STOP BEING A WIMP! ASK GIRLS OUT ON DATES! (16)
Men who pretend they want to be "just friends" are deluding themselves because most of the time, they know the girl would tell them to get lost if they said what they really wanted. Then, there are the guys who go one step further by telling the girl lies or by being manipulative to get the girl to hang out with them. If you have to lie or manipulate someone to get them to speak to you, they are obviously not interested.
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I'm just ranting because I knew someone who told me outrageous lies and pulled som unbelievable manipulation when I was very young.
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hotburninluv: Men, stop falling into the pattern of settling for "some form of a date," like most men do, when you don't ask a woman, directly, out on a date. This results being Not an actual boy-likes-girl evening, but with YOU hoping by just hanging around her life long enough, you'll graduate to boyfriend. Instead of dates with her, where you have schemes to keep her on the hook.
Sure, maybe she will refer to hanging around and doing things for her "sweet". It's wonderful, doing things for her, but it doesn't exactly set you up to get anything from her in the relationship any better.
Generally, when a man is too wimpy to ask a woman directly out for a date, because of the fear she will reject him, he will feels like too big of a loser. Women can sense this, and drop-kick him into the friend zone fast, when he would otherwise might've had a chance.
In the future, if you're at ALL interested in a woman, tell her in not so many words. Ask her out! Don't ask how you can help her out. Instead of giving in to your fear of rejection, seek rejection!
Why? Because, Not onlywill this keep you from wasting time, the longer you wait to ask a woman out on a date, the less likely she will go out with you. Please, Men and Women feel free to comment!
Sure, maybe she will refer to hanging around and doing things for her "sweet". It's wonderful, doing things for her, but it doesn't exactly set you up to get anything from her in the relationship any better.
Generally, when a man is too wimpy to ask a woman directly out for a date, because of the fear she will reject him, he will feels like too big of a loser. Women can sense this, and drop-kick him into the friend zone fast, when he would otherwise might've had a chance.
In the future, if you're at ALL interested in a woman, tell her in not so many words. Ask her out! Don't ask how you can help her out. Instead of giving in to your fear of rejection, seek rejection!
Why? Because, Not onlywill this keep you from wasting time, the longer you wait to ask a woman out on a date, the less likely she will go out with you. Please, Men and Women feel free to comment!
So how lucky have YOU been adopting this strategy? You are on a dating site after all.
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Jan1305: So how lucky have YOU been adopting this strategy? You are on a dating site after all.
Hey Jan, this strategy has worked wonders for me! I've asked a woman for a date and I've received 100 rejections, give or take a few. 
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Jan1305: So how lucky have YOU been adopting this strategy? You are on a dating site after all.
not only is he a c lient he's the president of the company.
hair club for men commercial, sorry.
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Witchaywoman: Men who pretend they want to be "just friends" are deluding themselves because most of the time, they know the girl would tell them to get lost if they said what they really wanted. Then, there are the guys who go one step further by telling the girl lies or by being manipulative to get the girl to hang out with them. If you have to lie or manipulate someone to get them to speak to you, they are obviously not interested.
i am still repeating:bing tidde tiddle Bang!------ This thread is Archived ------
i dont ask em out......
i ask them IN.....
but i do give em the choice of place.... theirs or mine makes no difference to me !!!!!!
i ask them IN.....
but i do give em the choice of place.... theirs or mine makes no difference to me !!!!!!
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Total Travel Estimates: 29 hours 26 minutes / 1978.32 miles 
But I would drive straight through..
But I would drive straight through..
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I have to agree with at least one thing - "stop being a wimp", yup. (How many times have I thought that about otherwise potentially nice guys)
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I will no longer make the mistake of letting a guy know I am interested. When I do he disappears or makes up some cocknbull story.
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sassy49senior: I will no longer make the mistake of letting a guy know I am interested. When I do he disappears or makes up some cocknbull story.
You got my vote on that.
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kitty01: You got my vote on that.
Hi Kitty, I imagine if truth be told, men get the same thing.
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sanfrancali: You need to play more hard to get with this guy, he is treating you like a backup until he can find something better, you need to be too busy to see him, for example if he wants to take you to dinner say no but you could meet for a quick coffee, be more mysterious.
Good advice, Thanks!! And you totally figured him out. He does treat me like a backup. This guy has dropped me like a cold fish to go out with others before. I'm just not good at playing games...
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I buy that theory, and honestly this goes for life as well, truly chase and commit to whatever you are doing.
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I want to know where the guy stands always
I would much rather know what he wants rather than try to force it out of him. If I am interested I don't keep it a secret I make sure he knows why not do the same?
I would much rather know what he wants rather than try to force it out of him. If I am interested I don't keep it a secret I make sure he knows why not do the same?
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Sure, maybe she will refer to hanging around and doing things for her "sweet". It's wonderful, doing things for her, but it doesn't exactly set you up to get anything from her in the relationship any better.
Generally, when a man is too wimpy to ask a woman directly out for a date, because of the fear she will reject him, he will feels like too big of a loser. Women can sense this, and drop-kick him into the friend zone fast, when he would otherwise might've had a chance.
In the future, if you're at ALL interested in a woman, tell her in not so many words. Ask her out! Don't ask how you can help her out. Instead of giving in to your fear of rejection, seek rejection!
Why? Because, Not onlywill this keep you from wasting time, the longer you wait to ask a woman out on a date, the less likely she will go out with you. Please, Men and Women feel free to comment!