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I am member of Cs since April 2015. But I am unable to Make any friend here.. I do not know what they want in Cs . what I should .???.. Please give me proper advice..

I am member of Cs since April 2015. But I am unable to Make any friend here.. I do not know what they want in Cs . what I should .???.. Please give me proper idea..

I am member of Cs since April 2015. But I am unable to Make any friend here.. I do not know what they want in Cs . what I should .???.. Please give me proper advice.

A messages from MARS:

Yes, I did meet this good-looking man from the virtual land since 01252015. It was calling of an angel from heaven’s above to meet this man after I had prayed several times.

He was sweet and thoughtful. We whooped and we made some lively. We are enjoyable to see each other in Skype when the clock ticked for us.


Until one night he asked me to meet him in person. Yes and I am glad! Then, I gave much effort and pay much attention to make an itinerary trips in a Paradise Island.

While I waited him in café shop that are available in arrival area and I cannot understand my feelings while waiting for him. I don’t know if it's a good result or feelings like a stone. And yet,it is unbelievable that our eyes met for real . I am happy, speechless but with mixed emotions.

In a Paradise Island,the place was so beautiful, perfect for the couple and believe we will close more and more.

But in a first two weeks, I was disappointed in his differences. I expected him, a true gentleman and express how much he like me, but it did not happen. He was effortless to give while I gave much in. I noticed sometimes he avoided me to be his side. I realize that, there was an imbalances sharing for the relationships. I have no defect I guess.

From a humorous man who I have known while we are online was turn out made a sarcastic one, sometimes displeasing and snobbish. I was lost of being me when I open up myself to have some fun but he replied me how rubbish I am. I was hurtled by his ego, a self-centered ego dynamics. I noticed he is not interested in me. He lied and pretended. He told me how extravagant he was spending just to meet me. I believe he is not stingy but good to occupy a great money.

As a woman, as a sensitive person with an emotional intelligence, I escaped myself many times just to cried out loud, that I made sure nobody’s around me. My tears fell to the sea. I thought he is the man for me that I am hoping and prayed for.

We both reached home and he did not cared much about me. I got back home with turmoil and a heavy feelings.

And yet we talked over Skype but no progress. Until one night, I asked him to get rid of in his contacts because I do not have values for him. And yet he did removed me. It is not to commanded him but to convinced myself that his actions are clear to me.

I have seen many contrast of his character, his ways of actions. Yet, he gave an effort to meet me here but he was the others. I don’t understand if his intentions to displayed to no love at all??

But I believe the qoute:"Actions speaks louder than words."

"If a guy wanted to have you, there’s a way. But if he has a reasons, he is not."


Do you think it’s a nature of being a Danish guy?? I read some article of a UK woman about his Danish boyfriend, it’s same story on my side.

If I slept with many men, people would call me a slut.
But when a man sleeps with many women, people call him a real man.
How come?

Here's one reply:
When one lock can be opened by many different keys, it's a bad lock, but when one key can open many different locks, we call it a master key.

...why do you date asians, why not your own kind.

Well being based in Bahrain there was not much option for western women there, but many other options. However, that did not stop me from pressing the like button for the western ones.

But not one responded, not even a first date. So I have to wonder what is it that western women dont like in me, ugly..I dont think so, my profile sucked..I dont think so.. Not even the ones here have sent me an email..shit I must be bad !


What is it they look for I wonder

It's hard when you miss people. But you know, if you miss them, it means you were lucky. It means you had someone special in your life, someone worth missing.

You never know the man you are with until you split up, and neither do men know what they have on their hands until the dishes start flying. Relationships are an investment in time and emotion but few investments work out.

I didnt invent this system, but I think its a good one. From the time you committ to each other, both partners pay 10% of their income into a trust account. If children come along and one has to stop working to look after them (nowadays it is sometimes the man) the other keeps paying in. 10%, direct debit, no its or buts. Any interest also goes back into the account. When the partner starts working again they pay in 10%. Whatever the source, any money coming in, inheritance, capital gains, rental, interest on investments, 10% into trust.

When one wants to leave, the other gets the trust fund. They split after a year, not very much, but how much can you expect after a year? They split after 40 years, especially if one or other was rich, it is a huge sum, but it is already waiting. No pain.

Maybe that way relationships could end on a handshake and not in a storm of hatred greed resentment and rich lawyers.

I think I just saw a flying pig.

I feel on line dating is something ,which adds one more chance to know people. I will not fall in love before I meet anyone on line in real life. I think before you at least touch the hands, you can start to think to know the person in reality. As a lot of people do take advantage of some weak minded people. I think if the person is not good, it is wise to walk away as early as possible. It is very easy to fake words from on line people. So no need feel hurt or angry at this kind of people, they are not worth.There are a lot of scammers and some rubbish people on line. So in the sand you are looking for pearls, you need be smart and patient.