when yes becomes no
So you offered tea and she was like well, I’m not sure. So you said you’d start it and see how she felt but when you had, she decided not. A waste of time and effort on your part, but tea is all about choice, and consent.Or she said yes to tea, but then she changed her mind. What you going to do, force it on her?
Or she said yes to a cup of tea, then passed out. NO TEA.
Maybe you were just talking about having tea and she passed out instead. DEFINITELY no tea.
Okay, now re-read it with 'sex' instead of 'tea'.
This is borrowed from a blog on The Loop and I thought it was a really effective definition of consent. Agree? Not?
Comments (27)
Oh! S., drugs! And alcohol....
I said No to tea, then he relentlessly pitched that he makes good tea, I wasn't sure, he kept pushing...I got fed up, was running out of excuses so I accepted the tea ...it was milky , it was good, no regrets!
Yeah! DC99. Also! Can make us some Tea Cakes..
He makes good tea...not a drop goes to waste
So I was like..."ok, let's get this over with, give me your best tea" he did...
We'll never know till we try ...some are really worth trying....
No is no and I'm definite with that beforehand. Never had a problem that way.
Solly, Solly, Solly. I'm now so confused I can't remember what I'm drinking.
Anyone for hot chocolate?
I'm up for something nice and hot anytime.