Is it important for your partner to have the same religious believes as you? (66)

Jul 27, 2016 11:46 PM CST Is it important for your partner to have the same religious believes as you?
123whisper
123whisper123whisperMelbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 2 Polls 2,116 Posts
yubba: .
Yes you are right to side with him, its good you do like all others will, if people always stay on the side of the majority they are always right, when l am right l am always wrong. As l think he speaks English l would have thought that he would read to post in religion, but there again l am wrong about that too, hope you are having yet another happy day being correct.
Without taking anyone side;I think you and Tom are both right.
You're right that this thread should be under Religion ...and you could also include possibility that dazzling87 might be new to this experience and learning...so let's not be too judgmental and bitter in thinking that everyone is judgmental of you, rather then being judgmental of someone you rightfully corrected ...but the tone setts the music and being tolerant is kind way of teaching.


"Look at situations from all angles, and you will become more open." Dalai Lama
cheers
Jul 28, 2016 12:04 AM CST Is it important for your partner to have the same religious believes as you?
123whisper: Without taking anyone side;I think you and Tom are both right.
You're right that this thread should be under Religion ...and you could also include possibility that dazzling87 might be new to this experience and learning...so let's not be too judgmental and bitter in thinking that everyone is judgmental of you, rather then being judgmental of someone you rightfully corrected ...but the tone setts the music and being tolerant is kind way of teaching."Look at situations from all angles, and you will become more open." Dalai Lama
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People take more notice of what one has to offer when negativity is not present. Negativity has a way of distracting the message and oftentimes creates more unnecessary negativity. smile
Jul 29, 2016 11:44 PM CST Is it important for your partner to have the same religious believes as you?
saidmahmoud
saidmahmoudsaidmahmoudHamburg Mitte, Hamburg Germany3 Threads 1 Polls 1,593 Posts
dazzling87: is it important ?

NO
my best friends parents are Christian and Muslim
and they are really big f.....g happy family
and i know many people the same
love know no borders
its all about love and understanding
Jul 30, 2016 1:08 AM CST Is it important for your partner to have the same religious believes as you?
123whisper
123whisper123whisperMelbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 2 Polls 2,116 Posts
YouMeUs: People take more notice of what one has to offer when negativity is not present. Negativity has a way of distracting the message and often times creates more unnecessary negativity.
thumbs up Even the most positive person have human error and bad days with life up's and down's ... but it's totally up to each of us choosing positive or negative attitude, which is a little thing that makes a big difference.
We all live our life in chains,we go true pain that can make us give up completely, or pain that can make us start all over again...it's our individual choice and we have the key to change the way we think about things...if we only realise our own power.

Negative thought can be like the imagery of a small ball rolling along the ground, and as it rolls, it becomes bigger and faster.

That’s what one small negative thought can turn into: a huge, speeding ball of ugliness...

I see most people are good but bitterness or life bad events ...some personal tragedy can twist life around and you're never the same person again...I am sure that some of us have asked ourselves; " Why did I have to go through such a life horror event for me to learn some lesson? Is there a lesson, or does none of it mean anything?"
I know it may sound so cliché, and I hate cliché’s, but I truly do believe that there must be something we are to gain out of our personal life tragedy that happen to us all in small or big ways... and in different circumstances...
I believe, we are all connected, and there is some reason behind all of what has happened to us... and that we always need to have faith that everything would be okay because beauty of the human spirit can overcome almost anything.

One of the most helpful philosophies I learned was from Eckhart Tolle. He basically stated that it’s not the things that happen to you that your pain arises from, but your reaction to it.
Each of us deserve better and hope that each of us can find positive thoughts that can help us to relate with each other constrictively, as we want others to behave with us.

wine
Thank you for making good point that inspired me to say more then I planed to...wine laugh teddybear
Jul 30, 2016 1:21 AM CST Is it important for your partner to have the same religious believes as you?
123whisper
123whisper123whisperMelbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 2 Polls 2,116 Posts
It's about making two ways street compromises. peace
wine
Jul 30, 2016 1:38 AM CST Is it important for your partner to have the same religious believes as you?
sophiasummer
sophiasummersophiasummerNorthland, New Zealand112 Threads 6,528 Posts
Every one has a belief a code/ whether it be similar, direct and some what familiar.

My experience was that.
I chose to go along my pace, a good one too.
Sometimes direction of a partner is good,yet I could not sit within the umbrella, at times.

I had to be heard from without mine.
grin

Entrenchment.

We were the same religion.
I wish him well.




yay
Jul 30, 2016 2:05 AM CST Is it important for your partner to have the same religious believes as you?
saidmahmoud
saidmahmoudsaidmahmoudHamburg Mitte, Hamburg Germany3 Threads 1 Polls 1,593 Posts
dazzling87: is it important ?

In the Middle East these days, hatred and fear of religious speech
Even the young people say jokes about clergymen
Change happened there and that is what angered hardliners
Whether they are Christians or Muslims
Atheism began there has angered many people
I think to talk about any spiritual beliefs became repulsive
Jul 30, 2016 4:48 AM CST Is it important for your partner to have the same religious believes as you?
No,
In saying that some religious people try to instil their beliefs in others and would not tolerate that.
Jul 30, 2016 6:28 AM CST Is it important for your partner to have the same religious believes as you?
Jimmy5IA
Jimmy5IAJimmy5IAWarrington, Cheshire, England UK59 Threads 2 Polls 1,013 Posts
Aragorn11: No,
In saying that some religious people try to instil their beliefs in others and would not tolerate that.

