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RE: BETTER TO BE AS NATURE INTENDED US TO BE,,OR HELPING HAND TO ACHIEVE HAPPINESS..???

The best is to do what ever makes you comftable or accept what nature has given you and be happy about it.
When I was dating the father of my kids; he wanted a surgical procedure on his face; I supported him all the way.It was a long process from dental treatment to facial surgery.For me he was the same before or after.
It is the inner self that drives people to transform their bodies to look better in their own skin; without realizing that loving yourself; being confident in your on body makes all the difference and beautiful...

RE: Describe your lifepartner in one sentence ?

Good heart

RE: Familiarity...or Absence?

Once what you lived won't come back, sweet or sad memories but are gone.
What is to cherish is what comes along right now, don't live in your past.
Life slides away to fast, so live it!

RE: DO YOU PREFER ONLINE TIME OVER REAL LIFE TIME

I enjoy both, but there is nothing like real human contact...

RE: Can I ask advice again?????

This is tough love. Spanish culture are very attached to parents.You need patience & time.Although, there is no excuse for this young lady to not have basic manners of behavior and this should be reviewed with your partner.
Try finding out what are her likes,there can be some common ground that the whole family can enjoy time together.{Maybe their is a Spanish dish that she would like to prepare with you at a family dinner).
Teenage age years are complicated, transition to adulthood.Not everyone goes through by it easily and more when their biological parents are starting a new life w/o them.
Wish you luck in the future & love always breaks all boundaries.

RE: What do you like a man to be ?

Be his true self....

RE: Tired of online dating.........

Invest your time in true people and weed out the bad.
Enjoy your time, as what this site has to offer.
Did find someone here 4 years ago but did not work.
Starting from scratch but always hoping to find.
Need a break, take one, you comeback refreshed...

RE: It is possible, keep the faith!

What can I say; a true love story that blossoms....
Lots of happiness for the years to come!

RE: Love at matured age

Many my age has been divorced not only once. Sometimes your thoughts head back and think if it was worth it. Every couple is unique but love can only bind them together. If that spark is not there; it is gone.
Takes two to tangle, if one doesn’t know how to dance the other will teach. One may take one step, keep the rhythm and follow or lose it and walk away. When there is harmony the music just sweeps you away.
A relationship is not only to fell tickles in your stomach, takes patience, understanding, and commitment and endless is the list.
Every generation had there ways of seeing marriage and as they age be wiser in their own lives.

RE: KAYBEE'S BIRTHDAY

RE: Is anyone really serious on these sites or just a bit of fun???

Serious yes, but going with the daily flow.Enjoy to meet people,read the posts and respond sometimes.

Apart that there are so many fake on here there, you can find mostly anything; serious, fun, friendship etc..

Happy Mother's Day

May all the mothers here in CS have a wonderful day tomorrow....

RE: 1 bad point and 1 good point about the person before you. careful, there is a trick!!!

Your pictures in your profile should be more colorful and clear.
Just can imagine hearing your notes from your guitar.

RE: Are You Sincere In Your Love Search?

I did find someone here in 2009; even relocated but did not work.
I wish men here were sincere about their single status, ready to engage a long-lasting relationship. If you just broke-up, separated or divorced recently, give yourself sometime to heal...it is the best for both.
There is a Spanish song that says "un clavo saca a otro" (a nail takes out another)but it does not work like that.
If I am still here is because I have friends, enjoy reading & posting in the forums, I work a lot and I don't have too much time for personal social meetings but I do go out.
If it is meant to be I'll find someone here or he will find me.
Many scammers are here but I know how to deal with them. I have hope because I know there are good men out there.

So lonely don't be discouraged about not finding yet; when you least expect it, it will happen

RE: Knocking the forums door.

Love can be found anywhere on this planet.It is a Universal feeling that only can be shared with those that feel it mutualy...

As in every garden,there are beautiful flowers, wild flowers, bad weeds ; you just have to learn how to pick the right one for you.
Good luck

RE: bad news

The above refers to Boban.

RE: bad news

What a concept of a woman do you have, surely you have not been fortunate or just have used them.

RE: There's beautiful Pearls out there

Your story was very honest.I applaud you for that.
Sometimes life requires risks and sacrifices to makes things work.
I relocated for someone but did not work.
Now I'm ready to try again for the right person.
The are many pearls and gems here to find and certainly those that don't shine won't even be seen...
Hope you find the one....

RE: does age matter to an older more mature women age 35-50 ?

For me +/- 5 years my age is fine.Every generation is different and I want to stick to mine.

RE: 1 bad point and 1 good point about the person before you. careful, there is a trick!!!

Posts good advice.
Too bad is far from America.

RE: IF SOMEONE TRULY LOVES YOU, THEY'LL SEE YOUR BEAUTY INSIDE YOU.

Beauty is how all your senses retrieve it.A person, nature and its contents.
Beauty to me is to wide to define; but regarding the one you love it is unconditional.

RE: what is love in your openion

When two feel true love for each other, respect. comprehension...commitment...passion....
When each ones company is a new day; no matter the good or bad.

RE: Immediate request for Yahoo messaging

Never answer,they are scammers & don't waste your time!

RE: Are there really people on here looking for Frienship or even Love?

I am here for both and have I have found friendship & love.
Not anymore with my expartner but that was in 2009 and wishing a new start.
So both can happen.

RE: What is the biggest success factor on CS?

Well I am not inflatable but can be squeezed...
How are you doing today?
You are from my home town.

RE: What is the biggest success factor on CS?

I would suggest getting a book titled The five love languages.
It is so important how we direct ourselves to that person we
are trying to find here.
Regarding the vote I would go for 1 & 3.

RE: does each person have their own reality

We are real as we can percieve it and all around us.We can make it smaller or larger if we want to interact with it
The quality or state of being real is within us.

RE: What is the best race to date besides caucasian

It is not the color of your skin that matters here but your likes.
So everyone is different.
Did not check your post cause every race here to me are equal.
Love is your answer not race.
Who can love you,repect you,understand you, be there for you, are much more important Mr. Japtas

RE: What is the biggest success factor on CS?

Find out if your potential partner is real, staying on this site until you are sure what you have in your hands.
There are too many scammers here but also real repectful people.

RE: February Wedding coming for me and LadyBee42

A success story like this really encourages us to move forward.
What can I say, with all the steps you both have made to make your union possible, it is to admire.
I hope the love that both of you feel for each other endures your lifetime.
Best wishes for both of you!