123whisperMelbourne, Victoria Australia2,116 posts
yubba: . Yes you are right to side with him, its good you do like all others will, if people always stay on the side of the majority they are always right, when l am right l am always wrong. As l think he speaks English l would have thought that he would read to post in religion, but there again l am wrong about that too, hope you are having yet another happy day being correct.
Without taking anyone side;I think you and Tom are both right. You're right that this thread should be under Religion ...and you could also include possibility that dazzling87 might be new to this experience and learning...so let's not be too judgmental and bitter in thinking that everyone is judgmental of you, rather then being judgmental of someone you rightfully corrected ...but the tone setts the music and being tolerant is kind way of teaching.
"Look at situations from all angles, and you will become more open." Dalai Lama
123whisper: Without taking anyone side;I think you and Tom are both right. You're right that this thread should be under Religion ...and you could also include possibility that dazzling87 might be new to this experience and learning...so let's not be too judgmental and bitter in thinking that everyone is judgmental of you, rather then being judgmental of someone you rightfully corrected ...but the tone setts the music and being tolerant is kind way of teaching."Look at situations from all angles, and you will become more open." Dalai Lama
People take more notice of what one has to offer when negativity is not present. Negativity has a way of distracting the message and oftentimes creates more unnecessary negativity.
NO my best friends parents are Christian and Muslim and they are really big f.....g happy family and i know many people the same love know no borders its all about love and understanding
123whisperMelbourne, Victoria Australia2,116 posts
YouMeUs: People take more notice of what one has to offer when negativity is not present. Negativity has a way of distracting the message and often times creates more unnecessary negativity.
Even the most positive person have human error and bad days with life up's and down's ... but it's totally up to each of us choosing positive or negative attitude, which is a little thing that makes a big difference. We all live our life in chains,we go true pain that can make us give up completely, or pain that can make us start all over again...it's our individual choice and we have the key to change the way we think about things...if we only realise our own power.
Negative thought can be like the imagery of a small ball rolling along the ground, and as it rolls, it becomes bigger and faster.
That’s what one small negative thought can turn into: a huge, speeding ball of ugliness...
I see most people are good but bitterness or life bad events ...some personal tragedy can twist life around and you're never the same person again...I am sure that some of us have asked ourselves; " Why did I have to go through such a life horror event for me to learn some lesson? Is there a lesson, or does none of it mean anything?" I know it may sound so cliché, and I hate cliché’s, but I truly do believe that there must be something we are to gain out of our personal life tragedy that happen to us all in small or big ways... and in different circumstances... I believe, we are all connected, and there is some reason behind all of what has happened to us... and that we always need to have faith that everything would be okay because beauty of the human spirit can overcome almost anything.
One of the most helpful philosophies I learned was from Eckhart Tolle. He basically stated that it’s not the things that happen to you that your pain arises from, but your reaction to it. Each of us deserve better and hope that each of us can find positive thoughts that can help us to relate with each other constrictively, as we want others to behave with us.
Thank you for making good point that inspired me to say more then I planed to...
Every one has a belief a code/ whether it be similar, direct and some what familiar.
My experience was that. I chose to go along my pace, a good one too. Sometimes direction of a partner is good,yet I could not sit within the umbrella, at times.
In the Middle East these days, hatred and fear of religious speech Even the young people say jokes about clergymen Change happened there and that is what angered hardliners Whether they are Christians or Muslims Atheism began there has angered many people I think to talk about any spiritual beliefs became repulsive
chris27292729: It is important your partner to be your first priority, and his/her religious believes last.
I think its very important any activities playing out in theee garden be compatible with ones beliefs, and or is much better not to have a partner than one that's lost his/her listen...
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Yes you are right to side with him, its good you do like all others will, if people always stay on the side of the majority they are always right, when l am right l am always wrong. As l think he speaks English l would have thought that he would read to post in religion, but there again l am wrong about that too, hope you are having yet another happy day being correct.
You're right that this thread should be under Religion ...and you could also include possibility that dazzling87 might be new to this experience and learning...so let's not be too judgmental and bitter in thinking that everyone is judgmental of you, rather then being judgmental of someone you rightfully corrected ...but the tone setts the music and being tolerant is kind way of teaching.
"Look at situations from all angles, and you will become more open." Dalai Lama