How do you feel (80)

Aug 15, 2011 5:09 AM CST How do you feel
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
about your ex now confused

For some the break up is still fresh and raw, for others it's been a while ...

When you think back on your last longterm relationship, what springs into your mind?

Please discuss professor
Aug 15, 2011 5:11 AM CST How do you feel
AgentAjax
AgentAjaxAgentAjaxBrisbane, Queensland Australia81 Threads 1 Polls 3,965 Posts
nothing!!!! dunno
Aug 15, 2011 5:25 AM CST How do you feel
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
AgentAjax: that’s cute I read an article on this subject once upon a time, that talked about a 10 year cycle of various emotions women go through… the last one is hate.



Really confused

So I have a few years till I start on my last LTR drinking

laugh


That's interesting though hmmm
Aug 15, 2011 6:43 AM CST How do you feel
_PrOwLeR
_PrOwLeR_PrOwLeRGold Coast, Queensland Australia46 Threads 1,047 Posts
serene56: about your ex now

For some the break up is still fresh and raw, for others it's been a while ...

When you think back on your last longterm relationship, what springs into your mind?

Please discuss



I just wanna ask which eX are we talking here ?? .... laugh
Aug 15, 2011 6:46 AM CST How do you feel
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
_PrOwLeR: I just wanna ask which eX are we talking here ?? ....



Not sure really laugh


Long term relationship(s) type exes confused
Aug 15, 2011 6:47 AM CST How do you feel
daggyone
daggyonedaggyoneWonthaggi, Victoria Australia143 Threads 14 Polls 1,963 Posts
12 months on and can't wait for the divorce.
Went through the sad sack times, angry times, etc...
Moved on now and getting on with being a happy chappy.
How I feel about her now is I hope she finds a good father to my kids and happiness as if she's happy, they will be too.
Aug 15, 2011 6:51 AM CST How do you feel
Shell225
Shell225Shell225Brisbane, Queensland Australia26 Threads 8,572 Posts
serene56: about your ex now

For some the break up is still fresh and raw, for others it's been a while ...

When you think back on your last longterm relationship, what springs into your mind?

Please discuss


We didnt split up because of an argument or any such thing. So for me its bitter sweet thoughts.
Aug 15, 2011 7:07 AM CST How do you feel
jem1964
jem1964jem1964Foothills of Dandenongs, Victoria Australia30 Threads 1 Polls 2,441 Posts
In response to: about your ex now

For some the break up is still fresh and raw, for others it's been a while ...

When you think back on your last longterm relationship, what springs into your mind?

Please discuss


that all things happen for a reason, the relationship taught me a lot, so did the ex, both good and bad.

It ended in hurt, but also freed me to be the person I am today instead of a shadow of what I could be, like I was.

I am pretty sure the ex now is sorry for what happened, and that I know he still does care about me, as I do him as he was 13 years of my life.

But like we both agreed when I left, once you step away there is no going back, you can only move forward.
cheers
Aug 15, 2011 7:15 AM CST How do you feel
pebblesinastream
pebblesinastreampebblesinastreamyarra valley, Victoria Australia5 Threads 449 Posts
serene56: about your ex now

For some the break up is still fresh and raw, for others it's been a while ...

When you think back on your last longterm relationship, what springs into your mind?

Please discuss
it would be nice to get someone to stay by your side .ive always been edgy, wondering if they are still going to be there when i get home.
Aug 15, 2011 7:16 AM CST How do you feel
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
jem1964: that all things happen for a reason, the relationship taught me a lot, so did the ex, both good and bad.

It ended in hurt, but also freed me to be the person I am today instead of a shadow of what I could be, like I was.

I am pretty sure the ex now is sorry for what happened, and that I know he still does care about me, as I do him as he was 13 years of my life.

But like we both agreed when I left, once you step away there is no going back, you can only move forward.


I absolutely adore my ex.. and I cannot go without talking with him, seeing him, etc. He feels the same, but you know... things like distance and children get in the way.
Aug 15, 2011 7:27 AM CST How do you feel
_PrOwLeR
_PrOwLeR_PrOwLeRGold Coast, Queensland Australia46 Threads 1,047 Posts
pebblesinastream: it would be nice to get someone to stay by your side .ive always been edgy, wondering if they are still going to be there when i get home.




