We live in a culture where crying - especially for men - is seen as weak. ("anchored, crybaby, blitch, sissy, slap dress, sucker, murderer, jankpot, etc.).
In many cases the opposite is true: it is often very strong if someone dares to show that something becomes too much for him / her. That worries something. Appeals. Moves.
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The majority of people live in groups or feel related to a group. The group is often strong or close.
Then it is almost impossible to avoid, berate and criticize other people from (the thought of) a group. It is rather concern, arrogance and rejection than jealousy, I think.
An individualist (or your own secretary if you like) will not easily start gossiping in my opinion, because he /she is going completely his own way. Standards and values ??will often be clearly different..........
First a lesson in biology
First let's start with the core of the problem: the nice feeling of a like. You know it, your phone vibrates and you want to look directly. This feeling is determined by two different substances in your body: dopamine and oxytocin. The substance Dopamine ensures that you long for certain things. In the field of sport and sex you long for a certain achievement. And that also applies to your telephone and social media. If you post a photo you want to get likes, reactions and attention. The more the better. You become so addicted to the likes
people are just flying when you chase them away they keep coming back.
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What time?
'I belong to the group of people who take their mobile to see what time it is. And who then check everything from Whatsapp to Facebook and ultimately do not know what time it is......
Are you a good actor?
That is completely fine and completely normal. But some people are such good actors that they struggle to stay. They always pretend differently than they really are. They think: "I have to behave differently than I am! Otherwise I am never liked, I get no appreciation or I am not accepted by others. As I actually am, I'm just not interesting enough, not nice enough or not successful enough
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Many handsome faces can be like an apple!
Beautiful on the outside but rotting inside.
I always say that real beauty is inside and not outside!........
"You have three faces:
The first face shows you the world.
The second face shows you to dear friends and your family.
The third face never shows you to anyone.
It is the most true reflection of who you are.
we all seek justification for our actions. in fact, we all want to be "a good person" deep inside.
would that be due to our upbringing or is it an innate feeling?
or is it out of self-interest not to be rejected by the "others"?
why do we always need a positive self-image...............
"Is every man capable of murdering?"
In my opinion, except for the exception;
except if one is not capable of that.
An example:
When you are physically,
from head to toe, would be paralyzed,
then, in practice,
unable to kill;
but when the spirit
will function without problems,
then one is able to kill,
in his / her thoughts and feelings .......