What does it feel like to love but not feel loved back? ( Archived) (62)

Sep 22, 2009 6:35 PM CST What does it feel like to love but not feel loved back?
rob4u777
rob4u777rob4u777Charlotte Amalie, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)94 Threads 195 Posts
What does it feel like to love but not feel loved back?

What is the one thing about you that is hard for others to love?
------ This thread is Archived ------
Sep 22, 2009 7:35 PM CST What does it feel like to love but not feel loved back?
What does it feel like to love but not feel loved back?


It feels like crap.

But like the saying..."It's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all."
------ This thread is Archived ------
Sep 22, 2009 7:39 PM CST What does it feel like to love but not feel loved back?
wyowilly
wyowillywyowillylabarge, Wyoming USA6 Threads 570 Posts
rob4u777: What does it feel like to love but not feel loved back?

What is the one thing about you that is hard for others to love?


Lonely

My non combative way
------ This thread is Archived ------
Sep 23, 2009 12:49 AM CST What does it feel like to love but not feel loved back?
Raven0
Raven0Raven0Right here, Alberta Canada28 Threads 3,454 Posts
Sucks severe butt.
I don't really like the saying of the better to have loved then blah blah blah.
( that's just me though )
It's like having your cake and not eating it, what the heck is the point in that?!
------ This thread is Archived ------
Sep 23, 2009 12:54 AM CST What does it feel like to love but not feel loved back?
txhotstuff
txhotstufftxhotstuffHouston, Texas USA1 Threads 16 Posts
What does it feel like to love but not feel loved back?


It sucks, that's how it feels. Better to have loved and lost? I don't know, that sucks too.

Being love is a wonderful feeling - especially when two people are at the same place at the same time.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Sep 23, 2009 3:26 AM CST What does it feel like to love but not feel loved back?
cabrams
cabramscabramsBlue Spings, Missouri USA1 Posts
If you are not loved back then can it be considered true love? I feel like true love is two parts that fit together to make love...
In response to: What does it feel like to love but not feel loved back?

What is the one thing about you that is hard for others to love?

My kind heart...
------ This thread is Archived ------
Sep 23, 2009 5:46 AM CST What does it feel like to love but not feel loved back?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
rob4u777: What does it feel like to love but not feel loved back?

What is the one thing about you that is hard for others to love?


1- hate them back ...it works every time

2-my personality and my face ...

and so we are back to

hate everybody.........grin
------ This thread is Archived ------
Sep 23, 2009 6:02 AM CST What does it feel like to love but not feel loved back?
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
Good question sigh I think that the odds of finding someone who feels the same way about you that you do about them, are pretty slim. And to be honest, when I look at the relationships around me, most of them seem to be about being with someone for reasons other than love .. that is, it's easier (roll eyes ) to stay with someone than end a less than happy relationship or that people have a fear of being alone dunno
------ This thread is Archived ------
Sep 23, 2009 6:04 AM CST What does it feel like to love but not feel loved back?
Godsgift
GodsgiftGodsgiftEnnis, Clare Ireland251 Threads 13 Polls 10,040 Posts
Love's Unkind......Donna Summer

He's got a crush on my best friend
But she don't care cos she loves someone else!

Love's unkind
Cos he's not mine!

See, we were having the same problems 30 years ago! (Yes it was 30 years!)roll eyes
------ This thread is Archived ------
Sep 23, 2009 6:05 AM CST What does it feel like to love but not feel loved back?
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
somechick: What does it feel like to love but not feel loved back?It feels like crap.

But like the saying..."It's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all."


I agree with you on so many things - strange isn't it?

Hmmmmm!

dunno
------ This thread is Archived ------
Sep 23, 2009 6:07 AM CST What does it feel like to love but not feel loved back?
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
It feels as awful to the person who is rejecting you as well if it happens to you...
Usually goes both ways.... from experience. sad flower
------ This thread is Archived ------
Sep 23, 2009 6:07 AM CST What does it feel like to love but not feel loved back?
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
serene56: Good question I think that the odds of finding someone who feels the same way about you that you do about them, are pretty slim. And to be honest, when I look at the relationships around me, most of them seem to be about being with someone for reasons other than love .. that is, it's easier ( ) to stay with someone than end a less than happy relationship or that people have a fear of being alone


I disagree 100%.

I met somebody who was absolutely wonderful........... she was not only the 'love of my life' but vice versa!

