so I could accomplish my role as a woman Someone who can do a bit of fixing and carpentry jobs will be a bonus…and of course he’s got to be cuddly and a good kisser . Am I asking too much? I hate the thought that I could be living a single life for the rest of my life. . I would prefer to have a man beside me and grow old with him. Does that make me a weak woman?

?? Maybe it is just me, but when I check my "matches" from time to
time pretty much every woman on the site is offered as a compatible
person to chat with. I know it is mostly automated, but sometimes you
just find it hard to see the point??

After six years i was on a site where i met someone and thought he was the right one,it turns out that he was nothing but a joker...he was just using me to stay at my place whenever he comes to Jamaica,so he would not paid an hotel fee.....so i am giving it one more try:hope to meet my soul mate.

Day one:
Window shopping.
Loads of e-mails from random guys.

Day two:
Hours answering all e-mails.
Felling exhausted.
What am I doing here?

Day three:
Found the blogs, but couldn't post.

Feeling like a stalker, secretly watching.
Learned about scammers.

Day four:
Wrote to a nice guy I liked. Feeling hopeful.
Checked my mailbox 398 times. No reply.
Blocked a few scammers.

Day five:
Still no reply. Clearly, he is not interested.
Struggling with my feelings to not write again.
Dignity lost the battle.

Day six:
Learned to live with rejection.
The flow of e-mails decreased to a bearable pace.
Empty mailbox.
What am I doing here?

Day seven:
Officially promoted to a CS citizen.
Time to post.

Love is a controversial feeling, both cure and ruin,
A reason to live or die.
Some people say there is no love without suffering,
Still what is worth life without love?

Here, I share Perhaps Love, with Placido Domingo and John Denver, a poem in the form of song that can define love better than me.

M tht 1 kind of a person. That dsn't waist time.
Time waisted will nvr b returned

I have my own views on this but would love to hear your thoughts ,

When filling in the CS profile, we choose "occupation" from a list. In my case, as a member of Danish Writers Association, I picked Writer / Journalist. I have written books and articles. I have even made more than two blogs here on ConnectingSingles. ;-)

To many a potential partners occupation is essencial, more important than the size of income. I think it’s all about status: we like to date a person with a honorable job. An important person, so to speak.

So, I got in contact with a woman in Eastern Europe. We were looking forward to meet - but then I wrote something, she did not like. I told her, that I currently work as a chauffeur. She got upset, accused me for lying about my profession. She certainly did not dream of dating a simple driver!

Well, my job as a chauffeur is only temporary. In Denmark there is only two procent unemployment, and there is a huge need for labour with legal drivers license. Just to help a local catering company and collect extra money for my next travel, I picked this job, bringing out hot and healthy meals to old citizens in the countryside.

I am paid 17 € per hour, I informed her and continued: One day you’ll be old and hungry too. Do you think, you will then still give a f*ckfinger to the chauffeur?

She appologized, but I was no longer interested. Dinner is cancelled. I’ll keep my temporary job for another month or two - and then travel to meet a cute and hardworking shop owner in Thailand. She is okay with me just temporary being a honorable chauffeur - in fact, I am just a simple writer. :-)