The one that got away.
Well the sun is in hiding, I sip my coffee and the endless oceanof grey cloud accompanied by the sound of wood pigeons and bird
songs breaking the summer breeze bring me to another time.
A time of youthful adventure and the uncaring anticipation for future events. A time when I sat in the company of friends at the canteen table joking about the events of the night before,
Sharing bashful smiles with the most beautiful girl in the world.
I had that year deemed myself to old for pulling pig tails, and I presume she had come to the conclusion that playing hard to get was not always a good thing. It seems we both replaced these typical School yard behaviors with a constant volley of witty retorts. Bouncing harmless Insult after harmless Insult at each
other, We entered a strange relationship And being a dumb Guy I did not and still to this day don’t understand fully what we had. I do remember however that this was without doubt the happiest time of my life and looking back now I understand that she made it so.
In fact such was our un-acted upon Passion for each other that in the parting of ways we were in the end more Like Heathcliff and Cathy than Romeo and Juliet. I suppose Sometimes love is simply doomed by the complication of the Human condition.
On leaving that love behind I was lucky enough to to be the proud owner of a 2nd generation mobile Phone. More compact than its bigger brother but still a brick none the less. I remember She was the first person to make a call on it and the look of amazement on her face when her mother answered was priceless and will always stay with me. Her smile made me very happy. The Internet was in its infancy and The real world was all I had. Why I walked away I will never Know.
I often think how would things have been If I asked her out, I’m sure our kiss would have been ranked with Mark Anthony and Cleopatra’s. Could We have made it till today. I guess I will never know. What I do know is that my life has taken many twists and turns since we departed. Some of these meandering roads have left me with the harsh lessons of life’s folly’s, others have given me the gift of companions for my Travels. Friends and Family of all shapes and sizes. But none strangely so Intriguing as the formless entanglement’s from all walks of life we meet here in the void of Virtual space.
Strange that life should send me Here to a blank page, and give me a keyboard. Is this Destiny that I am typing and you are reading. Is this the reason we are here. Am I some how to Inspire you to avoid my faith. Or are you supposed to rescue me from mine.
a song for that never forgotten Someone from not so long ago.
Do you have one that got away, Do you remember them fondly. ?
Comments (92)
Reading this really hit home. That song...
So glad you liked it
It made me smile amongst other emotions
I like the way you did write this
AS for your questions yes they got away, i got away as well
THAT is not a problem the problem is now that the internet is there they are still absent
For whatever reason, family, work, snobbism,
Even money for them is a problem
WHEN i have some they dont like it
WHEN i have none they dont like it
IT IS not that they dislike me
IT is just that they are always on a look out for something to happen
LIKE retirement, or new job, or new girlfriend
THEY FORGET THAT friends should be the more important link
BUT NO they do not avail themselves
OH well new horizons might open for myself as well
GOOD BLOGGING non
WHAT is scary nowadays is falling for someone on the net
UNLESS the person appears on camera
THEN you feel it if you like the person or not
JUST AS WELL
ta da...
someone once told me Its as easy to fall out of love as it is to fall in, But I don't agree. Not for me anyhow.
I hope I didnt spark an old flame you wont be able to put out
I believe there is nothing I can add other than: thank you for sharing .
about your question: Yes, and Yes.
Its always better when your about the blogs
Not Two at the same time I hope
Love on the rocks
FOR each person i fell in love with:
music was involved, the music they listen to, sometimes playing a musical instrument themself
what they were doing, how they did cope with it,
Different background, different countries,
Different attitudes,
I find what did break these relations was youth, a desire to explore different situations
NOW that i am getting older i think it would be much easier to settle down
Knowing what i like and dislike
I would not like booze anymore , that is a big trap
for some of us
Some people are too focus on work as well
I THINK for a couple is best if you do the things that are healthy together
LIKE walking, cycling, playing a musical instrument if possible
TRAVELLING from time to time
NOT SPENDING time and time over in the pubs
WHEN you are young the pubs seemed to be the place to be
NOT ANYMORE for me
RESTAURANTS i did give it a go
DID like it, but you also get bored if you go to often
ON YOUR OWN, living on your own is too tedious
IT is nice if you get on well with a partner
IF you do not SPLIT UP
IF that is possible
NOT everybody has circumstances that do allow them to do this
IT does take a while to get use to live on your own
after splitting from someone
LOVE is best
HATE is not worth and dangerous
I remember fondly those who got away and also those who didn't.
I do think I have one that got away... I remember them all fondly. They are still a part of me...
So after some time ,my brain made the connection Her = pain
Youth is indeed wasted on the young.
Nice you remember them all fondly.
I know some people who became bitter after breakups. man how they can change
Its a pity they don't do PHD's in nut kicking.
If they did you'd be a doctor
A great name for the pic and a nice guitar tune too
Thanks for the high Praise my friend, My summer with the boys is at an end and I will be devoting time to my creative musings as summer rolls to an end also But I do hope to see more Sunshine Before hand
"Every time I thought of her, I gave myself a swift kick in the groins (don`t ask how I managed to do that)"
I know how you do it...
Nice post. Thanks for stopping by. Part of my problem is Im a drifter, I like to float and sail along. But your advise has not fallen on deaf ears. And I do hope your search reaches a conclusion soon too.
where did the Plutonium Go
GREAT BLOG...
That sums me up in one, The eternal scatter brain.
Don't get me wrong I do meditate when needed, But I should center more often than I do. I do love the hustle and bustle of the multiverse. Perhaps I will sleep when I get where Im Going
That sheds new light on mobile radiation Theory
I am pleased you like the blog. I hope you left the gun in its holster
42 is your fav,number?...