The fact that I lost her will haunt me for the rest of my life.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Sep 23, 2009 6:09 AM CST What does it feel like to love but not feel loved back?
Ziva1
Ziva1Ziva1In the middel of nowhere.., Lapland Finland60 Threads 3,813 Posts
serene56: Good question I think that the odds of finding someone who feels the same way about you that you do about them, are pretty slim. And to be honest, when I look at the relationships around me, most of them seem to be about being with someone for reasons other than love .. that is, it's easier ( ) to stay with someone than end a less than happy relationship or that people have a fear of being alone



so true..... I know the feeling..sigh bouquet
------ This thread is Archived ------
Sep 23, 2009 6:09 AM CST What does it feel like to love but not feel loved back?
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
RobertC2: I disagree 100%.

I met somebody who was absolutely wonderful........... she was not only the 'love of my life' but vice versa!

The fact that I lost her will haunt me for the rest of my life.


Hi Robertwave

There is only one thing I have to say for you....
You fit into the incurable romantic box.
and 110% a trier.... bless you hug
------ This thread is Archived ------
Sep 23, 2009 6:11 AM CST What does it feel like to love but not feel loved back?
Ziva1
Ziva1Ziva1In the middel of nowhere.., Lapland Finland60 Threads 3,813 Posts
Merriweather: It feels as awful to the person who is rejecting you as well if it happens to you...
Usually goes both ways.... from experience.



Hiyawave Darls....all good hug bouquet teddybear
------ This thread is Archived ------
Sep 23, 2009 6:13 AM CST What does it feel like to love but not feel loved back?
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
RobertC2: I disagree 100%.

I met somebody who was absolutely wonderful........... she was not only the 'love of my life' but vice versa!

The fact that I lost her will haunt me for the rest of my life.



Well Rob I DID say I felt the odds were slim, not non-existent. You're one of the lucky ones purple heart wine
------ This thread is Archived ------
Sep 23, 2009 6:16 AM CST What does it feel like to love but not feel loved back?
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
Merriweather: Hi Robert

There is only one thing I have to say for you....
You fit into the incurable romantic box.
and 110% a trier.... bless you


I don't just try - I succeed!

Last night, for the first time in over 20 years I spoke to a woman I'd have gladly given my life for.

I know she still loves me.......... it's just taken her 20 years to regret having dumped me even though, deep in her evil twisted heart, she knew I was the only man who could ever make her truly happy.

We both lost and we both gained - in heartache and sorrow and a little joy here and there.

I'd never take her back, but it's nice to know she still cares for me even if I hated her for what she did - not to me but to our son!

For the first time in 20 years she has told me a few things about my son and what he is like as a human being and what he looks like and what he wants to be in life......... that has made me very happy!
------ This thread is Archived ------
Sep 23, 2009 6:18 AM CST What does it feel like to love but not feel loved back?
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
serene56: Well Rob I DID say I felt the odds were slim, not non-existent. You're one of the lucky ones


Thank you.

There is still a huge void - an empty space in my soul........ but it shall be filled; of that I am sure! lips
------ This thread is Archived ------
Sep 23, 2009 6:24 AM CST What does it feel like to love but not feel loved back?
reb56
reb56reb56carthage, Missouri USA55 Polls 8,629 Posts
rob4u777: What does it feel like to love but not feel loved back?

What is the one thing about you that is hard for others to love?
like,that song,love stinks/j giels band,in the 1980s.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Sep 23, 2009 6:26 AM CST What does it feel like to love but not feel loved back?
RobertC2
RobertC2RobertC2Xaghra, Gozo, Gozo Malta91 Threads 8 Polls 8,344 Posts
serene56: Well Rob I DID say I felt the odds were slim, not non-existent. You're one of the lucky ones


Hey - I hope the red dust and dandruff isn't getting you down! hug teddybear
------ This thread is Archived ------
Post Comment - Post a comment on this Forum Thread

This Thread is Archived

This Thread is archived, so you will no longer be able to post to it. Threads get archived automatically when they are older than 3 months.

« Go back to All Threads
Message #318

Stats for this Thread

1,904 Views
61 Comments
by rob4u777 (94 Threads)
Created: Sep 2009
Last Viewed: Apr 24
Last Commented: Oct 2009

Share this Thread

We use cookies to ensure that you have the best experience possible on our website. Read Our Privacy Policy Here