Age aint nothing but a number....

PS: by older here I am talking someone who is in his late 50s or 60s.. like, not 10 years older than you given that you're still a kid yourself.

@Ian

@ picture

regarding the functionality of an ole guy's pee pee .. ermm .. I must admit that I was being a tad too generic with me comment there.. I'll take it back ..

@Ann

the point is that if that is the case, then she would fall in my pt number 3.

I didn't say she'd be a gold digga.. I gave 4 options or so.

@dieci well all four of your points does not apply to me at all.... I prefer an older man and it is what it is. Whether he's a prince or pauper. Theres no hidden agenda. Society places such a big emphasis on age, race etc. Why cant we just love who we want to love without being judged?

tEN

behave yourself

why can a younger women be really interested in n older man because she genuinely love him?

a older is more mature and understanding and is thinking more about a future, where a younger man is thinking whose skirt he can get under at that moment.

there are younger man who are financially capable of providing financially as well u know.


and a older man also knows how to give a woman a better kind of loving where a younger man just want to release and get back in for second so he can go out chest high with the thought that he is a man.

Do you maybe have some doubts yourself?

My friend has an older boyfriend, but neither of them ever felt the need to question it or seek the approval of others.

I personally have never fancied older men, have often dated younger, but just do it.

Chaz, nothing wrong with your thinking or your preferences.

In fact I wish more women would adopt your standpoint.

@molly not at all. I have always prefered an older man. I dont see any problem with the age difference. My problem is with society in general. Especially where I come from. Peoples mindsets needs to change.... @georgie Very well said! Lol you hit the nail on the head... @ reddy you should come visit SA sometime...;)

Oops my mistake @ robby real I meant lol. You should come visit SA:)

@geo

"why can a younger women be really interested in n older man because she genuinely love him?"

Essentially, beacuse it's outrageous when there's me available

"a older is more mature and understanding and is thinking more about a future, where a younger man is thinking whose skirt he can get under at that moment."

This perhaps is the case sometimes but then again, what's better than getting under the skirt for both a dude and a dudess nae?

"there are younger man who are financially capable of providing financially as well u know."

Indeed, so why go for an older chap?


"and a older man also knows how to give a woman a better kind of loving where a younger man just want to release and get back in for second so he can go out chest high with the thought that he is a man."

@rob

yeah well .. kay.. I take it back .. don't wanna risk getting flooded with wieners on here.

@Chaz

so .. how come you're not head over heels in love with me?

I married a 31 years old Caribbean lady,from a other Island,when I was 66.
When I ask her why she wanted to marry me,her answer was,that I filled up the dream of what kind of husband she had always wanted and,that she didn't know if I loved her,but she loved me for sure.

Her problem was,that she did not like Antigua and she got a very strong home sickness.....she went back after 5 month and I put in for divorce....and an other thing was,that her Mother had Alzheimer's and I think she was also caring for her.

She did not want the divorce and it was hard for me to get it,because she was strongly against divorce and it took time to dig needed signs from her for the divorce.

Now to gold digging,she did not ask anything in wealth or money from me in the divorce,she said,that she did not marry me for money,she had just only wanted me to be her children's father.

Many months after the divorce,she came up,that she wanted to marry me later again...so in my opinion she was thinking,that she could change her feelings and be able to live later in Antigua.

People,that has no experience of age difference and are by them self in age difference problem box,are so sure,that they know,even they don't know anything....the only thing what really matter is,how you feel to be together and do you have similar things of interest.

Here on CS,I have seen a lot of blogs and comments on age difference and specially younger members know so much about what is the life of older people and still they know nothing.....how could they,because they have not yet enter that age by them self and if it has to do with relationship,they have never experience a clear difference in age.....sometime I laugh here by my self,how stupid these opinions can be......the perhaps most important thing in older men is,that they take much better care of their woman,much because more experience and reduced ego level,they don't only take,they have learn to give more.

