Online Dating
He strongly affirmed that he was not like other expats who just look for sex, that he wanted a serious relation and i was a bit convinced though still many questions unsolved. I like his talent for guitar and piano and he promised to teach me.
He told me touching stories about his love, his pain, his volunteer which really moved me
Things seemed going well util he had 2 beers and 1 shot then he could hardly walk properly. I put him in a taxi and still felt sorry leaving him in that situation (drunk in pain of losing his beloved), thinking to myself let give him some time to heal up and see if we can come together...
Today a good friend of mine asked his girlfriend to travel immediately more than 100km to come back to HN to tell me stories about my "new friend" as he was so worried that i might get hurt by that "bad man".
It is so sweet of them, the couple. feeling really lucky to have them as friends. he never talks much to me but whenever i m in need or trouble, he shows up if he knows
The capital is really small. i just met the man once and seem many of my friends now already knew that, feeling secured somehow
Why is it so hard to find a good person via online dating site? he seemes very nice and honest. How to distinguish between the real and the fake ones?
Comments (17)
He obviously wasn't Irish so!
Why are you looking for an ex-pat?
Would you not do better finding somebody from your own country with similar culture, background and ideals.
Molly, seem that he has been already destroyed by too much alcohol before
As to why it is hard to find someone good via online dating - to be brutally honest, people that have choices can meet someone in RL. I can only talk about locals, but I found they were either only looking for legovers or couldn't meet someone in RL (with few exceptions). Meet someone "naturally" through friends or social activities, at least you can get to know a person beforehand.
Everyone has their preferences, but be realistic to what might work. The guys you met via internet dating don't exactly sound like husband material - you mentioned on the forum that someone hit you, this one got drunk...
Are there organisations that have events you could go to meet people?
Maybe have a look at this:
Take care and look after yourself!
Just mind yourself LS.
If you are more attracted to western guys, that is your choice.
Just be sure who ever you meet values you, for who you are.
Go with your instint to uncover the honesty.
Wish you luck .
By the ways love your flowers, my favorite are white roses and orchids, SM