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He charged first, killed them next...
Ahmad Suradji's magical skills weren't free. Before he would begin to heal the women who came to him, or perform a ritual to make her more sexually attractive, he first charged her the Indonesian equivalent of between $200 and $400. Once he had the money in hand, he began the "spell" that eventually led to the woman's death.
Prior to discovering that he was a serial killer, Ahmad Suradji's neighbors respected him. He would volunteer his time to help out when needed, particularly if the person who needed him was sick. He also gave money to charitable causes. These ostensibly altruistic activities ultimately helped him out, as his neighbors would recommend him to anyone seeking magical healing services.
Most serial killers have a day job. For example, John Wayne Gacy owned a construction and maintenance business. Things were a bit different in Indonesia, where Ahmad Suradji worked as a cattle breeder. His profession required quite a bit of open land, which provided him with a place to bury his victims.
Ahmad Suradji's killing spree lasted from 1986 until 1997, when he was finally captured. It's possible he could have continued his sinister work, had the body of one his victims not been discovered in a local sugarcane field.
After the police identified her and local residents realized she was last seen alive on her way to Suradji for a shamanic ritual, officials searched his house. Inside, authorities found the woman's belongings, as well as those of several other missing women.
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Prior to discovering that he was a serial killer, Ahmad Suradji's neighbors respected him. He would volunteer his time to help out when needed, particularly if the person who needed him was sick. He also gave money to charitable causes. These ostensibly altruistic activities ultimately helped him out, as his neighbors would recommend him to anyone seeking magical healing services.
Most serial killers have a day job. For example, John Wayne Gacy owned a construction and maintenance business. Things were a bit different in Indonesia, where Ahmad Suradji worked as a cattle breeder. His profession required quite a bit of open land, which provided him with a place to bury his victims.
Ahmad Suradji's killing spree lasted from 1986 until 1997, when he was finally captured. It's possible he could have continued his sinister work, had the body of one his victims not been discovered in a local sugarcane field.
After the police identified her and local residents realized she was last seen alive on her way to Suradji for a shamanic ritual, officials searched his house. Inside, authorities found the woman's belongings, as well as those of several other missing women.
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Marty McFly
Michael J. Fox has a birthday today.
He turns 60.
He turns 60.
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Best known for starring as Marty McFly in the Back to the Future trilogy, he later won multiples Emmys for his role on Family Ties. He was diagnosed with Parkinson's at only 29 years old, but didn't go public with the diagnosis until 1998. Two years later, he created the Michael J. Fox Foundation, dedicated to Parkinson's research.
Before Fame
He played a 10-year-old character on the TV series Leo and Me at age 15. He moved to Los Angeles at age 18.
Trivia
He starred as Mike Flaherty on Spin City from 1996 to 2000. He acted sporadically in the decade following the announcement of his Parkinson's diagnosis, but he began acting more regularly in the 2010s, starring as Louis Canning on The Good Wife.
Family Life
His father was a police officer and his mother was an actress. He married actress Tracy Pollan in July 1988 and the couple had four children together.
Best known for starring as Marty McFly in the Back to the Future trilogy, he later won multiples Emmys for his role on Family Ties. He was diagnosed with Parkinson's at only 29 years old, but didn't go public with the diagnosis until 1998. Two years later, he created the Michael J. Fox Foundation, dedicated to Parkinson's research.
Before Fame
He played a 10-year-old character on the TV series Leo and Me at age 15. He moved to Los Angeles at age 18.
Trivia
He starred as Mike Flaherty on Spin City from 1996 to 2000. He acted sporadically in the decade following the announcement of his Parkinson's diagnosis, but he began acting more regularly in the 2010s, starring as Louis Canning on The Good Wife.
Family Life
His father was a police officer and his mother was an actress. He married actress Tracy Pollan in July 1988 and the couple had four children together.
Nice Guy Syndrome
Nice Guy Syndrome The nice guy syndrome refers to a behavioral pattern in some men of being very nice to others.
The typical nice guy puts other people’s needs first, always helps others, avoids confrontation, does chivalrous things, and is proud of it. His nice behavior is particularly obvious with women.
The nice guy syndrome has been getting increasingly more attention in the past few years in psychology, as the less than satisfying effects it creates make it start to lose its positive image.What’s Wrong with Being a Nice Guy?
Quite a lot is wrong with being a nice guy as matter of fact. As a confidence coach, I often work with men who I soon realize have the nice guy syndrome.
