when it comes to forgiving ...
Do we really forget ?Because in life, forgiving and forgetting seem to come in two different packages.
The first package we receive is usually the forgiving package.
And the second one to arrive is the forgeting package.
But the second package are often lost in the mail for a very very long time before it is finally delivered to our hands.
And sometimes, this forgetting package gotten so lost in the mail it is no where to be found.
So when it comes to forgiving, do we really forget ???
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Forgiving is great quality to have, but it is imp to not let anyone take advantage of such gift!
So have to use the GIFT carefully
said and thought i've forgave yet could never forget
Time should heal the wonds but all he does is make you not think so much as you need think to the present and future, thats all he does. Let's be honest are things that we will never forgive or forget!
How i feel for u all,
Sure we must learn from our past mistakes, and our past hurts, but these can be turned into wonderful memories, if we allow ourselves not to accept only bad memories.
Forgive, cause thats what u really want to do,
Forget, cause u believe it will not happen again.
should u choose not to forget, u only allow ur past to hinder ur future, thus making ur present miserable........
Come on guys, To FORGIVE is WONDERFUL, to FORGET is DIVINE.......
Kasih...why are u not alseep, at the time of u writing this, it must have been about 3.30 am ur time.
Dont beat urself up...relax and sleep. Good things will come ur way.
To forget is even better
to sneak up and clobber them with a hammer, . . . . . . priceless . . . . .
i prefer my knife , thank you
ur right some times i prefer my baseball bat, or german bayonet of the WW1.
to forget, is to erase something from memory.... my memory is too good, so its not mentally possible.
but , look on the bright side "at least I can remember why i forgave "...
PS: I havn't forgotten what she ( and others )said either .
yep to make any sense they shud come in one package
PS: Jana here . . .
Tx
but you can forgive them who hurt you,it needs time,but in the end of the day, you'll find that it's not a big deal,it's just one of the life lesson to make us stronger and wiser
And I intend to use both of the gifts (if it ever arrived
And why on earth you still use a dagger old mate, they invented nuclear and biochemical weapon for a change .. Hahah
But, it feels relieve ...
Come ere' and I will give you a hug ..
i swear , i am begging my mind to let them go, but it insists bring them on and on , using these fu..ing flash backs .
oooohhhh how i wish i could forget and live in peace for just a couple of minutes.
Tht is just the way I am made.
Every body is awake at 3.30 am, no body sleeps nowadays
But maybe they will send again, because when you let go of things it might just come back.
Well atleast that is what ppl say