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22 October 2023

Forever is a long time
but
I wouldn't mind
spending it by your side.
You are my best friend,
my lover and
someone I'm happy to call
my boyfriend.

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Happy 4th Anniversary,
my Giant!
I love you very much..
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At Last..

Yesterday morning, May 18 2020 at around 08:00 AM my time, I finally met and talked to my Giant's son on Skype Video Call. For few days I was a bit nervous whenever thinking about it as this "meeting" the son of a special someone would be my first time.

Although it was a brief meeting and we didn't talk much, it went great. This 19 yo very handsome young man was a bit shy. Hmm.. that he was willing to meet and greet me is highly appreciated.
thumbs up


PS
I would like to give my sincere thanks to the two special bloggers who had given me grips and tips on what to say when meeting this young fella. I love you both.. teddybear
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Atheist VS Believer

According to google, an atheist is a person who disbelieves or lacks belief in the existence of God or gods, while a believer is an adherent of a particular religion; someone with religious faith.

So what..??

I don't understand why you guys keep on and on and on arguing or debating on that topic as if doing that will make you good people and be loved. It will make you "nasty" instead. Besides, whatever you say will never change someone's mind anyway. Just a waste of energy..!! doh


PS
My new passport will be ready on Wed.
First country I have in mind to visit with my Giant is..






NZ. banana
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Choose For Me, Please..

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Please help me to choose one of those ceramic designs for my bathroom walls.. help
Thanks. bouquet
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Getting To Know Someone Better..

No one knows anyone 100% well, even between wives and husbands, parents and kids, let alone girl friends and boy friends. And that includes my Giant and I. Although we have spent time to get to know each other for almost three years now, we still don't know each other well 100%.

However in order to get to know each other better (much bigger than just 25% grin ), I will keep trying to ask him questions or to ask him to do something for me, or simply to just say something and then see how he would react.

So the other day, when he was having breakfast, I asked him about happiness.. his happiness.

Me : Hey Hans darling?
Him : Yes my Princess..

Me : What makes you happy?
Him : Eating Apple Fritters and talking to my girl!


We both smiled smile and then burst into laughter. laugh

Hmm.. I guess I know him quite well when it comes to his happiness.. our happiness!
Yesss.. it's just a smile and a laughter away. boogie heart wings heart beating
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Farewell My Lovely..

I have tried the best I can to get to know him and let him get to know me, but it doesn't work. It just does not. When he needed someone to caress him, I even personally asked a nice lady to be with him as long as he needed. The lady kept me informed about what they had together. Few days after he came back home, away from the lady, he and I were still in contact. Every time I called him, he still responded. I tried my best to talk to him.. to understand him more. But lately it seemed that he just wanted to be alone, doing whatever he loved doing before he met me. I know I am the most guilty one. I couldn't and still can't give him the caresses he needs the way the lady did. So I guess, he missed the lady more than he did me, and that's why he stopped responding to my calls. Yes, he has stopped meeting me.

Nothing I can do, but expect the best for him.

"Farewell my lovely Lucky! I know you are a fighter, not a sissy. I know you would rather starve than become a pet! Watch out when crossing the street and please do stay healthy, ok Lucky! You know where I live. You know how to meet me. You know that my gate will always be open for you. You know you can come back to me any time!"


PS
My Giant has asked me not to give up easily on Lucky.
Well, for my Giant, I will try to find him with my special calls.


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When he was being taken care of by a nice lady friend of mine

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My friend said that Lucky was upset being kept in the cage, so she let him out

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When he was hiding from another cat

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Bena was waiting for Lucky to show up from his hiding

A day after he came back to my home:

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He was there when a gardener stopped by and cleaned my front yard.

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Since Lucky is gone, another cat got the food.
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The Value of My Giant..

Talking about a high value man, I asked my Giant.

Me : Hi Tate, are you a high value man?
Him : Hi Kya, if I have value to you, then I am a high value man.

