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josingleinspain: Had an ex and he /she goes on a date the fist time after the break up, and feel really upset by that. If so why do you think it feels that way.
Would you think it is because there is still feeling there????
Would you think it is because there is still feeling there????
That's a good question. I wouldn't be upset. It would just finalize that he found someone to replace me and if he's happy then why be upset about it.
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josingleinspain: Had an ex and he /she goes on a date the fist time after the break up, and feel really upset by that. If so why do you think it feels that way.
Would you think it is because there is still feeling there????
Would you think it is because there is still feeling there????
It could be that,
or it could be Dog in the Manger' syndrome- I don't want him,but I don't want anybody else to have him either...
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secretagent09: That's a good question. I wouldn't be upset. It would just finalize that he found someone to replace me and if he's happy then why be upset about it.
That is how I feel he has replaced me very easily. The thing is I really feel and deep down know I deserve better that what he gave. I can not understand why it upsets me.------ This thread is Archived ------
josingleinspain: Had an ex and he /she goes on a date the fist time after the break up, and feel really upset by that. If so why do you think it feels that way.
Would you think it is because there is still feeling there????
Would you think it is because there is still feeling there????
Really only an answer you know......Maybe it's stil very fresh in your mind..?, even though you broke up, im sure you did have your share of quality time together at one stage, just very fresh i think.....takes time
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josingleinspain: That is how I feel he has replaced me very easily. The thing is I really feel and deep down know I deserve better that what he gave. I can not understand why it upsets me.
possibly it is because you do not want to admit to yourself you made a bad choice to start out with
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josingleinspain: That is how I feel he has replaced me very easily. The thing is I really feel and deep down know I deserve better that what he gave. I can not understand why it upsets me.
Do you know for sure that he replaced you easily? Perhaps he was going through anxiety from the breakup. The woman he's seeing could be just a fling, not a replacement.
Instead of thinking about how much you miss him, think about everything that went wrong in your relationship. Checks and balances sometimes have a way of telling what was going on.
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purr4mance: possibly it is because you do not want to admit to yourself you made a bad choice to start out with
O I do know it was never gonna be a relationship that could stand the test of time....I just wondered if it is just me or do others feel the same too.------ This thread is Archived ------
josingleinspain: That is how I feel he has replaced me very easily. The thing is I really feel and deep down know I deserve better that what he gave. I can not understand why it upsets me.
You obviously still have feelings for him. You loved him once, and gave him your all. Now you're left wondering if it was enough.
Don't worry about him. Look after yourself and the feelings will fade. Soon he'll just be a distant memory and you'll not care what he's doing with whoever.
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josingleinspain: O I do know it was never gonna be a relationship that could stand the test of time....I just wondered if it is just me or do others feel the same too.
How long were you in this relationship?
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josingleinspain: O I do know it was never gonna be a relationship that could stand the test of time....I just wondered if it is just me or do others feel the same too.
then why did you enter it ???????
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secretagent09: How long were you in this relationship?
We were living together for 2 years and met 8 months before.------ This thread is Archived ------
get over it and move on there is all some thing better
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josingleinspain: We were living together for 2 years and met 8 months before.
Well, in my opinion, you lived together long enough to know the good and the bad traits of each other.
You're used to him. Believe me, I know the feeling.
You are feeling a void now that he's not in your life anymore.
It's fine to think about how much you miss him BUT also think about all those arguments that you had in those two years. That will put you back on track.
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Emmmm I thought you wrote this thred two years ago.....doesent time fly by......when your enjoying yourself.......
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josingleinspain: Had an ex and he /she goes on a date the fist time after the break up, and feel really upset by that. If so why do you think it feels that way.
Would you think it is because there is still feeling there????
well no , not by a long chalk , blurted out when I was told "poor Bas@@@@ " Would you think it is because there is still feeling there????
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josingleinspain: Had an ex and he /she goes on a date the fist time after the break up, and feel really upset by that. If so why do you think it feels that way.
Would you think it is because there is still feeling there????
Would you think it is because there is still feeling there????
Just from my perspective - it hurts, even if there is no desire to go back to someone.
It's not logical, but love isn't always logical & you most likely have loved this person before.
I would prefer not to even hear of this stuff going on.
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Perhaps a form of jealousy, by that I mean, after any breakup there will be sadness, at least for one of the partners. If one then enters a new relationship, the other could be wondering why he/she should be happy when they are still sad.
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KNenagh: Just from my perspective - it hurts, even if there is no desire to go back to someone.
It's not logical, but love isn't always logical & you most likely have loved this person before.
I would prefer not to even hear of this stuff going on.
Yes indeed love make no sense at all. There is just no logic to it at all.It's not logical, but love isn't always logical & you most likely have loved this person before.
I would prefer not to even hear of this stuff going on.
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josingleinspain: Had an ex and he /she goes on a date the fist time after the break up, and feel really upset by that. If so why do you think it feels that way.
Would you think it is because there is still feeling there????
Would you think it is because there is still feeling there????
Yes because there is still feeling. And it sucks!
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Would you think it is because there is still feeling there????