Abby1963

California, USA

Jan 2016

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Wrong or right

I went onto my boyfriends face book and I saw a comment from his ex girl friend who he told me he wasnt talking to . I got upset because this has happened before . I called him out on it. He then went on to tell me he thought he had blocked me (Hiding Something ???) ) told me I was nosey I then told him it's called social media if he didn't want others reading it he should take it down .we broke up over this .my question is am I wrong for looking on my boy friends face book . The man yelled and ignored my calls and texts when he did call he yelled at me so bad you would have thought I murdered someone . I apologized to him but He remains mad and doesn't want to date me any more we were happy for over 6 months so I though ..she lives in a different state and is married .Please give me your opinion .sitting here broken hearted

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Abby1963OP●California, USA

Jan 22, 2016●25 Blogs●714 Comments

Pedal I'm just happy you didn't yell at me for peeking at your profile instead of coming to you and asking you questions first

yes you might have a tad to much information on your profile

you might want to cut some of your info down lol .may I ask why no profile picture posted ?

sands88●buckingham, Pennsylvania USA

Jan 22, 2016●52 Blogs●1,739 Comments

and once again Pedal, congrats...

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mollybaby●Cork City, Cork Ireland

Jan 22, 2016●37 Blogs●11,285 Comments

I personally have no problem with a partner having any kind of social media presence.

It is a social outlet, a way of keeping in contact with people.

What I would object to is lying and hiding information from your partner. That is a problem whether online or offline.

Abby1963OP●California, USA

Jan 22, 2016●25 Blogs●714 Comments

sands your funny .thanks for the chuckle

Abby1963OP●California, USA

Jan 22, 2016●25 Blogs●714 Comments

Molly I agree with everything you just said. I don't understand the lies . I'm not going to bother trying to ask him .it would be a lie anyways . I'm still breathing I didn't die over him

time will heal thanks again for your comment

pedalguy59●Burlington, Ontario Canada

Jan 22, 2016●2,000 Comments

Knives

You have no idea what little cutlery
I have, thanks

Just going with the trend...no pic.

Dreamcatcher99●Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia

Jan 22, 2016●60 Blogs●2,344 Comments

I missed it coz I was

Nevermind, I have to be extra vigilant from now on OldBlue's blog.

Abby1963OP●California, USA

Jan 22, 2016●25 Blogs●714 Comments

Pedal please be careful with those knives don't be playing a Benihana chief lol I might get stabbed .culinary arts can be learned just like the art of throwing knives

I tease you

pedalguy59●Burlington, Ontario Canada

Jan 22, 2016●2,000 Comments

I only have enough cutlery and plates etc. for two.

Abby1963OP●California, USA

Jan 22, 2016●25 Blogs●714 Comments

Yeah but that gives you a few shots two forks two knives can be very dangerous in the wrong hands maybe sands should take his knives back

pedalguy59●Burlington, Ontario Canada

Jan 22, 2016●2,000 Comments

No, I earned them. I rarely win anything.

Abby1963OP●California, USA

Jan 22, 2016●25 Blogs●714 Comments

Yikes a roo may I ask what your going to do with you new lovely set of steak knives ? Don't forget to thank sands

it was very thoughtful of him

lol

pedalguy59●Burlington, Ontario Canada

Jan 22, 2016●2,000 Comments

Yeah, Sands is a cool guy. Actually I do need some steak knives.
Only for culinary purposes.

pinksdejavu●Somewhere, West Virginia USA

Jan 23, 2016●12 Blogs●55 Comments

Dear sweet Abby, I'm so sorry for your pain. I've been there and it's difficult to get over. Give yourself time to grieve then let it go and begin to live for you! No one deserves to be yelled at especially you. It's best that you are safe and moving on. Take care my friend. Bless U! Hugz, pink.

Abby1963OP●California, USA

Jan 23, 2016●25 Blogs●714 Comments

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don't be shy lol yes he dumped me . I didn't know I was blocked I was only able to see his wall and she left a message there .i don't understand face book to much .he was following 4 girls I also don't know what that means?? I will get past this in time .i deserve better there's more to the story which he admitted I just don't know what .thank you for your comment

Abby1963OP●California, USA

Jan 23, 2016●25 Blogs●714 Comments

Pink thank you for your sweet comment it's his problem I have to look out for my health he's not health for me I've known this for quiet some time to be honest I stayed because I was afraid to be alone .my daughter said mom you were always alone with him she's right

moc1234●Tralee, Kerry Ireland

Jan 23, 2016●10 Blogs●105 Comments

Abby good riddance to bad rubbish he probably has some other lady lined theres better out there for you don't be hung up on him move on pastures new

Abby1963OP●California, USA

Jan 23, 2016●25 Blogs●714 Comments

Mov thanks for saying he problay has another girl lined up .just when I was starting to feel better

thank you for your comment

nmsondlo●Pretoria, Gauteng South Africa

Jan 24, 2016

Abby, don't you think it was a blessing in disguise that you found out what your ex-boyfriend did to you behind your back? Imagine if you hadn't found out about his stuff on FB for how long would he have continued to hide stuff from you? I think things happen for a reason. It was bound to happen whether on FB or anywhere! Even the "yelling" at you was a blessing in disguise. It opened your eyes to the type of man he really is.

Take care
Be blessed

Abby1963OP●California, USA

Jan 24, 2016●25 Blogs●714 Comments

Nmsondio thank you for your comment I have to agree I'm still in shock and but its getting easier everyday .he can do as he pleases the trust is defently gone now .so there's no turning back . Your so right about him

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