Wow_FactorLondon, Greater London, England UK3,698 posts
Steve5721: This got me thinking.
I doubt very much that a European/USA girl will be interested in the OP for as one or two said, the facial hair and the stare could and is off putting, but I do understand why he has that facial hair.
What really got me thinking is, why don't we see any ladies from Pakistan, Saudia Arabia and other muslim countries posting? We see male muslims posting but I don't recall seeing many female ones (I do recall seeing one). I have even gone as far as doing a search for Pakistan women and see that there are some on there..BUT there are also MEN on the womens area too. I have even checked the OP's location and there are 6 pages of women, but within those 6 pages, I guestimate that there two pages of males on the women section.
Anyway, the point of my post is to ask why don't we see any muslim ladies posting....Is this because they are not allowed?
Maybe some muslim men on here want to convert non-muslem women to the muslim way of life. Gentle the forcible persuasion? Notice I am sayins some, and not necessarily the original poster or anyone in particular on here.
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
AngelinBali: Honestly your face hair and the look in your eyes is creeping me out in a way that I've to skip to another thread.
I feel you could be handsome if you wouldn't look so scary! Honestly your face hair and the look in your eyes is creeping me out in a way that I've to skip to another thread..
I feel you could be handsome if you wouldn't look so scary!
I doubt very much that a European/USA girl will be interested in the OP for as one or two said, the facial hair and the stare could and is off putting, but I do understand why he has that facial hair.
What really got me thinking is, why don't we see any ladies from Pakistan, Saudia Arabia and other muslim countries posting? We see male muslims posting but I don't recall seeing many female ones (I do recall seeing one). I have even gone as far as doing a search for Pakistan women and see that there are some on there..BUT there are also MEN on the womens area too. I have even checked the OP's location and there are 6 pages of women, but within those 6 pages, I guestimate that there two pages of males on the women section.
Anyway, the point of my post is to ask why don't we see any muslim ladies posting....Is this because they are not allowed?
YOU ARE RIGHT THEY ARE NOT ALLOWED TO MARRY ANYONE BUT A MUSLIN. YET THE MEN CAN?????????
Wow_FactorLondon, Greater London, England UK3,698 posts
marieluke: YOU ARE RIGHT THEY ARE NOT ALLOWED TO MARRY ANYONE BUT A MUSLIN. YET THE MEN CAN?????????
The men dominate the islamic religion and the woman must not follow any religion of her own choice, but has to follow her husband's religion. The women are subservient in many islamic countries, but not all countries.
Wow_Factor: Maybe some muslim men on here want to convert non-muslem women to the muslim way of life. Gentle the forcible persuasion? Notice I am sayins some, and not necessarily the original poster or anyone in particular on here.
Fair point and I know that one muslim on here has already stated that before they marry a non muslim that they have to convert to that religion, although it is permissible for a Muslim man to marry a non-Muslim woman if she is Christian or Jewish, but it is not permissible for him to marry a non-Muslim woman who follows any religion other than these two or in fact is non-religious (atheist etc)
Now, while researching something, I found this little snippet and this really answers my question...maybe!
It is not permissible for a Muslim woman to marry a non-Muslim from any other religion, whether from among the Jews or Christians, or any other kaafir religion. It is not permissible for her to marry a Jew, a Christian, a Magian, a communist, an idol-worshipper, etc.
Wow_FactorLondon, Greater London, England UK3,698 posts
Steve5721: It is not permissible for a Muslim woman to marry a non-Muslim from any other religion, whether from among the Jews or Christians, or any other kaafir religion. It is not permissible for her to marry a Jew, a Christian, a Magian, a communist, an idol-worshipper, etc.
I won't copy and paste this link. Have a read about how some muslims forcibly take non-muslim women and marry them.
i have seen some post abot the idea people have abt muslim people and most of them r not right. because all these ideas they got r from media, not from real people. better u try to befriend with muslim people, specially those who r following islam, may b someone like me. the media treated the muslims as subhuman. please see this video
arman_khan81: i have seen some post abot the idea people have abt muslim people and most of them r not right. because all these ideas they got r from media, not from real people. better u try to befriend with muslim people, specially those who r following islam, may b someone like me. the media treated the muslims as subhuman. please see this video
VeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK5,839 posts
So what if the man has a beard, who is anyone else on this thread to insult him and the way he looks, because that is what some of you have done right here.
