You didn't learn your lesson the first time...
I always have to chuckle when I see a profile of a widow in her 40's looking for a man 20 to 40 years older. What... they didn't learn the first time? The (out of reality) problem is making a statement you want a man to be with you for the rest of your life.Logically, when she reaches retirement (around 65) if he is still living would be 90 years old so the chances of him being around for the rest of your live are very slim. Very slim and you can visit him in assisted living facility if you don't plan to be his nurse.
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Here is my rule: if they look for age group not including their own, but older
I automatially take it they are either straight up scammers (most common)..
..or a little bit less bad: gold diggers, sugar daddy hunters,
walking wallet collectors. Ain't for me,
however
could be a way out of lonelyness for some.
"Hoping to find a companion to grow old with."
42 yr-old woman seeking man, 40-99
Marital Status: Widowed
"honest lady who knows what she want and is serious about find a companion to grow old with."
doesn't put a slight damper on our newly found peculiarity, no.
Widow at 42... he was 39 and died of hard labor in a coal mine? lol
"Native american widow looking for a god fearing family oriented man. I wish to become your wife. I will listen to you when you need me. I will cook for you, make you happy every day and be all you wish a woman to be for all time... etc.etc... you know- only a man would write something like that...