What Men and Women Want…Changes As They Grow Older
This is solely based on my observations. I would welcome any opinion that could clarify and contribute more meaning to my following statements::wink:Women in their 20s desire men around their age who are good looking, funny, clever and financially stable…the perfect guy.
Men in their 20s desire women who are older, confident, financially stable…a mother figure whom they could get a lot of experiences from.
Women in their 30s desire men who are clever, financially stable, not so funny will do, not too good looking will do…stability and security matter most.
Men in their 30s desire women who are of the same mental, emotional , physical and financial wavelength. She has to be confident , good looking and knows how to carry herself…someone he can be proud of and raise a family…picture perfect marriage
Women in their 40s will accept men who are less financially stable, less good looking, less funny, less clever but will gladly opt for better option in the offer.
Men in their 40s desire women who are a little bit younger but the “been there, done that” type. She has to be confident, clever, funny, witty , good looking , emotionally and mentally stable….and financially independent.
Women in their 50s plus plus…many will tend to desire men who are much younger, less financially stable but quiet good looking, can be fun, not clever and not educated will do as long as they are young, physically active and gorgeous…but if common sense prevails, many will choose to stay single and enjoy their carefree lifestyle and freedom
Men in their 50s+ plus plus…many tend to desire women young enough to be their daughters…hot and sexy will be fantastic, she doesn’t have to be brainy…doesn’t have to work…he will be more than willing to give everything she desires but those who have wisdom and "old enough" to know what’s good for them will opt to find companionship with someone he has a lot in common with.
Ok, ok, I know, I know....please don't take me seriously...the above are just my own observations and assumptions:
Comments (107)
I tell you what they want ..
First that you didn't write interesting blogs when it's past their bedtime ..sorry but it's past midnight here !
Regarding men ..younger wild hot hippies ..clever ..intelligent ..fun to be with. .active and fit ..conversationalist is irrelevant as there won't be much time for that ..and preferably an artist who has plenty of time on his hands and also very creative .
Did I forget anything ?
Hang on ..We have a Cupid here who could help me find one maybe ?
Also willing to relocate if necessary ?
Can't older men be hot and wild too? I've heard they're more creative and know women's buttons more than the younger men...I guess experiences speak louder than words?
Or do they get rusty when they get older?
Sorry, my time for blogging coincide with my work...when work is a little quiet then I get post whatever comes on my mind...so it's usually for nocturnal bloggers...
that's just heresay...
Thank your for your observations.
I want a marriage that looks good in the picture...but, outside of that .....it can be a tornado.
From my experiences....from the man perspective, I think you are pretty accurate. The key for me is to have a woman who knows what she wants and recognizes it when she has it....and will not walk on her man....she realizes the grass is sometimes not greener on the other side.
I don't want a man twenty or fifteen years younger, the youngest I would probably go is ten...and hopefully physically he looks like the older one, lol. People age so differently...some quickly, some slowly...this is one thing that surprised me to learn.
I do think most men desire someone younger, but then they do want someone they can talk to and someone who will partner with them in life. The ones who have a little wisdom, that is.
Fidelity, loyalty, honesty and respect from our partner...I think we all want that. I wanted that too...it lasted for 10 years...it hurst, I moved on but it changed my perception towards relationship
In my case...I've been there, done that...so come what may now
But you seem to be a perfect catch...with someone like you, I won't mind doing it all over again
yes, I think our wants and needs changes as we get older.
When I was my 20s, I was dreaming of that perfect man close to my age who's everything I could ever want in a man...it did happened
In my 30s, I just want somebody I can relate to, talk to...understand me when I'm cranky
Geez...I'm still in my 30s
Thanks! always good to hear it from a man's point of view