may b a bit different 4 the girls (267)
venusenvy: I completely agree V many men look dashing in a goatee and take time to take care of grooming. That I can totally understand. However, this is not the case with the o/p...it honestly looks like it hasnt been properly groomed in years. O and please dont tell me its his "religion" Ive known Muslim men who do NOT walk around looking like that! I for one am put off and would never want to kiss a fuzzy face like that. As stated thats MY preferance And lets be honest, attraction is all about apperances, and that is totally subjective. There may well be women that go for the bushman look...It so happens I am not one of them.
If you look at his beard you will see it has been brushed or either combed, it is not like he has dreadlocks hanging off his face and food all in it all.
I see when I look at his picture another man with a beard, who is religious. But not someone who is dirty in their appearance at all.
There is a guy active in the forums who has a beard, whom many converse with and have a good laugh too, would you say he looks dirty because he has a beard?
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venusenvy: O...and its not "ignorance" its preferance
V...you said it all right there, it's all a matter of preference, you like to dress up with class and style and expect the same of your men, his geographical, cultural, and personal preferences dictate the way he wishes to present himself.
If he finds a woman that will accept his choice of appearance appealing then more power to them both, I don't see cause for associating someone who chooses to dress the way they prefer to with Muslim terrorists either. We had a case here in Phoenix not too long after the 9/11 tragedy, where a guy shot and killed a dude in a turban that worked at a convenience store accusing him of being a terrorist, turned out he wasn't even a Muslim, but a Sikh, a very peaceful and respectful people...thus a senseless murder based on outward appearance.
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In response to: the idea grown by reviewing the profiles of girls i hv seen so far is something like -- they want handsome guys, they want loving and caring person and they want the guys to love them 4 what they r. but whats wrong with a guy who is trustworthy, honest, educated, loves kids, has faith on God but not handsome?? why the girls skip just seeing the photo? why they dont want to love a guy 4 what he is?????
I have read some of the posts here, and, all i can say that they only speak the volume of their ignorance, to say the least. Then again, i can't really expect everybody in this world to rationalize things to achieve a better understanding of this world and its inhabitants. However, not all good is lost in the crowd of all such negativities. I am sure you will find ONE woman..i repeat at least ONE woman, to like you and love you just the way you look now! And guess what, that ONE woman will like you JUST because you look like this! And that woman will be your wife..the woman who will keep u covered like a piece of garment from the onslaught of some of these women
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Veritaas: If you look at his beard you will see it has been brushed or either combed, it is not like he has dreadlocks hanging off his face and food all in it all.
I see when I look at his picture another man with a beard, who is religious. But not someone who is dirty in their appearance at all.
There is a guy active in the forums who has a beard, whom many converse with and have a good laugh too, would you say he looks dirty because he has a beard?
I see when I look at his picture another man with a beard, who is religious. But not someone who is dirty in their appearance at all.
There is a guy active in the forums who has a beard, whom many converse with and have a good laugh too, would you say he looks dirty because he has a beard?
It would depend on whether it was groomed or not. As for talking, thats a different story Im pretty happy to chat away with whoever, regardless of whether they have a beard or not. But being attracted to, or dating someone who looked like that is NOT my cup of tea. I dont judge others if its thier bag...its simply not mine.
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venusenvy: Hes asking whats putting the women off...its very obvious ...if you ask a question...expect an answer whether you like the answer or not. Peeps (myself included) find his unkempt appearance offputting and have been very honest in this regard.
It's obviously a matter of taste and preferences and we all are entitled to have our own
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In response to: the idea grown by reviewing the profiles of girls i hv seen so far is something like -- they want handsome guys, they want loving and caring person and they want the guys to love them 4 what they r. but whats wrong with a guy who is trustworthy, honest, educated, loves kids, has faith on God but not handsome?? why the girls skip just seeing the photo? why they dont want to love a guy 4 what he is?????
Would rather have a good looker than one that had faith in god..(not that I believe in god)
And personally I want a guy I find attractive..
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Personal preference...some women like facial hair some do not.End of init?
I would much rather see more of your face though....
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Amity: Personal preference...some women like facial hair some do not.End of init?
I would much rather see more of your face though....
I would much rather see more of your face though....
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Look Al is Muslim...and he looks great
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venusenvy: Look Al is Muslim...and he looks great
Thanks Sweet venus ,It is ur great thinking 
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ali110: Thanks Sweet venus ,It is ur great thinking
Hey Ali
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Amity: Personal preference...some women like facial hair some do not.
End of init?
I would much rather see more of your face though....
End of init?
I would much rather see more of your face though....
it sounds much better amity. Asking to see more of a face is one thing while immediately jumping to conclusion that "women" don't like a person because of his facial hair is totally a different thing. isn't it?
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Amity: Personal preference...some women like facial hair some do not.
End of init?
I would much rather see more of your face though....
End of init?
I would much rather see more of your face though....
Some women HAVE facial hair some do not.
End of init?
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estate: Some women HAVE facial hair some do not.
End of init?
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bog off you..i shaved this morning 
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Amity: bog off you..i shaved this morning
Init!!
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estate: Some women HAVE facial hair some do not.
End of init?
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estate: Some women HAVE facial hair some do not.
End of init?
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shoot...time to hide in the corner now because ladies will start behaving like us men
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estate: Some women HAVE facial hair some do not.
End of init?
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venusenvy: good one...I think they really need you on the "bad girl" thread ...your buddies are drowning
Hey, no friends of mine!!
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People can keep beards, goatees just as clean, which many do.
Preference is one thing but the man does not look dirty.
I completely agree V many men look dashing in a goatee and take time to take care of grooming. That I can totally understand. However, this is not the case with the o/p...it honestly looks like it hasnt been properly groomed in years. O and please dont tell me its his "religion" Ive known Muslim men who do NOT walk around looking like that! I for one am put off and would never want to kiss a fuzzy face like that. As stated thats MY preferance And lets be honest, attraction is all about apperances, and that is totally subjective. There may well be women that go for the bushman look...It so happens I am not one of them.