I Don't know what To do ..HELP ?
Hey Friends .. here i am .. once again with some news of my life !!
Now it's getting complicated !! this guy that im seeing and dating is the one that i've told about in one of my blogs earlier
it's been now like a month for us .. but we got to talk about(US) !! and where we goin into our relationship !!
This guy is great ..makes me happy and finally im really feeling safe and secure with this guy ..until that moment when we opend up the subject ..and my friends .. I really need your help with this !!
The guy likes me alot .. He says !! and that he is so happy with me and all ..but he is not ready for a serious relationship with anyone ..and he is afriad to fall in love again ..or being hurt !! and that we are happy where we are and if we call it love and get serious ...things will be complicated and we might lose each other !!!!
I explained to him that ..he is right !!somehow !! he is right to be afriad of it ..but i told him that i would so disagree ..
cuz it's not cuz we told each other I love you .. then it's oveR !! Im one of the ppl who got really REALLY REALLY hurt so many times ..but im not afriad to do it again ..if he is the right person .. and i told him that ..I am who i am !! i will never change just becoz we got serious !! no ..I would be getting better with you and all ..
He start thinkin' about what i said ..and i could see from his face that time .. that he is fallin' for me but he is scared somehow !! and he replied : Sara I don't wanna lose you at all ..I don't want things to get complicated ..
I told him : things wont get complicated and things are going slow as we are taking it slow to get to know each other well ..
and i can see that we like each other alot ..and we treat each other right ...
he replied : let's see how things go but im not promising !!
now i don't know friends !! I JUST DONT KNOW !!! Im not rushing things .. he wanted to talk about it ...
now it's too complicated for me ..and i just can't live between a YES or a NO .. just cuz he said so ..
and I know he likes me alot ..I know he can't be without me ..
he still calles and all .. just like before ..
but ..I don't wanna fall in love with him ..the next day I see him getting married with another or something.. just like what happened to me before ..
What to Do now ? After being with such a great guy !!
should i just hold on to it ..and see if it's a YES or a NO ..
or should i just forget about it .. and move on for better chances !!!!!?????????????cuz he is not helping me with this
Aaaaaaaaaaaaahhh I hate this
Swan
Comments (20)
NO !!? Mick is the sweetest friend
Swan
I think he likes you a lot, but maybe time is not enough for him to be sure anything for a promise. How about waiting for the other one month? And try to know him as much as possible, and also let him know you as much as possible too…
If later, when you both know very well each other and he is still not able to “promise”, then, my best suggestion is… look for the other man! :-)
there'no need to hide any longer , let's love each other to the
fullest once again ....besides there's no need to relocating ,with
my 'special powers' i can reach you from here ....
Still I don't know ..but ..thank you
Swan
You're sooooo Sweet & I would be lucky to have you
Swan
Im not into open relationships ..and it's not allowed here !
Swan
so come on grab him...
i mean grab it...(the commitment)
go to where your heart and life would be happy....
follow ur heart dear swan....
oh,before i forget,your asking the size of the short guy on the poetry corner,,,,it's 1 meter man sis.w/your height,you cant see him under,lol
I know im not rushing but ..this needs time !! just like a baby
and hell no i don't want him to run away from me !!
Today after i wrote this blog ..I called him and i was about to cut it off with him someway !!
Thanks alot my sis Jeddah !! you're the best I swear ..
heheheheheeh That poem was really fun and cool
And I think with my highet he wont be reaching me at all
Thanks again lovely lady
Swan
Thanx
wish i can repay you someday ..cuz wise words like yours can be more valuable then anything in the world
Have A good Day
Swan
If he cares about you so much I cant see y a man would not commit...
But how could i possibly give any advise!!
Instead i wish u luck...Well not so much luck as happiness!!
Take care swan!!
and what u sayin is what im sayin' that , if he is so into me and likes me that much ..why wont he commit ?
That's why ..i can't be just stuck within an empty promise as john said ..
in the same time .. he is sooooo good to me ..I can't just cut it of !! NOW WAT THE HELL ????
Nobody will give the answer but him !!
Swan
Swan