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I don't know if this is the proper place to introduce oneself. Though I haven't met anyone who I think is right for me, I like this place. Even if I don't find the "boyfriend" here its nice to read others posts. And I like that there are people from all over the world. Makes things more interesting I think. I love to chat and write. I think someone else said something I agree with. Sometimes I won't reply either which is a bummer but I hate to give someone false hope if I don't find them physically attractive. If its any consolation, I get rejected by guys I find attractive and sometimes they are attracted to me physically as well but they just want something casual. So in any event it just doesn't work out.
Other times I'll get guys who view love as a business transaction! This Indian guy said I was perfect for him because I looked like marriage material and would make a good wife! He said I was pleasant-looking(how romantic!). But LOL I've never been a wife so how would I know if I'm cut out for it? I'm not particularly domestic and don't like to cook. I'm opinionated and not at all submissive. I would hardly be his "ideal."
Just some of my recent experiences online!
Wish I could read all posts and blogs. There are so many!

Can someone please tell me the tricks to uploading photos by emailing them to support? Have emailed numerous photos bur not one has been posted and its frustrating. Thank you

Knowing who you are and accepting who you are is indeed powerful

Sometimes we are critisized, and some of us take it as a negative, so right away our self confidence has been affected, but I think it is wise to listen to criticism, do not dismiss it, but ask yourself questions..'why was I critisized?"maybe it is true?...so examine yourself

I say this because in my past, I have been critisized and took it really badly, I felt anger at the person pointing out to me my faults or bad dicisions etc. ...I made excuses, but now I have learnt to address my weakness...yes sometimes we I still fall short, after all we am human..^^giggles^^

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We are all different, right? so I think it is better to accept we are unique than wish to be like someone else. Feeling good about ourselves can really boost our self esteem <<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<< my lil fellow..^^giggles^^he is confident......

Making a change....OKI miss EB, am this bubbly, short lil rascal..hehe, I am happy with who I am...I always look for the things in me I like, and the ones I do not like, I try to work on them...for example, I love my smile,eyes,hair,complexion,height,lil round booty..yay!!!!..the rest is personal


But there are things I hope to change, for example, lose a few pounds, not that am fat,but I want to be smaller, so what I do?....I work out occassionally and try to eat right...Some things we can change and some we can't....accept the flaws

If we worry about perfection, we are going to be unhappy forever because "NO!" one is perfect!...there is no way you are going to fix every flaw that you have.

OKso you are scared out of your wits to join in a conversation or post in forums or blogs... Why?....because you lack personality or afraid people will judge you for saying something stupid?...come one..."SPEAK UP!"....This is who you are, say what is on your mind, be yourself, no need to be shy....people will accept you for who you are, we all make mistakes and say stupid things.."SO WHAT!"

One just has to be more confident in their thoughts..I was once very shy, and in a shell, but, with time and meeting life's challenges, I have broken out of my shell, though at times I am still very shy, but I have learnt to accept who I am

Look in the mirror, and say this is me, this is who I am and I love "ME"..I have accepted who I am...I do not have to prove myself to anyone...I may do and say wrong things that does not make me a bad person.

So now we need to focus on the positive and laugh at the negative and accept the fact that we cannot change some things about ourselves....have a good week

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Signs that show that he’s seriously into you:

1. When you talk, he looks at you in the eyes not, at your body

2. He seems relaxed and and feels at ease when he’s around you

3. He leans towards you when you’re sitting / standing together

4. He describes you not just as ‘sexy’ or ‘hot’, but also as ‘cute’, ‘beautiful’, ‘smell good’, ‘sweetie’, ‘dear’.

5. He holds your hand in public and occasionally squeezes it gently to show that he doesn’t do it absent-mindedly

6. And when in public (despite the disapproving stares and contemptuous glances):

• He wraps his strong arm around your waist
• He kisses your hand gently over and over again
• He kisses your forehead and inhales deeply the scent of your hair
• He still would kiss your forehead even when you’re sweating
• He rubs your back gently and won’t squirm away when he feels your sweaty clothes

7. He kisses you on the lips and can’t ever get enough of you

8. Your pleasure is of utmost importance to him

9. He wants you to be comfortable even at the cost of his own comfort

10. He caresses your head gently and plays with your hair

11. He rubs your leg gently, not lustfully

12. He tells you things about his private life without even you having to ask

13. He’s comfortable with being honest with you and shares with you his opinions

This sharing is from my personal experience, if any guys would disagree with any of the points above, feel free to voice your opinion, and if you'd like to add more, that would be most welcome too! Cheers

if u are a guy, what characters would u want your future wife to possess, and if u are a lady, what characters would u want your future husband to exhibit? and if u are married still what xters do u think interest u in your spouse?.......................

