Finding the courage.

Yesterday before I joined this site I did something that had taken me a while to build up the courage to do. I approached a guy I really liked, asked if he was single and then asked if he would like to meet up for a coffee when he replied that he was. He turned me down. I was disappointed which is natural but at the end of the day he did what was right for him and I learned a valuable lesson about myself. I did something that absolutely terrified me. Thanks to this guy I learned that I can do something even if I'm scared out of my wits. Never be afraid of doing something even if it scares you because unless you do how do you know if you are going succeed or fail. Never be afraid of failing because at least you tried. Have a good evening everyone.
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Brave Woman! thumbs up Have a good evening youreself! cool
Agree soo much thumbs up thumbs up

Salute u bigtime! Well done!

Now u are here. Nice. Also a step. The trick here is to have a combo if ice in stomach/coolness and activety.

Best of luck. No need to get disapointed, depressed of little activety here- create it yourselves, but dont expect too much too fast.

Welcome to the lonely heart club handshake

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Good for you for taking the courage to ask. I would think it would be no different for men ...... to feel uncertain as to whether to take that step to ask someone out.
Good for you! thumbs up
I've done so myself & would do it again. First I did he told me he was flattered & was with someone. Second time another guy said yes.

Ask & you shall receive an answer maybe not what you wanted ir expected but ast least you know & not left wondering....what if! And sometimes someone got to get the ball rolling....thumbs up handshake
Wish i had your Courage.You have thought me a valuable lesson.
Face my Fears.frustrated frustrated
heeei, Blue O! I thought you were married by now??? grin
By the way, wasen`t youre fear some ghosts, that hunted youre house? confused cool
Thank you for the comments. I was here before and left when I met someone through a contact ad in my local newspaper. We were together for a little over a year and basically mutually agreed to end the relationship. Partly because of the distance involved (150 miles each way for him) and for me well it just didn't feel right for me. We parted friends. That was more than a month ago.
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I am a reliable, honest, caring and easy going lady. I'm an early riser. When I first meet someone I can be a bit shy but do tend to open up once I get to know someone. I also wear two hearing aids so who ever I meet needs to face me and speak clearl [read more]

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