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.....Can't possibly compete with..........But I digress.

s*xual Subjugation of Women

Women have been subjugated and oppressed throughout history. We are told to deny our desires and feelings, as they are wrong or shameful. We are made to feel dirty or wrong for thinking the way we do. This "double standard" still exists.

Women were once considered chattel or property. We were the property of our father. Then, ownership was transferred to our husband at marriage. Historically, her value was placed on her virginity. If it was intact, she could get a higher bride price for her father. If she was not a virgin, her value went down and the prospective husband was not required to pay as much to the bride’s father. She was considered soiled, impure, damaged goods.

The USA was founded with a puritanical Judeo-Christian belief system. Yes, there still exists the belief of the patriarchal hierarchy, men have the power, women are second class citizens. Biblically, Eve was blamed for for the downfall of mankind and our expulsion from the Garden of Eden. But Adam ate the apple, as well. Yet, women are seen as a deceiver or temptress of man.

So, when a woman dares step out of line, by owning her sexuality and asserting her power as a human being, the reaction can be very negative. Derogatory or shaming words are meant to put a woman in her place. To shut her down and silence her.

But, when a man expresses his desires, he is seen as being a healthy human being owning his own power and sexuality.

Women are beautiful, powerful and s*xual beings. We must stand up and be proud of who we are. Enough of the double standard and staying quietly in our place.

A strong woman can be frightening or threatening to some men. If a man is strong and powerful, he is praised as a capable leader. If a woman acts the same way, she is seen as a b*tch. She may be called a lesbian, dyke or any number of derogatory words.

All the negative reactions, to a woman asserting her power, are meant to put her back in her place.

As women, we must be proud of who we are. Assert you rights as a human being. We are not inferior, less than or second class citizens. Take your place as an equal.

Ok,we all know that ladies love stylish,sophisticated and classic guy and we do see them walk around with their shoulders up and heads held up but for some,it's just a different story. One thing that can easily put a woman off is your dress code,no matter how hot you are but if you wear those printed big collared shirts and silk pants...Hell no,that's a huge turn off...that outfits was trending way back,approximately 25 to 30 years ago...it's time to get on the groove and kicking butt with you're wearing. A guy may be super ugly but because of what he's wearing,ladies won't even notice his looks...Going for a casual look but classy,e.g: Torn jeans,a white slim fit shirt,rolled up,sneakers and a blazer or a jacket,either leather or jeans...That is so simple and shouts loud...and don't over accessorize please...A simple wrist watch would do. Bring your sexy back guys!

i dont get it she wanted me to get back in to the drama affter i told her i was done with the drama she blokes me really but she says o we can be friends it this how friend acts realy i just dont get it

I'm not sure what it is about women.
But, just about every girlfriend I've ever had
pestered my mother to show them my baby pictures.
Don't get me wrong, each time my mom LOVED to show
the old pictures and brag about me.
"awwww, isn't he cute...." "oh, he's adorable !"

Makes me sick !
I'm am adult now dammit !!
It doesn't matter what I looked like before I could walk.
You want to see what I look like, look right here.

Sadly, my mother is no longer alive.
So, just in honor of her, I'll show you ONE picture AND THAT'S IT !
No more !!! That's ALL you get to see.

Here's the earliest image of me ever recorded;
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OOoooohhh.
More to the left
a little to the right
lower lower
Oh yeah, that's it !
Yes ! Harder ! Faster !
Oh God ! Oh yeah, that feels so good !
Ohhhhhhh yeah baby !
Yes ! Yes ! Yes !

What ?
She was just scratching my back.

Really don't see why some women rather be with a guy that's always locked up running the streets & can be seen by family & friend with some other woman in public.
But someone like me that stays homes clean & cook's who is self-reserved keeps the bill's paid with out running the streets or going to jail. Have no kids with a college background.
So why do women only want the bad ones?

i think there are more unserious people here, or is it that they are new to the online dating?

This happened long back.........i was travelling from srilanka to my home india.....Bangalore was
my destination......i had a passenger seated next me a girl maybe 3 years less than me.......

she was looking beautiful also very elegant as my nature is very reserved type of person
i was minding my own business....i did glance at her when she dont look at me...

she really pulled a good attraction of men crowd but i felt something not right...did not understand
then..i did feel evil {jealous} feelings in me....seeing men literelly swooned over her..in a way i felt happy
afterall she was next to me....

as the flight came for landing....i realised she was stoned with all the wine she kept gulping
men had even some cold fight between them ......i really felt it........finally one main staff took her from the
rest of us........at that time i had not much guts to ask them....what they want to do...with her

feeling really sad for her....hope she reached her home safely....it was a hard blow to my evil thing
called jealousy even today when i think of her i really wonder....did she reach home ???
or not????

any young genuine lady out there looking for honest genuine fun relationship, based on honesty,loyalty laughter and lifelove
go on give it a go xx