How does one detect if there's chemistry, before seeing live. (131)
Rogerzoekt: After one experience where after long writing and chatting i thought we figured it all out, the minute we saw each other in real life there was no chemistry at all.
This happened to me on a rather domestic date, but imagine this happens on a date where you flew across half the globe.
This happened to me on a rather domestic date, but imagine this happens on a date where you flew across half the globe.
It is hard with calling any one can be so sweet and also talk as much as honest. But real view real actions real behavior count on a real meeting.But before you travel half of the globe you can talk through Skype and see how she react. That is what I am thinking.
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Rogerzoekt: After one experience where after long writing and chatting i thought we figured it all out, the minute we saw each other in real life there was no chemistry at all.
This happened to me on a rather domestic date, but imagine this happens on a date where you flew across half the globe.
This happened to me on a rather domestic date, but imagine this happens on a date where you flew across half the globe.
Thats why I stend to go overseas, you know I go where ever easy jet or ryanair takes me
Kidding apart, you can't feel chemestry until in real life, so its a dice throwing.
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I think so too Alexandro.
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Interesting ! I think you have to spend a few days with the person in order for your brain to connect the dots, so to speak. You have to get used to the person in real life (the 3D, crisp, life-size version) 
and connect what that person said in the past with that new image. So the chemistry might still be there, but not immediately. You have to sort of rediscover it.
and connect what that person said in the past with that new image. So the chemistry might still be there, but not immediately. You have to sort of rediscover it.------ This poll is Archived ------
Mmmhhhmmmm.
That's an interesting thought.
Wish i thought of that before.
You might be right on this one.
That's an interesting thought.
Wish i thought of that before.
You might be right on this one.
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Mudblood: Interesting ! I think you have to spend a few days with the person in order for your brain to connect the dots, so to speak. You have to get used to the person in real life (the 3D, crisp, life-size version) and connect what that person said in the past with that new image. So the chemistry might still be there, but not immediately. You have to sort of rediscover it.
Nah, I think chemistry is instantaneous. It's either there or it's not. I'd be more than happy to be proved wrong, though
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Rogerzoekt: After one experience where after long writing and chatting i thought we figured it all out, the minute we saw each other in real life there was no chemistry at all.
This happened to me on a rather domestic date, but imagine this happens on a date where you flew across half the globe.
This happened to me on a rather domestic date, but imagine this happens on a date where you flew across half the globe.
Speaking from short distance experience, when I met my bf at the 1st time, I didn't fall in love quickly... It takes months for me to feel "weak on my knees"... Not like Hollywood movie (2-3 days fall in love meeting on the street under heavy rain while there is no more taxi around)
never had truly LDR... just 1 year but mainly on Skype and 2 times meet in person... I often giggle to myself everytime I remember experience through screen....
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unlaoised: Nah, I think chemistry is instantaneous. It's either there or it's not. I'd be more than happy to be proved wrong, though
Give it a try, you might surprise yourself All it takes is a willingness to give that 3D version a chance to show that side of himself that you liked so much already aaahhh.. l'amour
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Mudblood: Give it a try, you might surprise yourself All it takes is a willingness to give that 3D version a chance to show that side of himself that you liked so much already
aaahhh.. l'amour
aaahhh.. l'amour
I might just take your advice, MB. Food for thought...
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Rogerzoekt: I think so too Alexandro.
then why worry go every where and find the chemistry
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Rogerzoekt: After one experience where after long writing and chatting i thought we figured it all out, the minute we saw each other in real life there was no chemistry at all.
This happened to me on a rather domestic date, but imagine this happens on a date where you flew across half the globe.
This happened to me on a rather domestic date, but imagine this happens on a date where you flew across half the globe.
so, did you boink her or what???
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Mudblood: Interesting ! I think you have to spend a few days with the person in order for your brain to connect the dots, so to speak. You have to get used to the person in real life (the 3D, crisp, life-size version) and connect what that person said in the past with that new image. So the chemistry might still be there, but not immediately. You have to sort of rediscover it.
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Dedovix: so, did you boink her or what???
