Why don't women find me attractive?

Okay...something's been borthering me a lil and that is...why don't women find me attractive?I'm sweet,romantic,loving,have a great personality,I know what I want in life,I'm caring,and I am talented.I know I'm not the greatest looking guy but still...I'm cute enough.So women..why don't you's find me attractive?
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Try smiling in your profile pics grin
Cos you look totally immature on your pictures and the pic with the cigarette is absolutely ridiculous. JMPO
You're white. Fix your hat.
Welcome to the story of my life...you're not the only one mate! Join the club ,seems we not alone in this ...a few good men are .cheers
I guess you need a profile-review, if you want to know the answer of your questions.Change your photowink thumbs up
Hi CJ, be yourself and don't worry about your looks. You have the personality that can attract women. You have the talent in music, so bring it out. Who knows one day you'll be swarmed by beautiful women.

Ahem....you look cute.grin
Your in an age bracket and you have a clothing style which is not really CS type of thing. You should try a website where your style will be better accepted.

I'm sure you can Google a site!
Just a suggestion,perhaps being a little up beat and sending out more positive signals. You mentioned being bored in your pics? readers might see this as that your not wanting to put much effort in.
People are attracted to confidence,the looks thing isn't what's important in the long run, it's good communication and putting it out there. Your only young,plenty of time to worry about getting too serious. Talk about some of your talents and goals in your profile. Good luck..!
just be yourself and don't worry what others think.music will set you free.seems like you have a good personality.someday it will happen.patience is a virtue.
u can say how great you are and what u can do, but a pictures attracts people first! and ur pics are not taken from a good angle, it makes ur cheek bones stand out even more and ur eyes narrow! try from a normal angle and smile u dont have to show any teethgrin
The captions on your pics all say you are either bored or tired which probably isn't what you want to project to prospective partners. You also look like you are about to murder someone, which may be attractive to other murderers of course. I do only suspect a couple of members on this site to be murderers, however, so the pool seems to be quite small.

Good luck.
Guys, he's 22 not 40!

I think the pic with the smoke in your mouth is no big deal. And the way you dress is fine too. The only thing I would change as others have mentioned is to smile in your pics as it makes you look happier, more exciting and probably more attractive. Change the titles too as tired and bored sound lame. Not putting anything would be better than that. You're a cute guy. Good luck with the demo!
Well, CJ! You are still young. You have lots of time to explore yourself. First thing to do is mature act (fix that hat), eat more, and smile! That's the first things you need to do. Of course, don't act possessive to a woman.
CJ..It's not as if you have got a Face that would Stop a Clock!!dunno Maybe a Baseball Cap 2 Sizes Larger would Help!!!wow handshake
cheers And Try to Smilegrin grin
You don't lack for looks so that isn't the issue.
The hat isn't doing you any favors.
Smoking is unattractive.

As for the profile it needs a bit of work.
Never be negative.
Some things don't need to be mentioned in a profile.

Such as:

"and I don't like talking about my mom or surtan things from my past." (fyi surtan s/b certain)

"who is trust worthy,open when it comes to talking and a women that can accept me for who I am and who won't wanna change me."


The first statement you made is just information you don't need to express in a profile. The second is fine except I would remove the part about changing you. Don't assume that women want to change men.

Just sell your positives only so that you can get a conversation started with a woman. Start with having just a couple nice pics where you smile, and project a more adult image. Once you start getting to know someone you can begin to express more of your personality and see if they are receptive.

Good luck to you. cheering
thinks you have good looks but this isnt for rappers want to be's. just be yourself not an image you think is cool
CJ2012between ballies and groups ..is where you will find view my profile .ummmmmm i mean not view my profile confused your profile .grin beer
And her name is ariel!!!

JUST KIDDING SWEETIE! I couldn't resist it!!! We all love you very very much!!
Girls don't much like me either so don't feel bad
@CJ,
Your questions has been answered and your profile reviewed.You are lucky most of the good and nice bloggers commented on your blog.Good luck to youwink thumbs up hug


Guys thank you to all wave wave wave
Ed teddybear

Still, don't lie! laugh wink
You are looking for a woman that can accept you for who you are and who doesn't wan't to change you.

We all change when we meet people. That's the positive side of life. It's just that it takes time. And you are right about that you don't should be involved with women who wants to change you over night. A good relationship is about growing and changing together, slowly and with respect.

And ask a friend to take 200 pictures of you, and you will see that you can find some where you have a good smile. We all like to see when someone smiles. But I rarely smiles on photos, so it's worth to consider that I also have to take a lot of pictures to capture a smile...

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Well I love cooking,music,writing,going for walks along the water to watch the sunset,I have a huge caring heart and I am talented,I know what I want in life and will do what I gotta do to make things happen.I have move around alot and I rather risk [read more]

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