As a result of this syndrome, they have mediocre careers compared with how skilled they are and how hard they work, they are in toxic relationships, or they sabotage almost every aspect of their lives. I have seen such effects so often that for me, they became highly predictable.Nice guy behavior may look good on paper, but in reality it has a pretty ugly face. In order to grasp this, consider that the nice guy syndrome fundamentally means people pleasing behavior. As a consequence:
Nice guys come off as needy and insecure;
Nice guys are generic and predictable, so it’s hard for them to create a spark;
Nice guys end up ignoring their own needs and not taking care of themselves;
Nice guys end up not being there for the people who really matter, because they try to please everybody;
Nice guys are full of repressed rage and they tend to erupt at the most inappropriate times;
Nice guys lie, hide and they try to get what they want in indirect, manipulative ways.The leading authority on this topic is Dr. Robert Glover, a therapist who specializes in working with men with the nice guy syndrome, and author of the best-selling self-help book for men No More Mr. Nice Guy.
According to Dr. Glover, all nice guys operate (consciously or not) on the same basic paradigm::cheers:
The typical nice guy puts other people’s needs first, always helps others, avoids confrontation, does chivalrous things, and is proud of it. His nice behavior is particularly obvious with women.
The nice guy syndrome has been getting increasingly more attention in the past few years in psychology, as the less than satisfying effects it creates make it start to lose its positive image.What’s Wrong with Being a Nice Guy?
Quite a lot is wrong with being a nice guy as matter of fact. As a confidence coach, I often work with men who I soon realize have the nice guy syndrome.
As a result of this syndrome, they have mediocre careers compared with how skilled they are and how hard they work, they are in toxic relationships, or they sabotage almost every aspect of their lives. I have seen such effects so often that for me, they became highly predictable.Nice guy behavior may look good on paper, but in reality it has a pretty ugly face. In order to grasp this, consider that the nice guy syndrome fundamentally means people pleasing behavior. As a consequence:
Nice guys come off as needy and insecure;
Nice guys are generic and predictable, so it’s hard for them to create a spark;
Nice guys end up ignoring their own needs and not taking care of themselves;
Nice guys end up not being there for the people who really matter, because they try to please everybody;
Nice guys are full of repressed rage and they tend to erupt at the most inappropriate times;
Nice guys lie, hide and they try to get what they want in indirect, manipulative ways.The leading authority on this topic is Dr. Robert Glover, a therapist who specializes in working with men with the nice guy syndrome, and author of the best-selling self-help book for men No More Mr. Nice Guy.
According to Dr. Glover, all nice guys operate (consciously or not) on the same basic paradigm::cheers:
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Why big men act like boys???
I met a guy here few weeks ago and I cant believe such a adult behave like a child.
His attitude and maturity is below zero.
I couldn't manage so I stop talk to him.
I believe most men here just want a side chick or they want to be 'players'.
Can somebody tell me why big men act like boys...
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His attitude and maturity is below zero.
I couldn't manage so I stop talk to him.
I believe most men here just want a side chick or they want to be 'players'.
Can somebody tell me why big men act like boys...
:yyfay:
uo
Superheroes.
There exists a class of men that do their duty as human beings and fathers in silent modesty- without the need for celebration or praise. Hard enough to withstand all the rigors of a tough world, but also gentle enough to show a child love and let him grow and learn by example. Although they will take no credit, these are the men that hold this world together with the might of their bodies and fortitude of their character. True superheroes that live among us, but we simply call them- dad.
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Contacting me on my private CS mail....MEN!!!!
...I of course am delighted, whenever one of you dazzling and brilliant CS LADIES contact me on my CS internal mail. I truly regret how often I have to turn down the many groveling proposals of marriage. Most are tempting, especially when a lady's total personal, and indeed, entire family wealth are offered in dowery. These, often accompanied by promises of being my sex slaves for life, with like offers on behalf of all the other women in their families, certainly get my initial attention. But c'mon fellahs, why the contacts from men? Most are either s*xual in nature---hmmmm, mustn't have reviewed my many rank homophobic blogs. Or they involve some business deal. One just today tried to tempt me away from my beloved CS platform, implying that CS is hopeless, and suggesting their own such site. The latter guaranteed rapid outcomes of marriage. MARRIAGE!!!! Again, how silly, given my views on the cursed institution. I block most. It really is a challenge being the me that I am. Such a heavy cross to bear.
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