So your future wife doesn´t have to wear a black cloak with little eye holes and chains around her ankles?
Jul 30, 2016 6:40 AM CST Is it important for your partner to have the same religious believes as you?
rebel2
rebel2rebel2Alicante, Valencia Spain8 Threads 6,354 Posts
I am struggling to find a Pagan woman that wants to dance around naked. grin
Jul 31, 2016 12:46 AM CST Is it important for your partner to have the same religious believes as you?
123whisper
123whisper123whisperMelbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 2 Polls 2,116 Posts
rebel2: I am struggling to find a Pagan woman that wants to dance around naked.

gift
laugh
Jul 31, 2016 12:52 AM CST Is it important for your partner to have the same religious believes as you?
ShakenHeart
ShakenHeartShakenHeartDecatur, Indiana USA4 Posts
Yes it is very important to me as my faith is the cornerstone of everything I am
Jul 31, 2016 1:18 AM CST Is it important for your partner to have the same religious believes as you?
Greenlake19
Greenlake19Greenlake19Bratislava, Slovakia1 Threads 42 Posts
Having a compatible attitude towards religion is important, though the actual denomination is of lesser importance.
Jul 31, 2016 1:25 AM CST Is it important for your partner to have the same religious believes as you?
ShakenHeart
ShakenHeartShakenHeartDecatur, Indiana USA4 Posts
I agree completely because it does away with any hurt feelings or thoughts of being disrespected
Aug 6, 2016 4:16 AM CST Is it important for your partner to have the same religious believes as you?
Soccercoaching
SoccercoachingSoccercoachingtehran, Iran3 Posts
I belive that Understanding and love is more important than having the same religion
Aug 6, 2016 4:32 AM CST Is it important for your partner to have the same religious believes as you?
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
It is important your partner to be your first priority,
and his/her religious believes last.
Aug 6, 2016 4:39 AM CST Is it important for your partner to have the same religious believes as you?
chris27292729: It is important your partner to be your first priority,
and his/her religious believes last.


I think its very important any activities playing out in theee garden be compatible with ones beliefs, and or is much better not to have a partner than one that's lost his/her listen...
Oct 15, 2016 1:44 PM CST Is it important for your partner to have the same religious believes as you?
patty6
patty6patty6Fremont, California USA1 Posts
dazzling87: is it important ?
Oct 15, 2016 1:51 PM CST Is it important for your partner to have the same religious believes as you?
Wizardglick
WizardglickWizardglickBurlington, Ontario Canada1 Threads 263 Posts
Certainly not important to me.conversing
Oct 15, 2016 3:48 PM CST Is it important for your partner to have the same religious believes as you?
Yeah but more like same non-beliefs! cool
Oct 18, 2016 10:32 PM CST Is it important for your partner to have the same religious believes as you?
123whisper
123whisper123whisperMelbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 2 Polls 2,116 Posts
yubba: .
I think most of us know how flexible you are, Tru told me some things.
rolling on the floor laughing Good point.rolling on the floor laughing
Oct 18, 2016 10:44 PM CST Is it important for your partner to have the same religious believes as you?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
It's no big deal as long as she believes in Adam and Lilith
Oct 19, 2016 11:51 AM CST Is it important for your partner to have the same religious believes as you?
galrads: It's no big deal as long as she believes in Adam and Lilith


laugh or Lilith and Adam? Ladies first! tongue
or Adam and Steve!
Oct 19, 2016 6:41 PM CST Is it important for your partner to have the same religious believes as you?
123whisper
123whisper123whisperMelbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 2 Polls 2,116 Posts
minnieme2: or Lilith and Adam? Ladies first!
or Adam and Steve!
rolling on the floor laughing Voting for Lilith ...rolling on the floor laughing
Oct 20, 2016 10:17 PM CST Is it important for your partner to have the same religious believes as you?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
minnieme2: or Lilith and Adam? Ladies first!
or Adam and Steve!
what about Adam
Oct 20, 2016 10:32 PM CST Is it important for your partner to have the same religious believes as you?
sophiasummer
sophiasummersophiasummerNorthland, New Zealand112 Threads 6,528 Posts
dazzling87: is it important ?


Yes.
But god works in mysterious ways.
dancing
Oct 20, 2016 10:59 PM CST Is it important for your partner to have the same religious believes as you?
If you have the spirit, I will love you forever.
Father and son hurt the life in me and all I knew was the holy spirit.
Oct 21, 2016 3:53 PM CST Is it important for your partner to have the same religious believes as you?
galrads: what about Adam


I dunno, you tell me! laugh wave
Oct 21, 2016 3:54 PM CST Is it important for your partner to have the same religious believes as you?
123whisper: Voting for Lilith ...


Lilith was Frasier's ballbreaker ex-wife, wasn't she? laugh
Oct 23, 2016 11:07 AM CST Is it important for your partner to have the same religious believes as you?
Linaray
LinarayLinarayTaverney, Ile-de-France France10 Threads 1 Polls 104 Posts
Conrad73: it probably would help!
Enough tensions arise,without having disagreements in the most fundamental issues!



I agree with him. It's not the bases of a relationship, but it will probably help in shaping relationship.
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