@dieci because your just way to young for me....lol thats no1. No2 you kinda remind me of my ex.....not a good thing at all:D but seriously now personally I find older men more attractive...and no I dont have any daddy issues(i get that one alot)

@chaz

what an absolute shame.. a girl like you.

Yeah .. and anyways, I'm 31.. not 36.

@shem thats a very touching story. If you really love somebody you should be with that person irrespective of age or whatever. I remember a few years ago I was inlove with a guy older than myself. My family were dead set against the relationship because of the age difference. Needless to say we both went our seperate ways. I was truly in love with that guy and he loved me and I always wonder what couldve been. He has since left the country and is married now. I went into a relationship( abusive to say the least, with somebody my age) had a child. And today Im raising my child on my own. I have told myself never would I make that mistake again. Next time I will follow my heart.

Chaz,

yes of course,it is the heart we have to follow and nobody outsider should have the right to affect our decision....in my case one of my 3 children had doubt with that Lady,but when he saw her,he accepted her...she was a mix and her parent both loved me clearly and whole her family and all friends,had told her,that she should go back to Antigua,they did not understand at all the whole situation.

Crazy. ." many older men are ready to spend their money for that delusional love..."

Maybe I should change my settings and offer some delusional love

Molly,

yes...try it...it could be fun so what's your age target...30+ years older?

Legs,

I've seen it too...young women in a loving relationship with older men...run to their younger man lover the moment the old man turns his back...funny thing is how these older men believe that these younger women adore them for being 'older"

think it makes sense for men to get younger women in the early stages of adulthood.

But I think it makes more sense for older women to get younger men.



Younger women are better for childbearing.

But men don't live as long as women and need more meds to function when older , so a younger man is better for an older woman

think it makes sense for men to get younger women in the early stages of adulthood.

But I think it makes more sense for older women to get younger men.



Younger women are better for childbearing.

But men don't live as long as women and need more meds to function when older , so a younger man is better for an older woman

Molly,

you're confusing me with all these "younger" and "older" words, can you just please type the age...number, so we can get it clearly

did you mean something like this?

men in 20s = women in 40s
men in 30s=women in late 50+
men in 40s=women in 60+
men in 50s=women in 20s
men in 60s=women in early 30s
men in 70s= women in 30s

DC loves an old wrinkly, especially the feel of his wrinkly skin on hers

Crazy,

you just talk about young women,that has not select by the heart and then you are heavily generalizing,what is not at all a fact about the life.

I have talk about that smell point with my Son,that is in Medicine and the smell is clearly involved when there is a real attraction and it is the smell that has a big meaning,if you are a good mach or not and take note,EVERY PERSON SMELL DIFFERENT.

If these young women smell a bad smell,they have for sure not select the men with the heart.

I remember when my Indonesian Ex was sniffing my body and I ask her,what she is doing and she said,you smell so good....I had nothing on my self,it was my pure own smell......and I'm sure,that somebody else could had smell it as not so good.

Crazy, instead of your big calculations , say maybe when youbeer, women should be same age or up to 10 years younger.
When older, men should be same age or up to 10 years younger.

I so many times sitting by my self,wondering and also been frustrated about how it is possible,that so many people build boxes around them self and about almost everything that exist in their world....and in many cases there is even no windows,they just isolate them self from what ever possibilities.......they never try anything different,they are even afraid to think anything different....it is like a world of dogmas.

Honestly I have never lived like that,I have been independent from it and I still want to keep my wings,see,touch and taste what ever is available....and if I could have a possibility to live my life again....yes,for sure I'm going to make it in the same way as before as a FREE THINKER

@Eng



They're big.

@Eng


oh no! I knew it all along.. can't be otherwise really. Redheads are like that. Amazing women you girls are ..

It might be fine to meet someone now that is older - but as you got older, he will be OLD. If you want children, he mightn't see them growing up. It was a worry my dad had (I came unplanned a got bit behind my siblings) and I was lucky to have him as long as I had. He died in his mid sixties.

It is your life and if that's what you want go for it.

For me, I want to have things in common with someone and age is one of them. Was never interested in older guys tbh.