what if he says he loves you but his profile is st
another dilemma for me with online dating. he tells you he loves you and yet his profile is still up?what are the rules? in a normal dating scenario, if one says he loves you then we assume said person will not be looking for another and will just focus on you (correct me if i am wrong). - how does this translate to online dating? when someone you havent met but have been in touch with every day for months and finally says he loves you yet, his profile is still out there. is this acceptable? should we then assume that he is still looking despite the fact? what is acceptable? i took off mine but decided to reinstate when i realised his is still up there.
online dating seems like the new frontier for some. myself included. when real time dating is already a challenge - online dating seems like the heart of the amazon jungle to the uninitiated. there doesnt seem to be any rules (or none that i could find) and things get easily confused or misconstrued. you could just as easily plunge into a ravine for not knowing where to look. what signs to look for? is it really worth it?
should we ask him why his prof is still active? or is it even worth a mention?
dazed and confused.
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Don't disagree on that part..the rest. wouldn't i even think about before i met the person..
Well..we all been there...its easy to be carried away. I would advice not to take anything for given before you are face to face.
Although rare, some people really do fall in love online. lol! I think you're taking this too seriously! lol! What are you doing on a dating site if you don't believe in pixels and words lol!
I'm sure he feels affection... perhaps strong affection... but I'm not sure those are the words he should use...
I also believe that "I love you" should wait to be said in person. Not online and not on the phone... in person.
Ask him about this (his 'I love you')... ask him what you mean to him and what he wants to mean to you...
You should be able to have this conversation... (worry about the profile later)
You didnt answer this yet..
@music -
k g33kgurl..If you met him in person, youve known him for 3 months and hes been telling you he loves you, but he is still keeping his profile up then it sounds like hes trying to maybe play you..
Maybe you should keep your options open and date other guys? Keep talking to him but dont committ untill you see very good proof he is in love and can be faithful.
...and if I was in aus, I would have been on your doorstep like yesterday...you see.
The man could be for real...only you know the answer to that...just saying your've chatted and seen one another...could be the distance making it harder...better to find out the turth that he was fake, than throw him away and never know.
So if his profile is still up, then just simply confront to him
even though I think deep inside we also already know what he gonna say :)
good luck
Listen to what she says about her own 'buildup'. Thats how it should be. Mutually focused on removing the distance.
Is that the situ with you guys, or not.. Thats the q u have to ask urself.
Apart from that i dident like he's response. Is this a "get u before u get me" cenario like Lana once mentioned?..
Profile can be put inactive, without closed. U did it why dident he?
I think what he has in mind is: for now im not decided, i want to still check out my options. Profile stays up.
In a way that is fair...
-just as u can't expect him to not have a onenighter this weekend if he decides to.
Work on finding out if one can move or not. If u meet the wall on that (
then shot the door on him. 4good. Cos if he dont jump it soon,
its not as strong in him as it is in u.
Advice: Look more at actions than words.
because,,, some people who spend time too write too you,,,,
are wasting there time,,,,,, always remember it,s nice too be nice,,,,,,,
so that,s why he has giving up on you,,,, because you have not replyed back too him,,, for so long,,,,,,
wake up lady,,,,,, people say hello for a reason,,,,,,,
if you dont reply back as much as he does,,,,,,,,
then he is going too find,,,, someone else,,,,,,,
not waiting for you,,, who ignores him,,,,, wake up,,, ya fool,,,,,,,,,
were is this guy,,,, has he replyed back too this blog,,,,,,