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Define Sex n f*ck ? according to you.....
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Anybody from Arkansas united states
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I don’t think humans with all their quirks, moods and temperaments are 100% compatible with anyone else; only software and machines can be 100% compatible, and even they don’t work properly some of the time.

So, I guess it’s not unreasonable to expect your relationships to crash every now and again just like your computer does. Crashes can be fixed.

On my way out with my friend, she is single also. We are talking about men she says intelligent men have small c*ck. T he bigger the c*ck , less IQ.

What do women prefer. IQ or size?

Every night wide awake, many times wondering how my kids are doing...

Only 43 and I have a 4 year old granddaughter and a grandson due in a few weeks...

Where did the time go?

My oldest son, now 22, travels the world on business trips...used to be trips to the park riding bmx, seeing what crazy stunt he could do next.

My daughter...almost 21 and working two jobs as a single mom...remember her always cramming her studies, stressing that she might get lower than an A- ...smart honor roll student, she was.

Oh and my youngest...only 15, but in high school...seems like just yesterday, I was worried about him crossing the street by himself to go to his friend's house.

All the chaos when they were little, running around...all the worrying..crazy family trips...I do miss it now.

Day in, day out... So quiet, can hear a pin drop. Its been a couple of years now and I'm still cooking enough for a family of four...I have to divvy it up in Tupperware to use the leftovers throughout the week.

I've been a mother since I was 21, entering adulthood...been mom so long, now what's my purpose?

Seems a house was only a home when there was a family residing within. Now, its just an existence. I really need to find myself a hobby

Those with young children...or yet to have them....don't forget to enjoy every moment while they're young for it just slips away too fast before ya know it.

and you create a Tinder account and you begin swiping locally. Your age range is broad. 22 - 55 years old. Who knows, you may get a like from the unexpected. Suddenly..,

You encounter several rather revealing photos of your neighbors very pretty 30ish wife. Her caption is, 'married and bored and I want to discreetly have sex with someone else.'

The correct thing to do is?

Isn't it that, we should be happy already.. secured and knows who are, before getting into a serious matter like getting married???

Has any of you ever heard about "open relationship" or maybe have been in one?

What is or how would you define an "open relationship" and how do you feel and think about it?

I have met some couples, cheated on each other and pretend they don't know, or try hiding it from each other, as well as couple in an open relationship in which they know allow their partner to meet someone else as long as it's not gonna break theirs. So they set up some rules, which suit their need.

To some extend I understand and even respect them. At least this way no one is lying to each other hence no one is cheating from anyone.

Would you care share your opinion.

Why is it that members (along with several bloggers) deem to regularly hide their profile?

I know there are times I have upset people with comments or blogs I have posted leading people to hide their profile whilst they go away and sulk.

Apart from that, can’t see the point as to why a profile would be hidden..... Can you?

Let's look back in time.
What was before online dating. Newspaper personal ads, friends/family arranged blind dates, social events, bars, libraries, literally everywhere where people were.
It was very slow. It was usually down to luck. It was very limited in choices. (Usually in a limited geographic location).
Why was it good? It was natural. People met because they were at the same place. They started to talk because probably had some similar interest.
When people chose or accepted the partner they went for the "good enough" option. It was enough if it was slightly better than others. The brain is happy to do a task like this.
These days the Internet gives the false impression of unlimited choice.
Do a search. Not enough results? No problem. Widen your options and voila now you can scroll 30 pages.
And makes you believe it is down to how you choose.
Barry Schwartz wrote a book called "The Paradox of Choice". He says too much choice will be detrimental.
There are couple of problems inside:
1. Because there are so many options you believe there must be a perfect one. This means the weight of your decision is much bigger.
2. When you choose one and it's not flawless you believe other choice would have been better. Which means you will never be satisfied with the choice.
3. Choosing from a big selection is exhausting. Our brain is not made for this.
4. Big number of players mean big competition. It's very easy to feel you are the only one left alone.
5. Anonymity changes the behaviours for lot of people. They would never say things or act the similar way face-to-face as they do online.
You can find many more points if you think.

Solution: I don't know. I believe it's still a very slow game. You have to accept it you either go for just a good enough or wait much much longer. Same as it was before. The difference is you have to cancel all the noise.
Also I don't believe the marriage is about how you choose at the beginning. It's about how much work the partners put in. The marriage is a workshop. (Yes, I know the classic: Men work, women shop...)
But no one can see in years ahead. what works at the beginning might not work in 5 years time. People also change.
The biggest issue is not how you choose but people didn't learn to work on problems. It's better to look out for new partner if there is a problem.... See, how many potential options out there? Just look around on dating sites.....