The lost generation---When the lost girl written by D.H Lawrence got lost in her Manchester House, we get lost in our city.

Peter invited us to have dinner, a good-bye dinner. He left as a colleague, but will remain as a friend among us. In this unknown city, we don’t have our ancestors, we don’t have our families, we don’t have our relatives, but we have friends.

I don’t like having dinner with them as most of them are from the North and they like spicy food. As a Cantonese I can not eat any spicy food. However, I can not refuse. Not all things can depend on my mood.

During the dinner, I saw them eat happily, but I had to soak the spicy food in the wine, to wipe off some spity taste befoe I put them into my mouth. Most of the time, when we go out, we will gossipe and say the bad things of those who are absent. That’s become a routine. I hate that but I have to hear their saying, or else I will become the object of their gossip. I guess nobody can avoid being gossiped by them.

Jokes, complains, scolding, while we ate, drank…Some pretended to be a lady and refused to drink, but I have to admit that wine is no different from other liquids, and it tastes much better than the Chinese medicinal herb. So when Peter said “bottom up” to me and I drank the whole glass of wine, everybody stared at me unbelievably. What’s up? I don’t mind drinking some wine occasionally. And if it is necessary, I can learn to smoke too.

Peter told us why he quarreled with Kate. That’s because of the convention differences. As a Hong Kong citizen, Kate insisted exploring the mainland market in a Hong Kong’s way, which is doomed to fail in the mainland as conventions in the mainland are different from those in Hong Kong. Peter knew it was doomed to fail, so he quitted. Anyway, he doesn’t worry about his pocket very much.

He has changed lots of jobs, jumping from one company to another, like many of us. Now he has graduated nearly three years, but he still feels lost, also like many of us.

It seems that we all feel lost when coming to our career and our future. Not because we don’t know what we are doing, but because we know clearly what we are doing now but don’t know what we should do in the future.

Now I have graduated nearly one year. Like most of my classmates, I begin to feel lost. I can not see any future. I work, I earn; I pay, I gain; but that’s all.

Those who get comfortable jobs feel lost as their jobs are too easy, too comfortable, so they can not see any future; while those who get stressful jobs, who always work overtime, who have spoilt their health by the stress and over-time working also feel lost, as they can not see any future, either.

Yuan Jian, once a gifted student in Peking University, killed himself after he was fired by a fund management company in Shenzhen. To work in fun management companies will get extremely high salaries, but also a lot of stress. The business rule to fire the weakest has become the nightmare for those empolyees working in these companies.

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Anyway, nothing is really worth killing ourselves.

Anyway, I cherish my life even though I am as slight as a dust and as obscure as a sand. When the sunset shone upon me, I released and felt that I was the wild wind that blew to a vast place unruly and intractablly: Yes, compard to those hot, rich, sexy, passionate, beautiful, enthusiastic, open-minded girls, I am poor, obscure, plain and little, but I am not soulless or heartless. I can feel the inside myself. And if my parents had gifted me with more beauty and more wealth, I should have made it as hard for you to leave me, as it is now for me to leave you. You don’t know, some feelings can go beyond the outside things when you can feel the inside yourself.

Ok.....
First you go out to the Artic on the Ice,
Then you cut a big hole in the Ice,
Next you take little green pees and line them up around the hole.
Then you wait.............

Now when the Polar Bear comes out and Bends over to take a Pee,
YOU KICK HIM IN THE ICE HOLE.....

I am sure you have heard this before....but it is so true,You spend your time thinking about someone, make sacrifies to be with him/her, and to them you are are nothing more than an afterthought. Someone to fullfill their desires....you are sad and frustrated and you wonder, what can I do about it? how can I make him/her look at me diffrently?



Really and truly you cannot do anything about it, but "STOP!" making them your priority when you are really nothing more than their option[/size




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I've said hello to several people on here and with not even a thx or how are you back people have no sence of morales these days