Looking for Love ( in a dating site)
Many people here openly say they are looking for love.Where do they think to find it ?
People are so obsessed with finding love. (I feel) But it's not a job/business opportunity, lost puppy or a Diamond in a mine to be found or to look for.
You can not find love signing up in a dating site with an ideal partner solidly etched in your head. Matches are only made in heaven. May be you will find a perfect match if and when you reach there. On earth you have to become the match.
Be open minded. Be kind. Be loving. You have to start loving in order to be loved. Love is in loving. You won't find it anywhere else unless you first find it in your own heart.
So... until you find love within yourself, all you need is not love. A shag, a partner to share your life or loneliness with. (May be.)
Delete the ideal image in your mind and learn to accept people for who they are while not changing who you are. That's the basic seed of love.
Or just say, looking for a shag. That is honesty to a certain degree with most profiles. I think.
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Finding a companion is hard as most Men like to play a fool's game.
However, most people do not read, or are only selective readers.
I also had to change my status to "not single/not looking" in order to deter a few but, here again, this doesn't seem to work!