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I believe that learning from what we do wrong just makes us that much more prepared for the next lesson that life throws at us. When you learn from your mistake it was a lesson not a mistake. Every time we learn it makes us stronger to defend against the offensive that keeps on trying to drag us through the mud. But I say "Some times you have to go through the mud to get to the grass".
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i will be fooled by everything.
and i will be fooled by everyone.
you can tell me anything.
you tell me i'll be the only one you'll ever come to.
and i will believe in you.

i will be crushed by everything.
and i will be hurt by everyone.
you can't tell me anything.
i believe every word you say because you like me.
and i will be blinded by everything.

i sit on top of the world with you because you're the one who
brings joy to me.
i will be left by you.
i will be left by everyone.
alone i will go on cautiously.
i see you walking away from me i see the past turn into memory.
and the tears will flood into my soul.

tears will flood into my soul because i'm hurting.
tears will flood into my soul and ease me of all my pain.
and i will be fooled again.

No matter how strong I may appear to be, I'm always weak because he's not here with me like he should be. He loved me in his own way without expressing it verbally. I knew he felt this way because it was how God ordained it to be. A mother and her child so close yet never really knew each other......except the heart comes in and speaks in a muted form. I carried him so I knew him through his soul. Though it was a brief encounter, it was the best one I've shared with anyone.my whole life and future ones to come. He had a mothers love and that made it incomparable. When his soul was laid to rest, part of me went too, never to return. That's how hell know me, by my soul. Rest in peace Taison. My beautiful perfect son. Never will you hurt like me. February 2, 2006- February 2, 2006

In my 29 years of life, I'm still finding new growth in new areas. Is the wright and wrong philosophy a myth or not? I find myself to believe that this philosophy went out the window a long time ago. It can go either way depending on what you feel you deserve in a relationship. If you feel you deserve a loyal man or woman, then you have to be willing to return that as well. So its my belief that you can have a Mrs./mr. Wright and a Mrs./mr. Wrong all in the same package.
I'd like to know your input as well so no right or wrong answers to this question. Fact or fiction and why?

If there's one thing I've come to realize, it's that the Good Lord gives us no challenges that he doesn't also give us the power and tools to overcome. As the sand in the bottom of our hourglasses accumulates, we must remember that each moment comes but once and then is crossed off our life calendars. Happiness is a state of mind and a state of being. I'm going through some big changes again, but changes aren't a bad thing. Direct them in positive directions. Keep your heart open. Keep your dreams alive. And appreciate your moment. This one. And the next one. And the one after that.

When it storms, delight in the beauty of the night sky blazing with lightning and roaring with thunder. When problems arise, find the inevitable humor and irony in them, smile a bit to yourself, roll up your sleeves and go ahead and deal with them.

Know what you enjoy and seek it. Know what you dislike and eschew it. Visualize your dreams and then plot your course to see them through. The safest path is usually the least rewarding. If you seek reward, don't be risk averse. In life, just showing up is half the game. Putting your mind, heart and soul into it is the rest.

Challenge yourself to do something positive every day. Meet new friends. Encourage someone. Research something of interest. Create something new. Right a wrong. Accept a new challenge. Or spend some time doing something you find refreshing to your soul. No matter what's on tap on any given day, there's always time for this.

And in doing so, with ever moment, you get better instead of older.

oh yez!!!

Free is good,,,free is better,,,free is the best!!!!
There is a 'free' when you buy a pack of 'promo goods' in a supermarket or got an items without a cost! 'You are free' when no one arounds you that keeps telling you what to do and you are living on your own..and You 'Feel free' when you're out somewhere having good times..away from the other people ...without thinking any hassles,problems,money budgets,paper works,meetings etc...

Way back december 2005, ive got all those frees!!!
Having a week long vacation from work and families, away from d crowded city,me and my friends went to their vacation house in mountain area, its all her bills,gas,all! Along the road,on their 4x4 pick up,were sitting at the back, drinking beers,,eating peanuts,teasing each other,laughing and joking!
At their house, we spent our times juz only for the same stuff..looking around the area, swimming in their pool or in a nearby small waterfalls,then eating all what we want,drinking redwine,tequila,beer but the best 4 me is that rice wine from japan! Oh my whatta week of freedom from the real world!
Since that time i never drink again,,,lol

When is the last time you got some of those frees???
Isnt it fun to be drunk sometimes??
Lol
Cheers!

untile the stars have lost their spark le
and the sun refuese to shine
untile the flowers fail to bloom
youll always be on my mind
untile lighting ceases to strike
and tears stop falling
untile rain bows have no ending
your name ill still be calling
unitle time stop ticking
and the skies are emptied of blue
untile my heart stop beating
i will always love you

Tell me who your best friends are, and I will tell you who you are. A mirror reflects a man's face, but what he is really like is shown by the kind of friends he chooses- The simple but true fact of life is that you become like those with whom you closely associate for the good and the bad.

The less you associate with some people, the more your life will improve. Any time you tolerate mediocrity in others, it increases your likely hood of mediocrity. An important attribute in successful people is their impatience with negative thinking and negative acting people. As you grow, your associates will change. Ever heard of the "crab syndrome" the better you do, the more those negative so called friends try to hold you down ?
Friends who don't help you climb force you to crawl. This is what I have been thought so consider this:
Never receive counsel from unproductive people.
Never discuss your problems with someone incapable of contributing to the solution, because those who never succeed themselves are always first to tell you how.
Not everyone has a right to speak into your life. You are certain to get the worst of the bargain when you exchange ideas with the wrong person.
Don't follow anyone who's not going anywhere. With some people you spend an evening: with others you invest it.
Be careful where you stop to inquire for directions along the road of life.

So with all that said here is today's thought:
Wise is the person who fortifies their life with the right friendships

Have a Great Day All


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