Me : Ok, let's assess it from the traits a podcaster said, just for fun..
Him : Lol laugh

Me : Do you make 6 figures for about 5 years in a row?
Him : Per year? Nope. 5 years cumulatively? Yes ofcourse.

Me : You do know how many figures I make monthly?
Him : Yes. But hey, your currency is baaaaad! tongue

Me : It doesn't matter as it's the living cost that is taken into account. banana
Him : That's not fair! mumbling

Me : According to the podcaster, it is. And so I make more figures than you. boogie
Him : You're mean! blues

Me : Shall we continue?
Him : Why not, I have nothing to lose. laugh

Then we continued assessing the other traits and comparing his and mine.

Guess what?

Although according to the figures he makes, material he possesses, and time available he has, my Giant is not a high value man, his good attitudes and his available time for his family and me have made him the highest value man in the world to us. What he has and the fact that he is so much loved by his family and friends are far more than enough for me. He makes me smile, laugh, and happy. So I don't give a shit about what that podcaster said. laugh

When a blogger said "I wonder how many men are on the Kevin Samuels Express busily sabotaging the brakes", I can bet that my Giant will never even be on that Express in the first place.

Hmm.. I love you, my Tate, with all my heart. I can't wait to kiss and hug you in flesh! lips heart beating heart wings


Indonesia, 18 December 2022
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I Don't Get It..

I simply don't.

You see, once upon a time I posted a blog about my roof leakage. Some male bloggers commented and told me how to fix it. Not surprising, eh? because fixing stuff like that is mostly a man's job. I thanked them all.

Later on, I started to chat privately with one of those commenters. He was ok, till he and I had disagreement. Then he mentioned how he came to my aid when I had the leaking roof.

I was like .. WTH..?! devil
Why on earth he thought that what he said on my blog was such a big help as if it saved my life? And guess what? I didn't even do what he said about fixing the leakage.

I didn't get it, never do and never will..!

To me anyone mentioning, especially publicly, the help or the rescue (or whatever it's called) they did, wouldn't be the one whom I want to be friends with. Such attitude is a Red Flag! professor
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Happy 3rd Anniversary, My HB!

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Taken today at 12:12 PM my time

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Taken today at 11:11 AM his time.

Thank you for being my wonderful man, HB!
May our love will be long lasting.. heart beating lips kiss



rose Indonesia-USA, 22 October 2022 rose
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Now What?!

I rang a friend of mine who is a veterinarian. I told her about Lucky and his eyes. She said she could only tell after having him checked. "Just bring him to my clinic", she said.

Now.. who will catch and put Lucky in a cage?
(not to mention that I don't have any cage)

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I am too scared to even touch that little monster.. frustrated

Any suggestion?
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The Days He Ran Away..

I couldn't figure out why even to these days. Every time he heard me coming, let alone showing up myself in front of him, he just took off as fast as he could. What had I done? What did I do that deserved such rejection? To be honest, I had mixed feelings.. sad and disappointed. sad

But, I have never been a quitter, especially when I know what I am capable of. Oh well, at least I will try my best. So I kept bringing something for him, secretly ofcourse. Then I would take a peek behind a curtain, to see if he would take it.

And guess what?
He did. Yesss.. he did..!! shock
Still he would run away once he saw me. sad

"Keep trying, Kal! Don't give up!" I told myself.

And one day, we met.. he stood still.. motionless.. frozen.
As if he got caught in the act..
We looked at each other's eyes!

I asked him: "What really has happened to you?"
He didn't answer, but this time he didn't run away.
He looked at me and then left .. walked away from me.

And few days ago..
I saw him as usual. He tried to approach me
He seemed to wait for me as if he couldn't wait to see me.
Aaahhh at last.. banana

I told my Giant about all those. Every time there was a progress, my Giant gave me a kiss. He said: "I am glad you are nice to him, Kal!" kiss

I said: "Nope, I am not nice to him! I gave him milk, chicken and fish, not because I am nice. I simply couldn't stand it every time I looked at him. That tiny little baby kitten.. who always gets in to my verandah.. is right-eye-blind..!" blues
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