If you are "Not Single, Not Looking" Why do you have a profile on a DATING SITE??? ( Archived) (194)

Oct 25, 2014 4:45 AM CST If you are "Not Single, Not Looking" Why do you have a profile on a DATING SITE???
BerrySmoothie: What happens at 11:01am Molly?
she turns into a........frog pointing giggle giggle giggle
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Oct 25, 2014 4:54 AM CST If you are "Not Single, Not Looking" Why do you have a profile on a DATING SITE???
paydaydave: I think the title kind of says it all.

Personally I find it offensive when they come up as my matches...???

I'm here to meet someone...hopefully! So why match me with someone who doesn't want to meet someone?

"Not single, Not looking" should NOT be an option when filling out a profile on a dating site!

Find something else to pass your time...LIKE YOUR MATE!!

Maybe get a hobby or join a gym, a job, whatever?

It will be curious to see who dis-agrees with this and why!!


Errr...considering this is a site for singles.....and we were given a choice to be what we want to be I'd say this is a perfect site for all singles.

If they match you up with someone who says they don't want to date....that's not our problem...that's the problem of the creator of this site for not having the proper programming.
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Oct 25, 2014 5:02 AM CST If you are "Not Single, Not Looking" Why do you have a profile on a DATING SITE???
paydaydave: Old school, I guess... advice and suggesting I'm a "control freak", from a coward who won't show their face on their profile?? Apparently you have your own phobias.

A dating site is for "dating", not for someone who can't find a "friend" to share a hobby with. If I was looking for a collecting comic books, or model railroading, or ice fishing companion, the last place I would look is on a dating site!

Seems you defend this ridiculous notion because you are scared to meet someone, because you are comfortable being alone, have no life and like to put your 2 cents so you feel like your life has meaning.

Sorry life broke you!


OMG,who relieved themselves into your CHEERIOS?wow laugh
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Oct 25, 2014 5:46 AM CST If you are "Not Single, Not Looking" Why do you have a profile on a DATING SITE???
paydaydave: I think the title kind of says it all.

Personally I find it offensive when they come up as my matches...???

I'm here to meet someone...hopefully! So why match me with someone who doesn't want to meet someone?

"Not single, Not looking" should NOT be an option when filling out a profile on a dating site!

Find something else to pass your time...LIKE YOUR MATE!!

Maybe get a hobby or join a gym, a job, whatever?

It will be curious to see who dis-agrees with this and why!!




Very well said Dave..

Have a nice day..

thumbs up
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Oct 25, 2014 5:55 AM CST If you are "Not Single, Not Looking" Why do you have a profile on a DATING SITE???
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
What is ConnectingSingles all about?


ConnectingSingles is a 100% free community with loads of quality features to help you connect with friends worldwide. Have you been surfing the web because you're single now and at a loss looking for a safe and comfortable place to connect with others? We understand what you're going through, as we've all gone through this. It's hard because there are so many sites out there and you can waste a lot of time signing up and finding your way around only to find it isn't right for you, or you have been misled about costs and features. Well, we're glad you're here and, after we tell you a little about ConnectingSingles, we hope you will decide to Join the Group and feel at home here.



ConnectingSingles is all about you. First off, the site is exactly as advertised, totally 100% free to use, with loads of free features and high quality, easy to use design. Our goal is to make our members look their best and give them all the features they need and all the opportunities possible to get acquainted and connect. We all have the dream of joining up, immediately finding 'The One', and living happily ever after. But realistically it takes time and patience to find that someone who is perfect for you. In the meantime, we would also like to help you meet new friends and enjoy your search. Besides searching for that special person, there are lots of things to do here and lots of ways to get to know others.



YOUR OWN SITE PAGE. As a member you will have your own site page here. From your CS site page you can post photos, polls, your favorite videos, blog, or create ecards. Your friends can be added and your fans displayed. And you will have your own admin page to manage it.


Your site on CS is your place where friends and members can come to view all these items, to contact you, send you flowers, rate your photos and leave you comments, shouts, and testimonials.


Your profile will also be listed on the community’s site pages available for a variety of searches. All CS features have been designed to help connect members here. Every time you use these features, post in the forum, write in your blog, create an ecard or a poll, comment on a video, rate someone’s photo, view a profile, or add a Friend, you will bring attention to your site page and bring mail to your inbox. The more features you use, the more exposure you will have to members searching for someone just like you.


Each one of us is a package... not just a photo, and so much more than the personal ad we write to make ourselves look good to browsing members. The more you get to know about a member, the more help you’ll have in making a decision of whether to take a new friendship further, to meet up, and to spend more time with them.


You complain at this price!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!cool
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Oct 25, 2014 6:03 AM CST If you are "Not Single, Not Looking" Why do you have a profile on a DATING SITE???
jac379: PS. You're coming across as a control freak.



^ this
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Oct 25, 2014 6:14 AM CST If you are "Not Single, Not Looking" Why do you have a profile on a DATING SITE???
Rogerzoekt
RogerzoektRogerzoektBrivezac, Nouvelle-Aquitaine France33 Threads 26 Polls 191 Posts
been a while since i posted something here and its fun to see the police is still there to monitor all the postings that 'freshies' do here.

i once started a similar topic (almost did not survive it) and i agree with the poster of this one although its an old posting, its still actual.

the posting before mine obviously comes from one of the real moderators of this site cause its a non judgemental and wise reply. respect.

nevertheless i still feel the same way as the starter of this topic, and in respect of the founders of the site that indeed offers a great working free platform, the only flaw in my opinion is the chosen name.

it should be called 'connecting people' more than 'connecting singles'.
that covers the load a bit better.

cheers

roger
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Oct 25, 2014 6:22 AM CST If you are "Not Single, Not Looking" Why do you have a profile on a DATING SITE???
Dragos1
Dragos1Dragos1Metro, Oregon USA54 Threads 1 Polls 1,982 Posts
pinay_survivor: Very well said Dave..