Seems she boink roger
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Mudblood: Interesting ! I think you have to spend a few days with the person in order for your brain to connect the dots, so to speak. You have to get used to the person in real life (the 3D, crisp, life-size version) and connect what that person said in the past with that new image. So the chemistry might still be there, but not immediately. You have to sort of rediscover it.
As ever this so reminds me getting a dog from the pound.
There's a spark when you first see them; you invite them into your life whereupon they trash the place, chew up your treasured possessions and piss on everything; you go through a phase of establishing which boundaries are not to be crossed (on both sides), what each other likes and what you accept as being part of each other's personalities (even if you don't always 'approve' you come to like it anyway); and then you find yourself besotted with each other again.
Maybe sometimes we're a bit too quick to dump the dog, rather than learning the skills to deal with a situation which isn't perfectly how we imagined it would be.
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jac379: As ever this so reminds me getting a dog from the pound.
There's a spark when you first see them; you invite them into your life whereupon they trash the place, chew up your treasured possessions and piss on everything; you go through a phase of establishing which boundaries are not to be crossed (on both sides), what each other likes and what you accept as being part of each other's personalities (even if you don't always 'approve' you come to like it anyway); and then you find yourself besotted with each other again.
Maybe sometimes we're a bit too quick to dump the dog, rather than learning the skills to deal with a situation which isn't perfectly how we imagined it would be.
There's a spark when you first see them; you invite them into your life whereupon they trash the place, chew up your treasured possessions and piss on everything; you go through a phase of establishing which boundaries are not to be crossed (on both sides), what each other likes and what you accept as being part of each other's personalities (even if you don't always 'approve' you come to like it anyway); and then you find yourself besotted with each other again.
Maybe sometimes we're a bit too quick to dump the dog, rather than learning the skills to deal with a situation which isn't perfectly how we imagined it would be.
Perfect example.
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2intrigued: Perfect example.
Damn you Trigs, I've just remembered that gif you posted. Apply that doggy little metaphor to the dating game, if you will.
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jac379: Damn you Trigs, I've just remembered that gif you posted. Apply that doggy little metaphor to the dating game, if you will.
Yep, sometimes one or the other lands face first into the hedge and it's a matter of how it's dealt with at the time.
Now I've gotta find that gif again and post it in the picture thread. 
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Zeurich: Seems she boink roger that is why he is upset.
Nahh, he is concerned about the absence of chemistry
Once I accidentally licked a light socket...you should see the amount of sparks and chemistry ...but thats for another thread ...
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jac379: As ever this so reminds me getting a dog from the pound.
There's a spark when you first see them; you invite them into your life whereupon they trash the place, chew up your treasured possessions and piss on everything; you go through a phase of establishing which boundaries are not to be crossed (on both sides), what each other likes and what you accept as being part of each other's personalities (even if you don't always 'approve' you come to like it anyway); and then you find yourself besotted with each other again.
Maybe sometimes we're a bit too quick to dump the dog, rather than learning the skills to deal with a situation which isn't perfectly how we imagined it would be.
There's a spark when you first see them; you invite them into your life whereupon they trash the place, chew up your treasured possessions and piss on everything; you go through a phase of establishing which boundaries are not to be crossed (on both sides), what each other likes and what you accept as being part of each other's personalities (even if you don't always 'approve' you come to like it anyway); and then you find yourself besotted with each other again.
Maybe sometimes we're a bit too quick to dump the dog, rather than learning the skills to deal with a situation which isn't perfectly how we imagined it would be.
well.. yah, basically.Now I may be wrong here, but isn't it so that in most cases people come back from the real date and say: oop, no chemistry? I think many confuse chemistry with infatuation. Infatuation happens in an instant, but chemistry is about combining molecules and such
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Dedovix: so, did you boink her or what???
so do you think he'll get the chemistry after boinking?
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jac379: As ever this so reminds me getting a dog from the pound.
There's a spark when you first see them; you invite them into your life whereupon they trash the place, chew up your treasured possessions and piss on everything; you go through a phase of establishing which boundaries are not to be crossed (on both sides), what each other likes and what you accept as being part of each other's personalities (even if you don't always 'approve' you come to like it anyway); and then you find yourself besotted with each other again.