What has he done to any of you personally? Has he insulted anyone here by the way they look, no, he has not.
Perhaps one should take a good look in the mirror at themselves and be honest about what they really see.
Veritaas: So what if the man has a beard, who is anyone else on this thread to insult him and the way he looks, because that is what some of you have done right here.
What has he done to any of you personally? Has he insulted anyone here by the way they look, no, he has not.
Perhaps one should take a good look in the mirror at themselves and be honest about what they really see.
Hes asking whats putting the women off...its very obvious ...if you ask a question...expect an answer whether you like the answer or not. Peeps (myself included) find his unkempt appearance offputting and have been very honest in this regard.
VeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK5,839 posts
arman_khan81: i have seen some post abot the idea people have abt muslim people and most of them r not right. because all these ideas they got r from media, not from real people. better u try to befriend with muslim people, specially those who r following islam, may b someone like me. the media treated the muslims as subhuman. please see this video
muslims r not terrorist or they dont oppress the women. we welcome friendship from any nations, we r not enemies.
No, not all muslims are terrorists. But the people who commit the atrocities in the name of Islam do not do the rest of the Muslim people in the world any justice.
Spreading the word of peace around here on these threads in relation to religion and for Muslims trying to represent themselves as everyday normal people can be very difficult. You will come up against alot of controversy and people with differing opinions.
And do not expect that everyone will be pleasant to you. That is just the way it is here. Harsh but true.
VeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK5,839 posts
venusenvy: Hes asking whats putting the women off...its very obvious ...if you ask a question...expect an answer whether you like the answer or not. Peeps (myself included) find his unkempt appearance offputting and have been very honest in this regard.
It is part of his culture and religion, and if his appearance, just because he has a beard puts others off is pure ignorance.
Sep 23, 2010 12:39 PM CST may b a bit different 4 the girls
justmehahaBangkok, Central Thailand Thailand23 Posts
justmehahaBangkok, Central Thailand Thailand23 posts
In response to: the idea grown by reviewing the profiles of girls i hv seen so far is something like -- they want handsome guys, they want loving and caring person and they want the guys to love them 4 what they r. but whats wrong with a guy who is trustworthy, honest, educated, loves kids, has faith on God but not handsome?? why the girls skip just seeing the photo? why they dont want to love a guy 4 what he is?????
HEY I WANNA SHOUT IT HERE>>>> Im not angry at u or yelling at you but see YOU ARE NOT UGLY, you've got soulful eyes and maybe a a beautiful smile, all u have to do is keep on smiling... many people seem harsh to you but dont mind them its the heart that matters... thats why they incur many bad things or heartaches because of how shallow they are.
get a hair cut but if u dont like it, trim it down; smile a lot, and think ur beautiful, it radiates from within.
Veritaas: It is part of his culture and religion, and if his appearance, just because he has a beard puts others off is pure ignorance.
I for one HATE facial hair on a man...its my pet peeve...and in this case it looks dirty and unkempt...even worse. He asked about apperances and I responded honestly in kind. To me it has nothing to do with religion and everything to do with personal hygiene
VeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK5,839 posts
venusenvy: I for one HATE facial hair on a man...its my pet peeve...and in this case it looks dirty and unkempt...even worse. He asked about apperances and I responded honestly in kind. To me it has nothing to do with religion and everything to do with personal hygiene
So then perhaps everyone should shave their heads too, for personal hygiene.
People can keep beards, goatees just as clean, which many do.
Preference is one thing but the man does not look dirty.
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I doubt very much that a European/USA girl will be interested in the OP for as one or two said, the facial hair and the stare could and is off putting, but I do understand why he has that facial hair.
What really got me thinking is, why don't we see any ladies from Pakistan, Saudia Arabia and other muslim countries posting? We see male muslims posting but I don't recall seeing many female ones (I do recall seeing one). I have even gone as far as doing a search for Pakistan women and see that there are some on there..BUT there are also MEN on the womens area too. I have even checked the OP's location and there are 6 pages of women, but within those 6 pages, I guestimate that there two pages of males on the women section.
Anyway, the point of my post is to ask why don't we see any muslim ladies posting....Is this because they are not allowed?
Maybe some muslim men on here want to convert non-muslem women to the muslim way of life. Gentle the forcible persuasion? Notice I am sayins some, and not necessarily the original poster or anyone in particular on here.