I'm just an average retired blue collar guy. Not fancy, not flashy, not wealthy, not broke, not brilliant, not stupid. I am honest, kind, gentle, and a sweetie. House broken and actually have references. Looking for a gentle hand to hold, sweet lips
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Yes. I didn't know his true feeling for me because he has never said anything about it when we met. But, he knew I considered him as my big brother. It went pretty sad, he got married and I lose contact with him. I only found out 2 years after that about his feeling for me. I confirmed it to a friend of mine (who is his friend too) and this friend thought I have realized his feeling for me long time before my confirmation
No wonder this guy once proposed but he said it was only for a status until I get my green card. I didn't know he meant something else by conveying his proposal.
He was married and I was friends with both him and his wife for years... until he told me he'd fallen in love with me.
I told him I didn't feel the same way; there's no way of sugarcoating it and best to be clear. I also asked him to tell his wife which he did. Ofcourse the friendship changed after that and I decided to take my distance. Met him a few years later... he's still together with his wife and they even had another baby so I'm glad they made it through even though I feel sorry for the friendship.
I've been on the other end a few times and always appreciated the honest and direct way... the 'short' pain
It's never ok to play with someones feelings or string them along.
well NOW u know i mean
(then u where probably a little stupid girl).
good question and good blog
I have thought about that a bit and this is the result of my thinking process...
Once I had no feeling for him... I hardly realised he fell in love with me
I hope.
.....a lot of times i am the one who is falling...or maybe just liking...
but i wanna talk about one who had a very strong feeling to me but coz of i was with someone else she didnt tell me. i was feeling her love in every step of her.we met again after 2 years and i was surprised how she became soo hot.and i fall in love with her too.she was joking with me that she must ignore me now as i was ignoring her 2 years ago.but we had very good 6 month together then i left the country and we stayed as a friends.
This is a sensitive subject. How did you know that they loved you? Because they said so. Oh Rowdy you are a wise man and you know words are cheep. If I loved someone and they didn't love me back it would hurt my feelings but life goes on. I have been through alot tougher things. Marriage,divorce,death these are all alot tougher than finding out someone doesn't love you.