Maybe sometimes we're a bit too quick to dump the dog, rather than learning the skills to deal with a situation which isn't perfectly how we imagined it would be.
There's a spark when you first see them; you invite them into your life whereupon they trash the place, chew up your treasured possessions and piss on everything; you go through a phase of establishing which boundaries are not to be crossed (on both sides), what each other likes and what you accept as being part of each other's personalities (even if you don't always 'approve' you come to like it anyway); and then you find yourself besotted with each other again.
Maybe sometimes we're a bit too quick to dump the dog, rather than learning the skills to deal with a situation which isn't perfectly how we imagined it would be.
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For me, if a good scene of humor is between us, that is the greatest indication of a close bond forming. Laughter promotes all sorts of pleasant chemistry, for the individual as well as for the couple.
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Rogerzoekt: After one experience where after long writing and chatting i thought we figured it all out, the minute we saw each other in real life there was no chemistry at all.
This happened to me on a rather domestic date, but imagine this happens on a date where you flew across half the globe.
Some of my experiences show me that chemistry isn' t easy to detect. It could seem like there is chemistry on line, but upon even moving forward to talking on the phone there is sometimes a change in chemistry I' ve noticed. Not always, but sometimes. Same with meeting in person. I am pretty much the same in person as I am on here. I talk the way I blog. I hope that' s good. Happy Easter everyone!!!This happened to me on a rather domestic date, but imagine this happens on a date where you flew across half the globe.
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Mudblood: Give it a try, you might surprise yourself All it takes is a willingness to give that 3D version a chance to show that side of himself that you liked so much already
aaahhh.. l'amour
aaahhh.. l'amour
aaahhh ... l'amour
oh la la, c'est vrai .....
c'est formidable ...
c'est fantastique ....
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Mudblood: well.. yah, basically.
Now I may be wrong here, but isn't it so that in most cases people come back from the real date and say: oop, no chemistry? I think many confuse chemistry with infatuation. Infatuation happens in an instant, but chemistry is about combining molecules and such
Now I may be wrong here, but isn't it so that in most cases people come back from the real date and say: oop, no chemistry? I think many confuse chemistry with infatuation. Infatuation happens in an instant, but chemistry is about combining molecules and such
Oooh, this is an interesting train of ideas, Mudblood.
Some people advocate meeting as soon as possible and if you can't meet within a week, or so to see if there's chemistry, there's no point in wasting time continuing contact over the internet.
Some people seem to prefer, or are willing to get to know others for prolonged periods without meeting.
I wonder how your (seemingly viable) idea of chemistry versus infatuation fits in with those ideas.
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Dedovix: Nahh, he is concerned about the absence of chemistry
Once I accidentally licked a light socket...you should see the amount of sparks and chemistry ...but thats for another thread ...
Once I accidentally licked a light socket...you should see the amount of sparks and chemistry ...but thats for another thread ...
Oh really
due to the sparks seems you ran back half of the globe????------ This poll is Archived ------
joey987: Some of my experiences show me that chemistry isn' t easy to detect. It could seem like there is chemistry on line, but upon even moving forward to talking on the phone there is sometimes a change in chemistry I' ve noticed. Not always, but sometimes. Same with meeting in person. I am pretty much the same in person as I am on here. I talk the way I blog. I hope that' s good. Happy Easter everyone!!!
thanks
happy Easter to you too
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equiya: so do you think he'll get the chemistry after boinking?
Nop I dont think so how are ya?
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Rogerzoekt: After one experience where after long writing and chatting i thought we figured it all out, the minute we saw each other in real life there was no chemistry at all.
This happened to me on a rather domestic date, but imagine this happens on a date where you flew across half the globe.
This happened to me on a rather domestic date, but imagine this happens on a date where you flew across half the globe.
Bonne Chance
Bonne fete de Paques
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Zeurich: Nop I dont think so how are ya?
I'm fine, thanks
just enjoying the weather today
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How does one detect if there's chemistry, before seeing live.(Vote Below)
This happened to me on a rather domestic date, but imagine this happens on a date where you flew across half the globe.