Regrets (28)
Yes, many years ago,my friend and i where bungy jumping of a 1000mtr bridge.He went first,it was then i wished i had told him i hadnt been arsed to tie the other end of the rope to the tree.
Splat! Only having a laugh mate,no offence to your thread!
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time4fun4u: Yes, many years ago,my friend and i where bungy jumping of a 1000mtr bridge.He went first,it was then i wished i had told him i hadnt been arsed to tie the other end of the rope to the tree. Splat! Only having a laugh mate,no offence to your thread!
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Payno: Have you ever regretted not telling someone something that really should have been said and then never getting the chance?
5 years ago i made a decision that was wrong (I had to choose between a girlfriend and a friend who i cared for) and i never got the chance to tell the person that i made the wrong choice. However 5 years on i finally managed to get in contact with that Ex girlfriend and tell her i was wrong which has led to us being good friends. This pleases me a lot as the Friend who i decided to help is no longer my friend.....
If you have regrets then there is still hope you can make amends.
Feel free to comment
5 years ago i made a decision that was wrong (I had to choose between a girlfriend and a friend who i cared for) and i never got the chance to tell the person that i made the wrong choice. However 5 years on i finally managed to get in contact with that Ex girlfriend and tell her i was wrong which has led to us being good friends. This pleases me a lot as the Friend who i decided to help is no longer my friend.....
If you have regrets then there is still hope you can make amends.
Feel free to comment
So much I could say about this , but to be honest, something I'm not ready to share...But I agree, you need to say what is on your mind, because you may never get the chance to do so again.
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Payno: Have you ever regretted not telling someone something that really should have been said and then never getting the chance?
5 years ago i made a decision that was wrong (I had to choose between a girlfriend and a friend who i cared for) and i never got the chance to tell the person that i made the wrong choice. However 5 years on i finally managed to get in contact with that Ex girlfriend and tell her i was wrong which has led to us being good friends. This pleases me a lot as the Friend who i decided to help is no longer my friend.....
If you have regrets then there is still hope you can make amends.
Feel free to comment
5 years ago i made a decision that was wrong (I had to choose between a girlfriend and a friend who i cared for) and i never got the chance to tell the person that i made the wrong choice. However 5 years on i finally managed to get in contact with that Ex girlfriend and tell her i was wrong which has led to us being good friends. This pleases me a lot as the Friend who i decided to help is no longer my friend.....
If you have regrets then there is still hope you can make amends.
Feel free to comment
Glad that things worked out for you.
I have no regrets. What I do or say is usually exactly what I mean at any given time. What I can do in a day is all I can do.
My intent is usually good, and if it didn't work out as I thought it should, then I did my best.
"If we could have done better, we'd have done it", someone once told me. No need then for recriminations.
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No,seriously,no regrets about anything like that.
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Making amends when you realize you made the wrong choice is a sign of maturity. :)
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GingerBe: Glad that things worked out for you.
I have no regrets. What I do or say is usually exactly what I mean at any given time. What I can do in a day is all I can do.
My intent is usually good, and if it didn't work out as I thought it should, then I did my best.
"If we could have done better, we'd have done it", someone once told me. No need then for recriminations.
I have no regrets. What I do or say is usually exactly what I mean at any given time. What I can do in a day is all I can do.
My intent is usually good, and if it didn't work out as I thought it should, then I did my best.
"If we could have done better, we'd have done it", someone once told me. No need then for recriminations.
I some times wish i could just say what was on my mind but its not always so easy. Try not to make the same mistake twice though
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senchu: Making amends when you realize you made the wrong choice is a sign of maturity. :)
Agree'd in a sense, but, there are things (not related to the topic) that can be done in life that we find ourselves responsible for that you can't make amends for regardless of someones maturity
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I should have tell her that I slept with her sister and her best female friend...
oh wait ... I did tell her.... that`s why she left me....
oh wait ... I did tell her.... that`s why she left me....
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Payno: I some times wish i could just say what was on my mind but its not always so easy. Try not to make the same mistake twice though
I do it all the time! Nobody killed me for it yet!
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I admire your sincerity and realness. But perhaps a situation involves three people. One man two girls. The man is dating a woman whom a friend dispised and tells him all sorts of lies and such in which he believes...down the road he realizes this friend was not a friend at all and he was wrong but chooses to apologize to the gf feeling bad that he believed the lies...I think this is a good example of where making ammends is a good thing to do. one for the conscience of the one who was misled and two for the sake of the other who was hurt.
I do think your words are of great value :) I will most certainly remember them! Because often i tend to worry too much and all i have to remember is if I did my best that is more than enough.
thanks for your kind words
GingerBe: Glad that things worked out for you.
I have no regrets. What I do or say is usually exactly what I mean at any given time. What I can do in a day is all I can do.
