Sometimes a person, a name, personifies a whole time of your life

Sometimes, you don’t even realize until you hear their name years and years later and it is a TARDIS moment, you suddenly see people you’d forgotten, hear voices as though they were still speaking, you are scooped back in time and it is magical

It also destroys you a little.

This is not an interactive blog, but if you have had a similar experience, and if you are moved to share it here - sawubona. I see you.
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I managed to avoid Terry until it was time for our next chukka, phew. I didn’t even try to pick up again, just threw all my frustration into tangling the opposing #3 so that he could barely move.

The commentator’s voice blared out of the speakers, ‘a fantastic bit of tactical play there from the Runnerdorp number two, this new player is going to be someone to watch . . . ‘

Terry couldn't help but be impressed - because the commentator was Wayne Thornton, and at that time Wayne was not only the best player in South Africa, he was one of the tiny handful of ten-handicap players in the world

And a helluva nice guy.
We never had a thing, we weren’t even particularly close friends, but with a start like that, I loved him to bits. laugh

A year or two later he was behind his club, the best in the country, inviting me to join them at a time when I had been about to sell my horse and stop playing. They subsidized Bally, paid my tournament fees, transported him to tournaments for me, basically made it possible for me to carry on playing when I was in the middle of a divorce and living on a salary that couldn’t possibly cover a sporting horse.
Polocrosse is a winter sport and one tournament in the Eastern Transvaal was particularly horrendous, icy sleet lashing down, horses skidding all over the place, my canny old horse wouldn’t even try to brake, preferring huge turning circles instead.

Wayne was waiting as we trotted tiredly off after the first chukka, our icy fingers slipping on the reins. He’d brought Schnapps. I’d never drunk it before, and I’ll never drink it again without remembering that tournament. Six players finished 3 bottles in a 6 chukka game - and we won. rolling on the floor laughing
The news has been flashing around Facebook, the few players I stayed in touch with because they were friends as well. Wayne has just died after a long illness. I’m waiting to hear the details, and I’m crying like a baby.
nice reading... thanks Biff!

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I had a similar reaction when I found out a former lover and hockey player had died. Brought back some very meaningful times and things he'd said and done. crying

Heartfelt blog. hug
Last one on this blog. Apologies to everyone who feels blogs should be for the entertainment of all - bite me. dunno

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Very sorry to hear this sad news but enjoyed those memories and the way you wrote them.
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