Sucks severe butt. I don't really like the saying of the better to have loved then blah blah blah. ( that's just me though ) It's like having your cake and not eating it, what the heck is the point in that?!
Good question I think that the odds of finding someone who feels the same way about you that you do about them, are pretty slim. And to be honest, when I look at the relationships around me, most of them seem to be about being with someone for reasons other than love .. that is, it's easier ( ) to stay with someone than end a less than happy relationship or that people have a fear of being alone
serene56: Good question I think that the odds of finding someone who feels the same way about you that you do about them, are pretty slim. And to be honest, when I look at the relationships around me, most of them seem to be about being with someone for reasons other than love .. that is, it's easier ( ) to stay with someone than end a less than happy relationship or that people have a fear of being alone
I disagree 100%.
I met somebody who was absolutely wonderful........... she was not only the 'love of my life' but vice versa!
The fact that I lost her will haunt me for the rest of my life.
Ziva1In the middel of nowhere.., Lapland Finland3,813 posts
serene56: Good question I think that the odds of finding someone who feels the same way about you that you do about them, are pretty slim. And to be honest, when I look at the relationships around me, most of them seem to be about being with someone for reasons other than love .. that is, it's easier ( ) to stay with someone than end a less than happy relationship or that people have a fear of being alone
There is only one thing I have to say for you.... You fit into the incurable romantic box. and 110% a trier.... bless you
I don't just try - I succeed!
Last night, for the first time in over 20 years I spoke to a woman I'd have gladly given my life for.
I know she still loves me.......... it's just taken her 20 years to regret having dumped me even though, deep in her evil twisted heart, she knew I was the only man who could ever make her truly happy.
We both lost and we both gained - in heartache and sorrow and a little joy here and there.
I'd never take her back, but it's nice to know she still cares for me even if I hated her for what she did - not to me but to our son!
For the first time in 20 years she has told me a few things about my son and what he is like as a human being and what he looks like and what he wants to be in life......... that has made me very happy!
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What is the one thing about you that is hard for others to love?