YeaH same here ...

I've only just recently realised that I have sabotaged my own cause at times, I think I do it so I dont have to feel the hurt of her doing it ... It saddens that my trust issues are not about infidelity but more about sincerety ... mumbling
Aug 15, 2011 7:29 AM CST How do you feel
_PrOwLeR
_PrOwLeR_PrOwLeRGold Coast, Queensland Australia46 Threads 1,047 Posts
_PrOwLeR: YeaH same here ...

I've only just recently realised that I have sabotaged my own cause at times, I think I do it so I dont have to feel the hurt of her doing it ... It saddens that my trust issues are not about infidelity but more about sincerety ...



I'll learn to proof read one day ...

I've only just recently realised that I have sabotaged my own cause at times, I think I do it so I dont have to feel the hurt of her doing it ... It saddens that my trust issues are not only about infidelity but more now about sincerety ...
Aug 15, 2011 7:36 AM CST How do you feel
pebblesinastream
pebblesinastreampebblesinastreamyarra valley, Victoria Australia5 Threads 449 Posts
_PrOwLeR: YeaH same here ...

I've only just recently realised that I have sabotaged my own cause at times, I think I do it so I dont have to feel the hurt of her doing it ... It saddens that my trust issues are not about infidelity but more about sincerety ...
yeah i really sabotaged my relationships,its only recently ive realized what i,m doing wrong,you need to live two lifetimes to work it outlol.
Aug 15, 2011 7:38 AM CST How do you feel
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
_PrOwLeR: I'll learn to proof read one day ...

I've only just recently realised that I have sabotaged my own cause at times, I think I do it so I dont have to feel the hurt of her doing it ... It saddens that my trust issues are not only about infidelity but more now about sincerety ...


Jeez, Prowler... that is sad... sad flower sad flower
Aug 15, 2011 7:39 AM CST How do you feel
bubbles85
bubbles85bubbles85longford, Longford Ireland7 Threads 934 Posts
serene56: about your ex now

For some the break up is still fresh and raw, for others it's been a while ...

When you think back on your last longterm relationship, what springs into your mind?

Please discuss

absolutely nothing grin
thats why he is an exlaugh wave
Aug 15, 2011 7:39 AM CST How do you feel
tonyxf
tonyxftonyxfwerribee, Victoria Australia2 Threads 4,525 Posts
pebblesinastream: yeah i really sabotaged my relationships,its only recently ive realized what i,m doing wrong,you need to live two lifetimes to work it outlol.
Ye but I rekon we'd still make the same mistakes.
Aug 15, 2011 7:40 AM CST How do you feel
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
pebblesinastream: it would be nice to get someone to stay by your side .ive always been edgy, wondering if they are still going to be there when i get home.


Hi Pebbles... wave


I think between you and Prowler, something awfully bad must have led to your unease.. sad flower
Aug 15, 2011 7:43 AM CST How do you feel
Faithe
FaitheFaithePortland, Victoria Australia5 Threads 4,169 Posts
Merriweather: Hi Pebbles... I think between you and Prowler, something awfully bad must have led to your unease..


Yes it must have, sad isnt it sad flower
Aug 15, 2011 7:52 AM CST How do you feel
pebblesinastream
pebblesinastreampebblesinastreamyarra valley, Victoria Australia5 Threads 449 Posts
Merriweather: Hi Pebbles... I think between you and Prowler, something awfully bad must have led to your unease..
no,when i was married, i worked too hard,didnt give enough time to home life,but i needed to to survive,you just need a compaqtible person,that loves you for who you are,through good times and bad.if v ever marry again or live with someone, i know ill hav to try and balance work and play so were both happy,but its easier now you learn frrom mistakes i hope i hav anyway.
Aug 15, 2011 7:59 AM CST How do you feel
melty1
melty1melty1Goolwa, South Australia Australia11 Threads 2 Polls 4,121 Posts
I dont mind my ex. I consider him a friend. He knows me better than anyone and cares about his kids which is good. he still can get on my nerves though. roll eyes
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