SEE THE PROBLEM IS THIS

The men I am interested in will never be interested in me , because of the way i am..........and the women you are interested in are not interested in you because of the way you are......THATS THE PROBLEM
I don't remember who made this profound statement, but i just remembered it.
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Problem with u takeme is that unlike jana u dont stick around to descuss. U write and leave usually. Therefore i have never been able to have one single conversation with you, like i had with jana. So i asume u hate me. Thats ok though, but i miss the opportunety to discuss in a friendly way with you.

Cheers.
Thankfully, that is not always true. applause
That statement pretty much sums it all up with me. Well said.
morganuly..........thanks for your reply, yes the pictures are all of me , within the past two years . My blogs are inspired by my own experiences in life and dating . I am not afraid to expose myself and admit to what I have done, Because I do have shame, I do have embarrassment, I do have pride. I am normal . I feel love , never hate, and mostly I have compassion for people. To tell of my experiences helps me purge myself, I often follow a relationship, because it is bad, just to be able write a story about it after....... if it was normal, it would not be funny. I am a believer in turning something bad into something good , if one person can get a laugh out of a story of what i experienced then it was worth it for me....... take care sweet man, saskia
And i Quote uh oh
"it's better to love and lost than to never have loved at all"
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Now the problem really is, is, you can have everything you don't want. frustrated
Maybe the other person is interested, but just chooses to keep their distance so as to maintain their single status?
Many people now realize they don't require a partner to make them whole, to travel, to have financial freedom.
Singles are no longer looked down on in society as being lesser than their monogamus friends.
There are a lot who want someone as you say, but are they willing to prove their urges and longings for that person?
Whoever said that, works for me. Simply because of the way i am ! But it's my way !wink Take it or leave it, ain't it ?drinking
It was written by...A Very Profound Statement Maker...wow drinking drinking bouquet
Yeah, Saskia... Beeing ourself creates loners like me...
At least you are dating people?cool wine laugh
This is why money is important.
I disagree with the "mysterious" statement by this hehe.. 'wiseman' the op quotes. I think such 'popular-problems' is a creation, that bears nothing. I do feel opposite attracts however, as long as the oppostion is not to big. lol...

Just bs if u ask me. What i DO think however is that ppl who are attracted to such "philosophy" designed to confuse...or rather mystefy; is for some, and defnetly not for the others. Im in cathegory two. I dont want to much mystification.

With other words, takemetofrance (which i now heve become more found of) and me is not a good match (romantically). The mystefiers and the non-mystefiers should not date cos i dont believe it will be other then a crash. We would simply like different things. Specially when it coms to boundries.

It goes beyond opposites attract. The worlds are simply to different. One would feel discomfort in the mystification, the other will seek it.

Morgan
And just so there is no dubt: Saskia, i find you very sweet also, and i mean all i said earlier that i respect u, admire you and like u. Just state here that we are attreacted to different things. Bet u agree.
Good the world is versatile. Would be a bore if it wasen't.
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so I say ..

...why not change who u are and see what happens?

yeah u are a bit of an ah but u ain't not bad at all ...

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vyoleta, its a common phenomenon, with older guys these days , they have become committment phobes due to easy access ( whether it be real or imagined) of quick instantly gratifying internet dates. We older ladies who desire in truth the security of a committed relationship are left floundering with men who quickly disappear off to find new bedtime mates as gullible as I sometimes am , who are readily available and also believing this could be the one.
Well, takemetofrance, Hi, wave

I guess your statement is really interesting since I heard it for times before. It's right in one side but sometimes it's not only because of the way I am or the way you are the problem is. The problem is sometimes comes in the men or women's mind or idea that they like someone they can't get. So it's not my fault or your fault or it's not because me or you be our own self then something wrong and he/she becomes not interested in me/you.

The other side is, it's true that he/she is not interested in us if we did something he/she doesn't like such as possessive or low self esteem. It's obvious needs self review.

See from both side view he/she and me/you.

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And what is the way you are, Takemetofrance? You're certain attractive, no doubt about that. But what else makes up the way you are?

And are you really looking for someone to take you to France?
you remember who made the statement, don't be fibbin wave banana yay rolling on the floor laughing
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