Have a nice day..


Meant to say, this picture is very nice.

innocent


cool
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Oct 25, 2014 6:32 AM CST If you are "Not Single, Not Looking" Why do you have a profile on a DATING SITE???
Dragos1: Meant to say, this picture is very nice.




thank you so much ..

taken last thursday..
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Oct 25, 2014 6:36 AM CST If you are "Not Single, Not Looking" Why do you have a profile on a DATING SITE???
Dragos1
Dragos1Dragos1Metro, Oregon USA54 Threads 1 Polls 1,982 Posts
pinay_survivor: thank you so much ..

taken last thursday..


Well, it is indeed a very nice one. I hope you keep it up there.
rose
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Oct 25, 2014 6:37 AM CST If you are "Not Single, Not Looking" Why do you have a profile on a DATING SITE???
abcWOMAN
abcWOMANabcWOMANLuleå, Norrbotten Sweden20 Threads 2 Polls 1,583 Posts
mollybaby: You mean he is Not Looking for women outside of Canada?

He has broken one of his self-imposed rules himself.


Yes, he's not looking for a woman outside Canada (according to his profile) on an international dating site.blues
CS has given him the option to choose "Canada only" like other choose "not single/not looking"! dancing
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Oct 25, 2014 6:45 AM CST If you are "Not Single, Not Looking" Why do you have a profile on a DATING SITE???
strict
strictstricttehran, Iran5 Threads 2,018 Posts
rivame: cutting a long answer short....many were single when joining ...

made friends over the years and are here for those frienships..

hope that explains it

I was going to say it
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Oct 25, 2014 12:29 PM CST If you are "Not Single, Not Looking" Why do you have a profile on a DATING SITE???
Rogerzoekt: been a while since i posted something here and its fun to see the police is still there to monitor all the postings that 'freshies' do here.

i once started a similar topic (almost did not survive it) and i agree with the poster of this one although its an old posting, its still actual.

the posting before mine obviously comes from one of the real moderators of this site cause its a non judgemental and wise reply. respect.

nevertheless i still feel the same way as the starter of this topic, and in respect of the founders of the site that indeed offers a great working free platform, the only flaw in my opinion is the chosen name.

it should be called 'connecting people' more than 'connecting singles'.
that covers the load a bit better.

cheers

roger

they still pi$$ing in your Porridge?rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 25, 2014 12:39 PM CST If you are "Not Single, Not Looking" Why do you have a profile on a DATING SITE???
M1ck1e
M1ck1eM1ck1eWestfield, Massachusetts USA2 Threads 1 Polls 663 Posts
They are looking...looking for trouble.
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Oct 25, 2014 12:50 PM CST If you are "Not Single, Not Looking" Why do you have a profile on a DATING SITE???
equiya
equiyaequiyaunknown, Ontario Canada2 Threads 4,055 Posts
Conrad73: they still pi$$ing in your Porridge?


I think so and the OPs too, even after 2 years.
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Oct 25, 2014 12:52 PM CST If you are "Not Single, Not Looking" Why do you have a profile on a DATING SITE???
equiya
equiyaequiyaunknown, Ontario Canada2 Threads 4,055 Posts
M1ck1e: They are looking...looking for trouble.


yesssssssssssssss
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Oct 25, 2014 12:53 PM CST If you are "Not Single, Not Looking" Why do you have a profile on a DATING SITE???
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
bohemianjack: Imagine that... Reviving a thread broadcasting a bitter outlook that hasn't produced a date..


For shame eh? Some wallow in misery and will question for decades why nobody wants them and others make the best of each day, remain hopeful and positive because it's their nature to be that way and they will attract. Even they may not find someone but they're happy campers nontheless. conversing grin
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Oct 25, 2014 12:58 PM CST If you are "Not Single, Not Looking" Why do you have a profile on a DATING SITE???
postneoludite
postneoluditepostneoluditeWest Vancouver, British Columbia Canada39 Threads 22 Polls 890 Posts
2intrigued: For shame eh? Some wallow in misery and will question for decades why nobody wants them and others make the best of each day, remain hopeful and positive because it's their nature to be that way and they will attract. Even they may not find someone but they're happy campers nontheless.


Well said, Queen of the Night devil
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Oct 25, 2014 1:01 PM CST If you are "Not Single, Not Looking" Why do you have a profile on a DATING SITE???
silverwolf109
silverwolf109silverwolf109Mio, Michigan USA1 Threads 1 Polls 36 Posts
You make a very good point. I ran into one of those the other day and it didn't make any sense to me. The thing I really find irritating here is going through all the preferences and age groups, and I still get matches that smoke or are looking for someone younger.
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Oct 25, 2014 1:03 PM CST If you are "Not Single, Not Looking" Why do you have a profile on a DATING SITE???
2intrigued: For shame eh? Some wallow in misery and will question for decades why nobody wants them and others make the best of each day, remain hopeful and positive because it's their nature to be that way and they will attract. Even they may not find someone but they're happy campers nontheless.
I,m a happy camper.....shal I show you how to put up a tent....batting batting giggle rolling on the floor laughing
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