My intent is usually good, and if it didn't work out as I thought it should, then I did my best.
"If we could have done better, we'd have done it", someone once told me. No need then for recriminations.
I have no regrets. What I do or say is usually exactly what I mean at any given time. What I can do in a day is all I can do.
My intent is usually good, and if it didn't work out as I thought it should, then I did my best.
"If we could have done better, we'd have done it", someone once told me. No need then for recriminations.
I admire your sincerity and realness. But perhaps a situation involves three people. One man two girls. The man is dating a woman whom a friend dispised and tells him all sorts of lies and such in which he believes...down the road he realizes this friend was not a friend at all and he was wrong but chooses to apologize to the gf feeling bad that he believed the lies...I think this is a good example of where making ammends is a good thing to do. one for the conscience of the one who was misled and two for the sake of the other who was hurt.
I do think your words are of great value :) I will most certainly remember them! Because often i tend to worry too much and all i have to remember is if I did my best that is more than enough.
thanks for your kind words
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senchu: I
I admire your sincerity and realness. But perhaps a situation involves three people. One man two girls. The man is dating a woman whom a friend dispised and tells him all sorts of lies and such in which he believes...down the road he realizes this friend was not a friend at all and he was wrong but chooses to apologize to the gf feeling bad that he believed the lies...I think this is a good example of where making ammends is a good thing to do. one for the conscience of the one who was misled and two for the sake of the other who was hurt.
I do think your words are of great value :) I will most certainly remember them! Because often i tend to worry too much and all i have to remember is if I did my best that is more than enough.
thanks for your kind words
I admire your sincerity and realness. But perhaps a situation involves three people. One man two girls. The man is dating a woman whom a friend dispised and tells him all sorts of lies and such in which he believes...down the road he realizes this friend was not a friend at all and he was wrong but chooses to apologize to the gf feeling bad that he believed the lies...I think this is a good example of where making ammends is a good thing to do. one for the conscience of the one who was misled and two for the sake of the other who was hurt.
I do think your words are of great value :) I will most certainly remember them! Because often i tend to worry too much and all i have to remember is if I did my best that is more than enough.
thanks for your kind words
I think that our thinking can over-complicate our lives sometimes. We can berate ourselves for things that we seemed to have no choice but to do that way, at the time.
This self recrimination can be habit forming for some, and they end up blaming themselves for everything, and make themelves sick because of it.
No one can change the past. All we can do is look back occasionally, and learn from it, and if it is within our power, (big IF here), do things differently a second time, or make amends as the OP did.
Otherwise, we do ourselves only harm by regretting what we can't change.
We just have to say, we did our best, and leave it at that.
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Payno: Have you ever regretted not telling someone something that really should have been said and then never getting the chance?
5 years ago i made a decision that was wrong (I had to choose between a girlfriend and a friend who i cared for) and i never got the chance to tell the person that i made the wrong choice. However 5 years on i finally managed to get in contact with that Ex girlfriend and tell her i was wrong which has led to us being good friends. This pleases me a lot as the Friend who i decided to help is no longer my friend.....
If you have regrets then there is still hope you can make amends.
Feel free to comment
5 years ago i made a decision that was wrong (I had to choose between a girlfriend and a friend who i cared for) and i never got the chance to tell the person that i made the wrong choice. However 5 years on i finally managed to get in contact with that Ex girlfriend and tell her i was wrong which has led to us being good friends. This pleases me a lot as the Friend who i decided to help is no longer my friend.....
If you have regrets then there is still hope you can make amends.
Feel free to comment
I know exactly how you feel..
I too am dispondent over some really bad decisions..
( and more then one...)
For years now I have been trying to contact my ex-wives
to apoligize and tell them they were right..
I CAN'T find anyone as stupid as them...
---SoldierByte---
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Boban1: I should have tell her that I slept with her sister and her best female friend...
oh wait ... I did tell her.... that`s why she left me....
oh wait ... I did tell her.... that`s why she left me....
But Boban...maybe had you said at different times and not slept with them both at the same time, she might have taken it a little differently!!
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I learned a long time ago to say what I really need to say, good bad or whatever. No one can read your mind.
But mostly good, in that if I like someone, I make sure to tell them, even if they find it a little confronting lol. At least they how I feel.
The thing that springs to mind straight away though, is that I got to return an "I love you, ya know" to someone who, not long after, went away forever. I'll always be grateful for that
But mostly good, in that if I like someone, I make sure to tell them, even if they find it a little confronting lol. At least they how I feel.
The thing that springs to mind straight away though, is that I got to return an "I love you, ya know" to someone who, not long after, went away forever. I'll always be grateful for that
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I regret not telling my platonic friend who passed away that he was worth more than the so called relationships I had. I don't think he would have believed me 
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Payno: Have you ever regretted not telling someone something that really should have been said and then never getting the chance?
5 years ago i made a decision that was wrong (I had to choose between a girlfriend and a friend who i cared for) and i never got the chance to tell the person that i made the wrong choice. However 5 years on i finally managed to get in contact with that Ex girlfriend and tell her i was wrong which has led to us being good friends. This pleases me a lot as the Friend who i decided to help is no longer my friend.....
If you have regrets then there is still hope you can make amends.
Feel free to comment
5 years ago i made a decision that was wrong (I had to choose between a girlfriend and a friend who i cared for) and i never got the chance to tell the person that i made the wrong choice. However 5 years on i finally managed to get in contact with that Ex girlfriend and tell her i was wrong which has led to us being good friends. This pleases me a lot as the Friend who i decided to help is no longer my friend.....
If you have regrets then there is still hope you can make amends.
Feel free to comment
Life is way to short to harbor regrets..you made the decision you felt was right at the time and your path w/ the ex gf took a totally different route.
But...you've been given another chance at making the relationship work on a friendship level, which in and of itself is very wonderful.
I wear my heart on my sleeve a bit too much, but I believe in being honest and getting the words out there, no matter what happens, because I've done that in the past and had to deal with regrets too.
However, having learned from past actions, I now handle things much differently and face fears and speak my mind. It has always worked out much better by doing that.
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Payno: Have you ever regretted not telling someone something that really should have been said and then never getting the chance?
5 years ago i made a decision that was wrong (I had to choose between a girlfriend and a friend who i cared for) and i never got the chance to tell the person that i made the wrong choice. However 5 years on i finally managed to get in contact with that Ex girlfriend and tell her i was wrong which has led to us being good friends. This pleases me a lot as the Friend who i decided to help is no longer my friend.....
If you have regrets then there is still hope you can make amends.
Feel free to comment
5 years ago i made a decision that was wrong (I had to choose between a girlfriend and a friend who i cared for) and i never got the chance to tell the person that i made the wrong choice. However 5 years on i finally managed to get in contact with that Ex girlfriend and tell her i was wrong which has led to us being good friends. This pleases me a lot as the Friend who i decided to help is no longer my friend.....
If you have regrets then there is still hope you can make amends.
Feel free to comment
You are a wise young man
You already know what is Dark and what is Light. Good luck in a future.
As to what happened ... as always I shall say Everything happens for a reason.
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I did it my way.......
And now the end is near
So I face the final curtain
My friend, I'll say it clear
I'll state my case of which I'm certain
I've lived a life that's full
I've traveled each and every highway
And more, much more than this
I did it my way
Regrets, I've had a few
But then again, too few to mention
I did what I had to do
And saw it through without exception
I planned each charted course
Each careful step along the byway
Oh, and more, much more than this
I did it my way
Yes, there were times, I'm sure you know
When I bit off more than I could chew
But through it all when there was doubt
I ate it up and spit it out
I faced it all and I stood tall
And did it my way
I've loved, I've laughed and cried
I've had my fails, my share of losing
And now as tears subside
I find it all so amusing
To think I did all that
And may I say, not in a shy way
Oh, no, no not me
I did it my way
For what is a man, what has he got
If not himself, then he has not
To say the words he truly feels
And not the words he would reveal
The record shows I took the blows
And did it my way
The record shows I took the blows
And did it my way
And now the end is near
So I face the final curtain
My friend, I'll say it clear
I'll state my case of which I'm certain
I've lived a life that's full
I've traveled each and every highway
And more, much more than this
I did it my way
Regrets, I've had a few
But then again, too few to mention
I did what I had to do
And saw it through without exception
I planned each charted course
Each careful step along the byway
Oh, and more, much more than this
I did it my way
Yes, there were times, I'm sure you know
When I bit off more than I could chew
But through it all when there was doubt
I ate it up and spit it out
I faced it all and I stood tall
And did it my way
I've loved, I've laughed and cried
I've had my fails, my share of losing
And now as tears subside
I find it all so amusing
To think I did all that
And may I say, not in a shy way
Oh, no, no not me
I did it my way
For what is a man, what has he got
If not himself, then he has not
To say the words he truly feels
And not the words he would reveal
The record shows I took the blows
And did it my way
The record shows I took the blows
And did it my way
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5 years ago i made a decision that was wrong (I had to choose between a girlfriend and a friend who i cared for) and i never got the chance to tell the person that i made the wrong choice. However 5 years on i finally managed to get in contact with that Ex girlfriend and tell her i was wrong which has led to us being good friends. This pleases me a lot as the Friend who i decided to help is no longer my friend.....
If you have regrets then there is still hope you can make amends.
Feel free to comment